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SignorinaC -> Novice in Washington DC (7/14/2006 10:36:50 PM)
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I am a 44 year old woman who is very open minded. I love to learn and am curious by nature...I have a simple question...I am interested (very) in someone whom is a submissive- I am very assertive to the point of considering myself Dominant. In conversing with him, we have discovered this about each other.
This is not the first time I have considered that I am on the Dominant side, I just never explored further and have reached the point of maturity in my sexuality that makes me want to learn about this.
I suppose that what I am looking to find out, if you can forgive my ignorance is-- wjhat were your first Dominant experiences like? I know that some people must get into this without props or equipment or certain forms of dressing, while others enjoy all of the latter to intensify the experience...
He (my future sub) and I are definitely moving forward in the direction of this becoming a future sensual encounter. We have not yet been sexual, but we have kissed and been in each other's presence...
I have a strong need to put him in his place and demand oral servitude and undying devotion...come up with training, then rules and also consequences for bad behavior...is there a "primer" for mistresses?
May sound silly but I want this experience to be fulfilling, since we both are novices, and I want so very badly to please myself and in turn, he wants me to Dominate...reprogram his thinking and lead him by a leash, whether invisible or visible...
Forgive my naivite, and I say this all due Respect to the Women who have come to walk this path... Thanks, any advice/direction is very much appreciated...
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