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yourshades -> First profile , First post , HELP ! (3/20/2015 5:00:47 PM)

Hi , and help or guidance would be appreciated . I am very serious about handing control and power to another but not sure how to navigate here. Can you please help me ?

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Baroana -> RE: First profile , First post , HELP ! (3/20/2015 5:03:17 PM)

Dear lord, where to start....

Forget Fifty Shades. It's got nothing to do with reality.

Take the Fifty Shades photos off of your profile. They advertise that you're a clueless Fifty Shades fan, AND they depict female submission, which will turn off the female dominants you are trying to attract.

Don't advertise or look for someone to hand all control and power over to. That's porn, not reality. It sends the message that you are not realistic, and you don't know what BDSM is all about.

Understand that if you are fortunate enough to find a dominant female interested in taking up with you, she is going to want a real life relationship.

Talk about yourself in your profile, and highlight what's interesting and attractive about you as an individual (just like any other dating site).



yourshades -> RE: First profile , First post , HELP ! (3/20/2015 5:15:58 PM)

Thanks you so much !!!



peppermint -> RE: First profile , First post , HELP ! (3/21/2015 8:45:14 AM)

Do you think watching videos gives you some sort of BDSM experience? Why have that in your profile? It just shows that you expect what you saw in a fictional movie. In movies pigs talk, but I doubt people go to farm auctions looking for a talking pig. The mention of watching videos makes you appear to be unrealistic as to what real life is about.



Nthrall -> RE: First profile , First post , HELP ! (3/21/2015 9:25:33 AM)

Ve have vays of making zem pork!



GoddessManko -> RE: First profile , First post , HELP ! (3/21/2015 10:18:28 AM)

OP seems genuine and serious about this so I'll point him here. http://www.collarchat.com/m_4771199/tm.htm Otherwise get to a munch and introduce yourself to local kinksters until you meet someone that'll inspire submission.



RockaRolla -> RE: First profile , First post , HELP ! (3/21/2015 1:28:02 PM)

You got some decent advice on the other thread you started. I'd go with that instead of asking the same questions.



Anchises -> RE: First profile , First post , HELP ! (4/18/2015 10:00:40 PM)

It's all about trust.



MasterDrakkula -> RE: First profile , First post , HELP ! (4/24/2015 2:32:08 PM)

Please stop stealing other peoples fuking pictures When people do i am keen to introduce a knobkerrie into my answer, or a mace - dont see many of them about these days sad face hehe is that a 50sahdes picture?

So will you with a stolen picture be offering more stolen pictures or your soul to another and tell me of this other and your soul add it to your profile.

Your name is fine as womens minds are strange and illogical

I find most words and videos thee spake off propagate bad stereotypes and misbegotten mythology and truisms that gobble up all the bad press

Everyone above me has said this in their own ways



IronicTautology -> RE: First profile , First post , HELP ! (4/24/2015 3:00:58 PM)

"Your name is fine as womens minds are strange and illogical "

You don't say!



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