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PeonForHer -> RE: Discussion! (3/26/2015 6:08:57 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DerangedUnit I have nightmares about being ganged up on by dominatrixes ×_× .... a reoccurring theme. All the female dominants I've know our interactions have been platonic and mostly a spiffy back and forth... yet whenever I'm really stressed those are the nightmares I have so I guess subconsciously I'm really terrified of dominant women. ... Or you're scared of the dominant woman inside yourself coming out.

PeonForHer -> RE: Discussion! (3/26/2015 6:10:07 AM)
quote: A tad condescending - I think he knew that. ;-)

DerangedUnit -> RE: Discussion! (3/26/2015 6:11:59 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: PeonForHer quote: ORIGINAL: DerangedUnit I have nightmares about being ganged up on by dominatrixes ×_× .... a reoccurring theme. All the female dominants I've know our interactions have been platonic and mostly a spiffy back and forth... yet whenever I'm really stressed those are the nightmares I have so I guess subconsciously I'm really terrified of dominant women. ... Or you're scared of the dominant woman inside yourself coming out. Or Freud was right and it all points back to my mommy issues

Kittenluv954 -> RE: Discussion! (3/26/2015 6:37:00 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: PeonForHer quote: A tad condescending - I think he knew that. ;-) of course he did, thats why he's been deemed a woman hater. he just can't contain his loathing, even for discussion sake.

shiftyw -> RE: Discussion! (3/26/2015 7:35:11 AM)
Thanks ladies- it is something I hope to do someday- so it is nice to know if the triangle was right- it would work.

RockaRolla -> RE: Discussion! (3/26/2015 5:50:25 PM)
I'd like to be able to top a woman in the future, and like co-topping. So it's doable for me. I have to be very familiar and comfortable with both the girl and whoever's topping with me. And honestly, co-topping with a guy is more likely - I have a hard time picturing myself in a group scenario without a guy in the mix.

JVoV -> RE: Discussion! (3/26/2015 6:06:31 PM)
I'm not against the idea of being Dom to a male/female sub couple. Or joining a Domme in a scene or two with her boy.

GoddessManko -> RE: Discussion! (3/26/2015 7:39:56 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: JVoV I'm not against the idea of being Dom to a male/female sub couple. Or joining a Domme in a scene or two with her boy. Yay! We need more like you. I have done the forced bi thing but think it would be so much better with a D who's confident in his topping abilities. quote: ORIGINAL: DarkSteven Manko, that's an interesting post. I've done play before as a single top with two bottoms, or two tops and one bottom, or two tops and two bottoms. You get the energy of more people. Sometimes the flow is all positive and it's phenomenal. Sometimes the rhythm or energy just doesn't work right. However, I just do it and see what happens. Your post implies that you could see ahead of time if it would work or not. I wish I had that kind of foresight. You're awesome DS. It is both a blessing and a curse. The curse is I overthink things (they probably have no idea I really plan out the scenes, LOL), the blessing is I do things seamlessly and quickly like I've done them 100 times before. It's awesome. I really try to gauge personalities as best I can and I let people know playfully what scenarios roll through my head once they show interest and depending on their answers I think "Oh yes! This is happening!" Especially the ones who think "hmmm, does she know what she's doing?" before the claws come out, LOL.

NookieNotes -> RE: Discussion! (3/27/2015 2:07:20 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: JVoV I'm not against the idea of being Dom to a male/female sub couple. Or joining a Domme in a scene or two with her boy. Ah! If only you were closer! I would have a waiting list a mile long for those sorts of fun times! LOL!

TeamRocket -> RE: Discussion! (3/27/2015 4:58:58 AM)
I can't seem to make co-topping work without a sub present though :( Any pointers?

NookieNotes -> RE: Discussion! (3/27/2015 5:58:12 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: TeamRocket I can't seem to make co-topping work without a sub present though :( Any pointers? Get a sub! LOL!

slvemike4u -> RE: Discussion! (3/27/2015 7:52:42 AM)
Succinct...I like that in a Domme [:D]

TeamRocket -> RE: Discussion! (3/28/2015 6:13:45 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: NookieNotes Get a sub! LOL! Hahaha working on it!

LookieNoNookie -> RE: Discussion! (3/28/2015 7:21:57 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Baroana I want to have a discussion about opinions, but I don't want to initiate a topic that's already beaten intro the ground, nor do I want to start a fight. So... what's an opinion you have about female dominance? I want to have a discussion about shit I'm interested in. I actually don't care if anyone else shares my opinion....I just wanna talk about it. So, what is your opinion about the shit I want to talk about?

tiggerspoohbear -> RE: Discussion! (3/28/2015 7:28:53 PM)
Well then, what do you want to discuss Lookie? Go for it!

LookieNoNookie -> RE: Discussion! (3/28/2015 7:33:50 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: tiggerspoohbear Well then, what do you want to discuss Lookie? Go for it! There's sooooooooo much shit. So tell me what you think.

Baroana -> RE: Discussion! (3/28/2015 8:01:55 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LookieNoNookie I want to have a discussion about shit I'm interested in. ... Yes, most people want to discuss shit their interested in. Few, if any people, want to discuss shit they don't care about. Since this is the "Ask a Mistress" forum, I should think that if there's any place where it's appropriate to start a discussion about female dominance, it's here. quote: ORIGINAL: LookieNoNookie I actually don't care if anyone else shares my opinion....I just wanna talk about it. ... True, I don't care if anyone else shares my opinion. In fact, it's much more interesting if each participant in the discussion has a different viewpoint. quote: ORIGINAL: LookieNoNookie So, what is your opinion about the shit I want to talk about? ... Yes, what is your opinion? Please share it if you have one. If you would like to discuss a different topic, please feel free to initiate another discussion. Are there too many active topics in this forum already? If so, that's my mistake and I apologize for trying to get another one going.

tiggerspoohbear -> RE: Discussion! (3/28/2015 8:19:32 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LookieNoNookie quote: ORIGINAL: tiggerspoohbear Well then, what do you want to discuss Lookie? Go for it! There's sooooooooo much shit. So tell me what you think. There is toooooo much shit. I often browse different threads then follow them. My response, out loud to myself, is that we're no longer kiddies in grade school but grown ass adults. ACT LIKE IT FFS!!!! A lot of people do the "woe is me" or the perma-attack from word one. Why? What do you honestly get out of it? Does hiding behind a screen give you that much of a power trip? I really am curious as to what drives the brain to these extremities. .. I have finally learned to laugh at 99% of it and sit on my hands for the other 1%.

masmiss -> RE: Discussion! (3/29/2015 7:36:27 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Gauge quote: ORIGINAL: Baroana I want to have a discussion about opinions, but I don't want to initiate a topic that's already beaten intro the ground, nor do I want to start a fight. So... what's an opinion you have about female dominance? I read one on the bathroom wall once. It went as follows: A Female Dominant was here! This was written in a mens bathroom. They are such risk takers. As someone who will use the men's room if there's a long line at the ladies' I never thought to leave a message documenting my visit!

Charles6682 -> RE: Discussion! (3/29/2015 11:22:52 PM)
Female Dominance. As a Male Sub who has been into Female Dominance most of my life, a few ideas come to mind. I think its a big middle finger to the "Male Dominated" society that some cultures live in. For me personally, I have found the "Power of the Feminine" to have a major impact on my life. Even as far as a Spiritual level, with Spiritual Goddess's etc. I have learned a lot about Womens history. Female Dominance has been an addiction for me in the past. When I say that, I mean FemDom porn, which I know isn't real Female Dominance. I have lived this life long enough to realize its pro and cons of its impact on me. I think the good traits have having respect for Women have been very powerful. Beyond just the sexual/fetish nature as well. I find personally, I can learn a lot from positive Women about myself. I have also learned that not every single Female is a soft, caring soul. I have learned to only be around positive Women with a kind heart.

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