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sweetieDA -> RE: Something you'd like to try still? (4/6/2015 6:21:57 PM)
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Yeah, I like the idea of a 'pain day' - a day where I am in continuous pain or discomfort from when I wake up to when I go to sleep.
It can be as mild as a washing peg moved from one arm to the other or as heavy as whipping / piercing / caning / chillies - but the point is that, unlike other kinds of pain I have experienced, there is no end point, there is only a shift point where the pain changes.
My reason for wanting this is not to experience pain (I get enough of that) but out of curiosity to see how I react after the pain has been ongoing for several hours; do I resign myself to it? Do I embrace it? Do I despise it and get angry? Do I have a psychological shift from seeing the pain as unwanted to seeing it as normal? Do I become more or less submissive? I'm just really curious.
I'm also interested in speculums, especially the ass.
I quite like the idea of being loaned out in a service sense - so given to another Dom to clean his house for the day, or loaned to an event as a maid or house sub. I'm intrigued by the idea of submitting to someone I don't necessarily like or want to submit to, I like the disconnect and objectification of it.
Finally, I'm still way into orgasm denial. If I could get to a year, I'd be well happy. I made it to nearly 11 months before but I still feel like I didn't really explore it properly. Long, long term orgasm denial would tick a lot of boxes for me.
There's probably loads of other stuff. I find that, in BDSM, I never stop growing and changing and becoming interested in new things. Just when I think I've ticked it all off, I find a whole bunch of other stuff that I want to get into, and I like that.
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