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Something you'd like to try still? - 3/25/2015 1:26:08 PM   
shiftyw


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Status: offline 		Is there something in BDSM you haven't done but would still like to try?
Is there something you've done but didn't end up liking?

(I know we have these threads periodically, but I'm tired of deep discussions- I think these are fun and we could all lighten up a bit huh?)
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RE: Something you'd like to try still? - 3/25/2015 1:43:51 PM   
GoddessManko


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Status: offline 		LOL, Flashback! I am (considering) owning 3 boys for my sadistic kinkism and keeping one purely for service, collaring rather than just casual play. They're all pretty open/kinky so it might happen, who knows! Additionally collaring a female sub is also on the table. I am not sure how romantic these prospects will get though. I'm not exactly swooning, it's more trying to imagine different scenes and more elaborate with more players. I'd only cohabitate with 1 or 2 maximum though. Pretty much still all in my head though since 2 are far away and one is away for work.
Also it might not happen, just my mind at work but I might say "fuck it" and just find a nice local guy to have fun with, who knows.
What didn't work for me...hmmm, pet play. I was pretty open to it until a sub gave me an "injured animal" look with just a tiny bit of play. It felt so feigned and omg, grossing me out every time I think about it. It was like the girl who could take 12 inches but screaming her head off at foreplay. I tried to get a natural reaction and it wasn't happening, it totally killed it for me. *sigh* I really liked him too, oh well.

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RE: Something you'd like to try still? - 3/25/2015 2:17:15 PM   
Kana


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Is there something in BDSM you haven't done but would still like to try?

Yep. I want to mace a girl in the cunt
(There's lots more but that should give you the idea.)
quote:

Is there something you've done but didn't end up liking?

Yep. Thought I'd love shibari. Instead found it kinda boring. I like the aesthetics, but I'm waaaay to ADD a man for that shit

Edited for punctuation

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RE: Something you'd like to try still? - 3/25/2015 2:21:23 PM   
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Status: offline 		The ball and spikes mace? Or the spray? Cuz just make her snuff up a bunch of cayenne with it, way less expense for you. If its the ball and spikes job, get me a picture of me standing next to that shit, dude. I'd lead off my portfolio with that bitch.

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RE: Something you'd like to try still? - 3/25/2015 2:27:08 PM   
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Not so much BDSM but more along the lines of D/s or M/s ...

On those rare occasions when I need to ask one of my ladies to get me a soda, it usually goes something along the lines of: "Sweetheart, the next time you go downstairs, if you're going to be coming back up, could you get me a soda, please?"

I want one day where three ladies are there to do nothing but wait on me, hand-and-foot and service me in any way I see fit where I don't have to engage in the niceties (I've always said it should be my birthday); where, instead of what I typed above, my behavior would be more along the lines of: "Why is my soda cup empty, sluts?"

The one thing I got a chance to try that wasn't as cool as I'd imagined was electrical play. My uncle's PhD is in Electrical Engineering and he guided me through rebuilding an old violet wand machine. I tried it out on a couple of different ladies and the results were less than what I'd expected. While I guess I could chalk it up to the ladies' responses to the experience, I just didn't get much out of it, myself so, it's a no-go, now.



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RE: Something you'd like to try still? - 3/25/2015 2:38:04 PM   
Kana


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ORIGINAL: mnottertail

The ball and spikes mace? Or the spray? Cuz just make her snuff up a bunch of cayenne with it, way less expense for you. If its the ball and spikes job, get me a picture of me standing next to that shit, dude. I'd lead off my portfolio with that bitch.

I have some military grade mace that I got from a friend who works in LE. Nasty fucking stuff. I want to use that.

But I have filled a gal with hot peppers and used her cunt as the mortar and a dildo as pestle.
Yeah, We had some incredible screams that fine eve

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RE: Something you'd like to try still? - 3/25/2015 3:00:58 PM   
mnottertail


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Status: offline 		Oh, to fill a cunt with hot peppers, string her up, and have her flogged near to death, you have never lived until you've done that.

The opera would never have been so moving without that.

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RE: Something you'd like to try still? - 3/25/2015 5:28:04 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Kana


quote:

ORIGINAL: mnottertail

The ball and spikes mace? Or the spray? Cuz just make her snuff up a bunch of cayenne with it, way less expense for you. If its the ball and spikes job, get me a picture of me standing next to that shit, dude. I'd lead off my portfolio with that bitch.

I have some military grade mace that I got from a friend who works in LE. Nasty fucking stuff. I want to use that.

But I have filled a gal with hot peppers and used her cunt as the mortar and a dildo as pestle.
Yeah, We had some incredible screams that fine eve


This would be more impressive if you'd used YOUR penis as the pestle.

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RE: Something you'd like to try still? - 3/25/2015 5:57:37 PM   
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RE: Something you'd like to try still? - 3/25/2015 8:20:42 PM   
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ORIGINAL: shiftyw
Is there something in BDSM you haven't done but would still like to try?
Is there something you've done but didn't end up liking?


Let me think. . . um, no. Whatever I found exciting to contemplate, I've already experimented with. The rest doesn't remotely interest me.

What I would like to have is more of what I've already had.

I didn't like rope tying. I'm not a rope person. If I want to work with parachute cord, I'll take up skydiving. (A lot less boring.)
Anyone who's into long spanking sessions, can exit post haste. Also boring as hell, for me.

OK. I don't want to do this as D/s, but I haven't been with a Dom before. (I haven't had great luck with switches, who go sub on me and only want to get Topped and haven't been relationship material.) The main reason why I would consider a Dom is not for BDSM, but to find a kinky straight MAN for a monogamous LTR who can be interactive both inside and outside the bedroom.

DreamLady

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RE: Something you'd like to try still? - 3/25/2015 8:27:03 PM   
shiftyw


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Status: offline 		You all can take D/s, M/s if you want- don't feel limited by my phrasing, and go to town!

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RE: Something you'd like to try still? - 3/25/2015 9:02:39 PM   
sexyred1


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Status: offline 		I was bored with Shibari.

The only thing I would like to try are certain pieces of equipment, that seem hot to be fastened to.

Otherwise, like dream lady, I just want more of what I had with someone great.

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RE: Something you'd like to try still? - 3/25/2015 9:46:50 PM   
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Status: offline 		Water tank torture is still on my to do list. I have designed and blueprinted a water tank made from thick bulletproof style plexiglass. A rectangular tank separated in two parts, with a reservoir side and a fill side. The reservoir has an aerator to circulate the water over the and heater. The water would be faintly tinted blue and a little cloudy so when it is filled only her parts pressed to the glass are perfectly clear. There is a breather hose and mouthpiece, access ports on the sides with sealed gloves to touch her while submerged and a hole in the top big enough for male genitalia.

Object: A trust and focus exercise.
The lid locks down and she can see the filler tank draining as it slowly pumps water onto her side. One of her tasks is to satisfy the male genitalia before the tank fills or she won't get the breather tube. Another task is to get her head wrapped around the fear and let herself surrender to the gloved hands once submerged. Her own underwater orgasm (scare-o-gasim) buys her freedom and release from the watery prison.



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RE: Something you'd like to try still? - 3/25/2015 11:13:34 PM   
GoddessManko


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Status: offline 		Yah, rope on skin turns me on. I like rope more than most people so I think it depends on disposition. *Takes notes from RS*

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RE: Something you'd like to try still? - 3/26/2015 3:31:38 AM   
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ORIGINAL: shiftyw

Is there something in BDSM you haven't done but would still like to try?
Is there something you've done but didn't end up liking?

(I know we have these threads periodically, but I'm tired of deep discussions- I think these are fun and we could all lighten up a bit huh?)


1.
A. Figging.
B. Rope play (basic but I have a learning block with rope).
C. Whipping.
D. Age play.
E. Puppy play.

2.
A. I tried switching once for a spanking. It seemed stupid and pointless.
B. Punishment. I had a mentoring relationship once that didn't change her behavior except short term, and it drained more and more of me each time.
C. This isn't really the answer you expected, but there are activities that I love generally, but really dislike if done with someone with whom the chemistry doesn't work.

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RE: Something you'd like to try still? - 3/26/2015 5:39:54 AM   
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Status: offline 		I'd like to try wax play.....although I'm not into getting burned, I'm told there are specific cool burning candles for this exercise

So far we haven't tried anything I didn't like, so I can't really comment on that. Of course, he knows my hard limits, so who knows, this summer may be really fun! haha

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RE: Something you'd like to try still? - 3/26/2015 9:56:39 AM   
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ORIGINAL: shiftyw

Is there something in BDSM you haven't done but would still like to try?
Is there something you've done but didn't end up liking?




I still want to do some guerrilla bondage. I want to take a single tail whipping to the point of bleeding. I want to do a cutting. There are more, I'm sure, but those are just the first that come to mind.

The only thing I've tried so far and not liked is electric play. Something about electricity makes me agitated and wanting to hit whoever is doing it. It isn't particularly painful, just... unpleasant.

There are far more new things I've tried that I had unexpected reactions to, which is even more fun.

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RE: Something you'd like to try still? - 3/26/2015 10:04:18 AM   
kdsub


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Status: offline 		The older you get the harder it is to find casual playmates… Lets face it…at 68 I am in excellent health and in shape…very good shape… but for my age… but still 68 in shape is not 30 in shape. I would love to find a 68 year old woman that just wanted to have casual fun… this is what I want to try.

Aging in the lifestyle can be frustrating. I have no problems finding women into the lifestyle but I do have problems finding those that want to engage on a casual basis.

Butch

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RE: Something you'd like to try still? - 3/26/2015 1:37:18 PM   
vivaciousgrace


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Status: offline 		Currently expanding my medical play repertoire... otherwise open to suggestions

Of course if I think the suggestion is a horrible idea I might expand my bondage/captivity repertoire by gagging you and locking you in a cupboard.

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RE: Something you'd like to try still? - 3/27/2015 9:53:50 PM   
smileforme50


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Status: offline 		There are still a lot of things I want to try...but I think the biggest is wax play. I also have an "approach with fascination/fear avoidance" relationship with the concept of cathartic spanking.

As far as something I've tried that I didn't like.....I do NOT like single tails.

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