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Where did you find your slave - 3/28/2015 4:53:31 PM

master247ltr

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As some of you know, I've been looking for a slave in my local area for a while now.

So, I'm asking all of you that has a slave and a romantic relationship with them. Where did you meet your slave

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RE: Where did you find your slave - 3/28/2015 5:02:37 PM

shiftyw

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I'm not a master- but I met my guy on OKCupid.

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RE: Where did you find your slave - 3/28/2015 5:13:47 PM

Kaliko

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(Answering from the /s side.)

Right here.

But we went the total opposite of "local."

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RE: Where did you find your slave - 3/28/2015 6:25:42 PM

SeekingTrinity

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~FRing it~

Met my guy on here as well. Well, the profile side anyway. It took a long ass time though. But it turned out to be very much worth it

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RE: Where did you find your slave - 3/29/2015 3:48:47 AM

NookieNotes

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I have a few people I see. My Pet (closest to "my slave"), I met in person at a local kink social.

A service friend, I met here on CS. A man I am enjoying flirting with and engaging in tea with, I also met at said local kink social. Another man I am flirting with, I met online.

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RE: Where did you find your slave - 3/29/2015 6:08:21 AM

ResidentSadist

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I found my slave in my garage, literally. Details in this thread, "Life is good."

My profile used to be funny. It was a lighthearted spoof laid out like a sales brochure selling myself with photo captions and the whole 9 yards. It said things like "30 years in the making," "You'll look great with your new ResidentSadist, get one today" and I even came with a guarantee and disclaimer. It first started when she wrote me and said she wanted a ResidentSadist for her birthday. So my slave-wife found me on the other side, back when it was CollarMe in 2012.

She was local, as in the next county. We dated for 90 days, then I collared her. Started living together and got married a year after the collaring.

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RE: Where did you find your slave - 3/29/2015 1:16:25 PM

DesFIP

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Wrong question. The right question is what do you need to do for someone to submit to you on that level? Is your decision making of such high caliber that someone else would have no qualms allowing you to control their finances, their health?

I must say that your profile says zero about you. It's all fetish driven. Which leads people to assume that you don't want that level of control in their daily life. Just in bedroom activities.

If so, that's great but you need to change your profile to reflect that. Because people don't look for a TPE and then happily settle for someone who just wants kinky sex.

If you want someone to feel okay giving you control over her whole life, then your whole life needs to be represented in your personal ad. You don't sell cheese by advertising paper towels.

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RE: Where did you find your slave - 3/29/2015 1:26:44 PM

GoddessManko

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I met my current slave on collarspace. My ex collared I met elsewhere and that lasted 10 years.

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RE: Where did you find your slave - 3/29/2015 1:29:08 PM

DerangedUnit

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My owner found me here(when I was in another relationship and we became friends first), though we met at a mimi's. Of the boys I currently/recently 'mentor' one first messaged me on fet and we met at the beach 30 minutes later, the other started following me at events I was a booth girl at and buying me anonymous gifts before contacting be though the yim on my business card. All of my previous girls I had met in person though, at friends parties, raves or industrial clubs.

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RE: Where did you find your slave - 3/31/2015 9:33:01 PM

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I'm a submissive, not a slave. He met me at a week long BDSM camping event. We both had profiles here but weren't searching for someone who lived so far away. That camping trip changed my life.

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RE: Where did you find your slave - 3/31/2015 10:19:47 PM

tiggerspoohbear

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My Dom got me at Slaves-R-Us. It's where all the discerning masters go.

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RE: Where did you find your slave - 4/2/2015 8:56:55 AM

Miyani

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I met my slave at the Renaissance festival. Neither of us knew the other was kinky until a couple of dates in.

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RE: Where did you find your slave - 4/2/2015 9:08:14 AM

sexyred1

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I have never met any of my serious men on a kink site.

It was either somewhere vanilla or online at vanilla sites.

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RE: Where did you find your slave - 4/2/2015 2:13:24 PM

petitespot

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I met my last serious bdsm relationship here on the boards.
The guy I'm with now who is showing dominant potential, met him the old fashioned way....in a bar.

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RE: Where did you find your slave - 4/2/2015 6:36:31 PM

camille65

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Submissive here, my Owner and I 'met' in an adult chat room. We cybered (oh the good old days lol) and gradually got to know each other. I fell in love with him long before I met him in person.

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RE: Where did you find your slave - 4/3/2015 2:33:18 PM

ResidentSadist

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quote:

ORIGINAL: tiggerspoohbear

My Dom got me at Slaves-R-Us. It's where all the discerning masters go.

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RE: Where did you find your slave - 4/3/2015 5:16:11 PM

tiggerspoohbear

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Thanks RS.

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RE: Where did you find your slave - 4/3/2015 11:56:30 PM

ResidentSadist

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You're welcome sweet tigerspoohbear.

I love photoshop and I had fun trying to make it look like the sign was lit up.

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RE: Where did you find your slave - 4/4/2015 12:09:20 AM

DaddySatyr

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I keep no slaves but I met one of my ladies on P.o.F. and one at school.

Just to be very clear: the one I met at school is also a "non-traditional" student (a student who hasn't been in high school in five years or more) and is not 18-25 years old. I have little-to-no interest in young ladies that are (almost) young enough to be my grand daughter.

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RE: Where did you find your slave - 4/4/2015 12:16:47 AM

tiggerspoohbear

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quote:

ORIGINAL: ResidentSadist

You're welcome sweet tigerspoohbear.

I love photoshop and I had fun trying to make it look like the sign was lit up.

You always do a bang-up job RS. I love your contributions!!