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I've been looking for a mistress for ages now. What am ... - 3/30/2015 3:55:42 PM   
Fitchesterlad


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Are there any serious lifestyle mistresses.

I've been looking for ages now and can only find scammers and findoms.

Pleassssseeeeee hellpppppp!!
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RE: I've been looking for a mistress for ages now. What... - 3/30/2015 3:58:45 PM   
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I see a couple people that may be responding to this thread, so will leave it for a few minutes. It will then be removed from the forum.

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RE: I've been looking for a mistress for ages now. What... - 3/30/2015 4:22:11 PM   
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Hi there,

I took a look at your profile and I can see why you are having some difficulty in finding someone. You only mention vague yet one-sided needs, all of them resulting in your desire "to serve".

Of course you can serve and obey but what are you able to offer that would make a Domme want to take you up as a submissive? If you are not going to offer anything other than your devotion and submission, well...that may not be enough to go on.

I hate to ruin a fantasy but most Dommes want a sub who is able to serve in ways that would make our lives easier.

For example, someone who has a trade (construction, plumbing, electrical, car mechanics, web design, personal massage, chauffeur, chef, etc) or someone who would be able to run some errands or cook a meal. Something that is somewhat tangible with the end results.

The reward is being able to serve your Domme and make her life easier. Play will often result with exceptional service.

My suggestion would be to revamp your profile. Don't use your appearance or obedience as your selling point. Add in your profile all the things that you would be able to offer a Domme should she accept your servitude and be prepared to work for it.

Nothing happens overnight and it may take time for a Domme to consider you...but if you are willing to work for it, then this shouldn't be a problem.

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