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PeonForHer -> How to be a Classy Femdom (4/1/2015 5:28:19 PM)
What is a 'classy femdom' - to you? If you could be the classiest of classiest, given whatever resources or magic there was, what would that look like? You're not allowed to answer with 'Me - I'm classy by definition', or similar. Please don't argue with me on this: I won't tolerate femdoms arguing with me. That is all. Get on with it.

Baroana -> RE: How to be a Classy Femdom (4/1/2015 5:36:31 PM)
Same as being a classy person. There's no difference.

NookieNotes -> RE: How to be a Classy Femdom (4/2/2015 1:29:53 AM)
I looked up the word classy. The definition was "stylish and sophisticated." I guess that's the best I can do right now, as I haven't really given this thought. I've been called classy in my day, and I don't really get it. I also don't use the term, because it seems entirely arbitrary. May I ask what your interest in "classy" is?

PeonForHer -> RE: How to be a Classy Femdom (4/2/2015 3:15:44 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: NookieNotes May I ask what your interest in "classy" is? I was reading a profile that used the word - and the femdom in question said she was looking for an equally "classy" sub. But something I've noticed - and I suspect here that this may be a Brit phenomenon, though other nations may have what they consider their equivalent: by 'classy' (for which, read 'sophisticated') she meant 'knows how to apply make up and buy stylish handbags'. She clearly didn't mean 'well-read', 'thoughtful', or in fact anything 'sophisticated' beyond dress and manners. It's not easy to describe, especially not without treading on corns. But if you've ever seen 'Abigail's Party' - that would portray it.

epiphiny43 -> RE: How to be a Classy Femdom (4/2/2015 3:28:04 AM)
I used to think it meant what it used to. As used self-referentially, it now means Expensive. You pay, she spends. Extends to High Maintenance generally, which seems to also translate as Low Satisfaction. Not limited to Femdoms, seems the rule on personals ads and sites everywhere. A great red flag! For which I'm very appreciative. Almost as much as for photos of the woman smoking.

PeonForHer -> RE: How to be a Classy Femdom (4/2/2015 3:48:14 AM)
Yep - that can come into it. I've seen women around who've made me think, 'Ah - that one demands lots and lots of money to be spent on her'. 'High maintenance' is a great shorthand. Again, not easy to pin down what gives that impression on first sight.

shiftyw -> RE: How to be a Classy Femdom (4/2/2015 4:44:21 AM)
I was once on a site where a man considered anyone with brown hair "classy" I think classy is a vastly misused word. So much so, for me- it has lost all meaning when someone says it.

hopelesslyInvo -> RE: How to be a Classy Femdom (4/2/2015 4:44:39 AM)
a classy domme always holds her whip with a raised pinky

PeonForHer -> RE: How to be a Classy Femdom (4/2/2015 5:08:30 AM)
That's true. Actually, I met a femdom once who said that she never whipped without wearing a hat. Oh well, people have different standards.

NookieNotes -> RE: How to be a Classy Femdom (4/2/2015 5:39:30 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: shiftyw I think classy is a vastly misused word. So much so, for me- it has lost all meaning when someone says it. I think this is my problem. And I think it means less than nothing when it's used self-referentially. I think that in order to be any kind of classy, that you could not choose classy as a self-descriptor. I could be wrong.

MariaB -> RE: How to be a Classy Femdom (4/2/2015 6:19:45 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: PeonForHer quote: ORIGINAL: NookieNotes May I ask what your interest in "classy" is? I was reading a profile that used the word - and the femdom in question said she was looking for an equally "classy" sub. But something I've noticed - and I suspect here that this may be a Brit phenomenon, though other nations may have what they consider their equivalent: by 'classy' (for which, read 'sophisticated') she meant 'knows how to apply make up and buy stylish handbags'. She clearly didn't mean 'well-read', 'thoughtful', or in fact anything 'sophisticated' beyond dress and manners. It's not easy to describe, especially not without treading on corns. But if you've ever seen 'Abigail's Party' - that would portray it. I think it is a British phenomenon! Steve's American fem sub tells us that she doesn't know the difference between a well spoken English voice and a strong accent (I'm so wasted on her!) ED to say, you can get a new app called "Downtonisms" which gives you tips on how to be real classy ;)

BitaTruble -> RE: How to be a Classy Femdom (4/2/2015 7:30:08 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: PeonForHer What is a 'classy femdom' - to you? Sophisticated maturity combined with old world elegance wrapped up in a modern, progressive mindset. MMV

NookieNotes -> RE: How to be a Classy Femdom (4/2/2015 7:37:36 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: BitaTruble quote: ORIGINAL: PeonForHer What is a 'classy femdom' - to you? Sophisticated maturity combined with old world elegance wrapped up in a modern, progressive mindset. MMV OMG! I am soooooo far from that. LOL!

BitaTruble -> RE: How to be a Classy Femdom (4/2/2015 7:44:18 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: NookieNotes OMG! I am soooooo far from that. LOL! I don't think you're so very far away at all.. at least not from the way you represent yourself here.

NookieNotes -> RE: How to be a Classy Femdom (4/2/2015 9:07:46 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: BitaTruble quote: ORIGINAL: NookieNotes OMG! I am soooooo far from that. LOL! I don't think you're so very far away at all.. at least not from the way you represent yourself here. Thank you. I'm flattered. I guess I don't even know how to define "sophisticated maturity," "old world elegance" and "modern, progressive mindset" in a way I feel that I could fit. I am pretty mature. I'll give you that. Not so sure about sophisticated. I'm quite the dork, much of the time. Elegant... I think I'd like to be. But, too much the dork. I dunno. I don't think of elegant people using swear words and laughing a lot (or actually wearing a 10" dildo outside the house to be a Butt-Pirate for a friend's birthday party... Picture over there <<<<, LOL!) . As far as my mindset, it's probably pretty progressive in many ways. Not sure about modern... I think there is a lot of things taken for granted by society that I don't even get. shakes fits Damn young kids get off my lawn! That all said, thank you again for the compliment. smiles

sexyred1 -> RE: How to be a Classy Femdom (4/2/2015 9:22:44 AM)
I agree it's often misused. I had guys tell me that I speak "classy" because I use "big" words, or that I have standards, or that I am high maintenance. Instead of saying I am a high maintenance woman with a love of language who wont fuck them immediately. Class also connotes higher rank, such as royalty or socio-economic levels.

Gauge -> RE: How to be a Classy Femdom (4/2/2015 10:01:52 AM)
I cannot define it, but I know classy when I see it.

PeonForHer -> RE: How to be a Classy Femdom (4/2/2015 10:28:26 AM)
FR You know what? I've actually developed the hypothesis that there are such things as classy facial expressions. Well, ones that look classy to me, anyhow. Hmm. If I can find illustrations - say, on YouTube, I'll post them here.

PeonForHer -> RE: How to be a Classy Femdom (4/2/2015 10:29:31 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: BitaTruble quote: ORIGINAL: PeonForHer What is a 'classy femdom' - to you? Sophisticated maturity combined with old world elegance wrapped up in a modern, progressive mindset. MMV It's difficult to imagine that failing to look classy. Yep. But a tall order, perhaps.

sexyred1 -> RE: How to be a Classy Femdom (4/2/2015 11:17:54 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: PeonForHer FR You know what? I've actually developed the hypothesis that there are such things as classy facial expressions. Well, ones that look classy to me, anyhow. Hmm. If I can find illustrations - say, on YouTube, I'll post them here. You may find it to often be confused with resting bitch face.

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