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ORIGINAL: littleladybug

I'm still stuck on why it would even need to be said.

In person, over the phone..."hold on a sec while I get my cock hard" just strikes me as an incredibly weird thing to actually *say*.

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ORIGINAL: RockaRolla

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ORIGINAL: littleladybug

I'm still stuck on why it would even need to be said.

In person, over the phone..."hold on a sec while I get my cock hard" just strikes me as an incredibly weird thing to actually *say*.

They were about to have phone sex, so it seems relevant. And it couldn't have been the strangest thing said between them.

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ORIGINAL: WinsomeDefiance

I understand. Your relationship is based off of words and your voice. It makes you feel sexy when you can arouse him with just your voice. You asked, however, if other women get their feelings hurt when they are in the company of their men and ...

Those posting are answering from real life/in person experience and so aren't understanding your point.

Men aren't machines, and they aren't always going to be aroused by the same exact things every time. I know it may seem like their cocks are on auto pilot most of the time but nope. I know, shocking but there you have it.

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ORIGINAL: JVoV

Hard to say without knowing the flow of conversation beforehand.

Your voice may still effect him in his happy places. But talking about unsexy things in between that first hello and getting down and dirty may just leave him deflated.

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ORIGINAL: peppermint

Would you prefer that he lie and not tell you he wasn't hard already? That way you could hold onto to the idea that he is so turned on by your voice that he needs nothing else but your voice. If that is the case then have a talk with him and explain that that is what you need.

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ORIGINAL: Daddyslilgirlx

now I feel like a whiny bitch lol

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ORIGINAL: Daddyslilgirlx
what I wanna know is whether guys just get a full hard-on without touching?
or do they have to rub it to get it fully hard? or do they only get fully hard without touching if they're super turned on?

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ORIGINAL: peppermint

Everyone has moments when we discover that the thing we are so concerned about is really not as important as we believed. Then we have an "aha" moment and try to put it all into perspective.

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ORIGINAL: sweetieDA

This makes you sound really inexperienced - perhaps you are and you just don't know and so these are genuine questions.

Men, like women, experience all different kinds of arousal and levels of sexual interest. Just like anyone, they will have days when all they want to do is fuck and then, other days, they will be more 'meh'. Other times, most times, they will be somewhere in the middle and, depending on the conversation, the may or may not get a hard on. However, the one thing that really lets you know that he wanted to have phone sex with you is that *he said so*. Penises can be volatile creatures, they don't always do what their owners want them to do, when they want them to do it. He might have had a 'semi' or a 'chub' that fell short of a full hard on, or he might have been completely unaroused, but as long as he got into it once you started then what's the problem?

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ORIGINAL: Daddyslilgirlx

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ORIGINAL: sweetieDA

This makes you sound really inexperienced - perhaps you are and you just don't know and so these are genuine questions.

Men, like women, experience all different kinds of arousal and levels of sexual interest. Just like anyone, they will have days when all they want to do is fuck and then, other days, they will be more 'meh'. Other times, most times, they will be somewhere in the middle and, depending on the conversation, the may or may not get a hard on. However, the one thing that really lets you know that he wanted to have phone sex with you is that *he said so*. Penises can be volatile creatures, they don't always do what their owners want them to do, when they want them to do it. He might have had a 'semi' or a 'chub' that fell short of a full hard on, or he might have been completely unaroused, but as long as he got into it once you started then what's the problem?

I just wanna know everything, you know? I thought men were these horny creatures ready to go at it anytime.... Don't you think the worst thing ever is a guy who's less horny than you?:(

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ORIGINAL: Daddyslilgirlx
I thought men were these horny creatures ready to go at it anytime....

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ORIGINAL: Daddyslilgirlx
Don't you think the worst thing ever is a guy who's less horny than you?:(

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ORIGINAL: sexyred1

Actually, no.
That is not the worst thing, ever.

I could tell you what the worst thing, ever is, but don't want you to lose your girlish innocence.

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ORIGINAL: sweetieDA

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ORIGINAL: Daddyslilgirlx
I thought men were these horny creatures ready to go at it anytime....

Whilst it is true that many men have high sex drives for much of the time, if you think of them as 'horny creatures ready to go at it anytime' then you're going to be repeatedly disappointed in life and relationships.

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ORIGINAL: Daddyslilgirlx
Don't you think the worst thing ever is a guy who's less horny than you?:(

Not really. I have a very high sex drive and long experience of relationships. Plus, I find stereotypes about male sexuality to be largely overstated. Men are just people, their horniness fluctuates. For all you know, he already had a wank that day, or he came really hard the night before.

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ORIGINAL: Daddyslilgirlx
Would you feel bad/unmanly as a guy, if your girl was craaaazzyy horny one day and you were just not up to it at all?

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ORIGINAL: Daddyslilgirlx
He told me he never cums the way I make him cum<3

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ORIGINAL: Daddyslilgirlx

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ORIGINAL: sweetieDA

This makes you sound really inexperienced - perhaps you are and you just don't know and so these are genuine questions.

Men, like women, experience all different kinds of arousal and levels of sexual interest. Just like anyone, they will have days when all they want to do is fuck and then, other days, they will be more 'meh'. Other times, most times, they will be somewhere in the middle and, depending on the conversation, the may or may not get a hard on. However, the one thing that really lets you know that he wanted to have phone sex with you is that *he said so*. Penises can be volatile creatures, they don't always do what their owners want them to do, when they want them to do it. He might have had a 'semi' or a 'chub' that fell short of a full hard on, or he might have been completely unaroused, but as long as he got into it once you started then what's the problem?

I just wanna know everything, you know? I thought men were these horny creatures ready to go at it anytime.... Don't you think the worst thing ever is a guy who's less horny than you?:(

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ORIGINAL: NookieNotes
I know I'm hot as hell to those I'm with, so why would I worry?

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ORIGINAL: Daddyslilgirlx
I thought men were these horny creatures ready to go at it anytime....