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MOJO8 -> Is bigger better? (11/27/2004 11:01:25 AM)

I find the bigger and stronger the Mistress the more Intimidating. Her mear stature creates such a dominating scene that it is far more real. This is not to say that only stature creates that presence, but for me it makes a session much more intense. I would like to know how other's feel.[:)]



proudsub -> RE: Is bigger better? (11/27/2004 11:41:30 AM)

You might want to read the responses to your other thread on this:

mistress of muscle



MissP -> RE: Is bigger better? (11/28/2004 4:11:41 AM)

Hmmm, I have heard the same thing a few times, but I have to say that some of the smaller ladies are extremely powerful. Having a "prescence" really doesn't requite stature.



NorthernPhoenix -> RE: Is bigger better? (11/28/2004 4:16:24 AM)

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ORIGINAL: MissP

Hmmm, I have heard the same thing a few times, but I have to say that some of the smaller ladies are extremely powerful. Having a "prescence" really doesn't requite stature.


In total agreement here. I think it's something of an 'x' factor really, either someone has it or they don't. Confidence helps it to shine though, so it might not be something that is immediately or obviously there. And someone with that presence.... *melts*

Phoenix



BlkTallFullfig -> RE: Is bigger better? (11/28/2004 1:20:21 PM)

Dear Mojo,
I've been intimidating people because of my stature for years, though I am very gentle, and not at all into physical strength play... But I suppose my stature will work to my advantage based of people's misconceptions anyway...
Since it's all in one's head, I suppose bigger is at least technically better; but I've seen plenty of smaller ladies here who are way more scary than I could ever be.
Ms M



cynnacent1 -> RE: Is bigger better? (11/28/2004 2:40:26 PM)

Can't say i have any experience as/or with a Mistress. While i am not nor have i ever been a Mistress, nor could i at all be described as being 'big' (5'2" ... 102 lbs, very petite, of very fine bone structure) even as tiny as i am, there have been a few choice moments in my life where with just a strong firm voice i have set some twice my size into moving and doing as told, and QUITE quickly i may add. Stature is not everything ... and in some instances does not matter in the least.



MsCameron -> RE: Is bigger better? (11/29/2004 10:26:27 AM)

Laughing... Well, I do know some that would disagree with you such as my submissive who is 6'1 and 210 to MY 4'10 and 120 lbs.... but to each his own :)

MsC



westside -> RE: Is bigger better? (11/29/2004 1:43:17 PM)

You should meet some of the very successful, but tiny doms I know. Submission is in the mind...



cynnacent1 -> RE: Is bigger better? (11/29/2004 8:35:18 PM)

Not certain, you are saying you agree with my comment or you do not? Your submissive ( who is 6'1 and 210 to your 4'10 and 120 lbs ) with just a strong firm vocal command is NOT set into moving and doing as told for you? ---color me confused.



subdreams1955 -> RE: Is bigger better? (11/30/2004 3:02:04 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: MissP

Hmmm, I have heard the same thing a few times, but I have to say that some of the smaller ladies are extremely powerful. Having a "prescence" really doesn't requite stature.


I agree. I've played with both large and small (and everywhere in between) and, for me, dominance radiates from within.

D



MsCameron -> RE: Is bigger better? (11/30/2004 5:05:49 AM)

I was responding to the OP. I hit the reply button on the wrong post.

Sorry to confuse :)

MsC



BeachMystress -> RE: Is bigger better? (12/3/2004 4:28:29 AM)


I am a large woman and find that some subs who want to be with me are after this type of thing. And it is true. I'm very able to hold them down, move them where I want or make them stay somewhere. The giantess. amazon or large Domme is a fantasy many seem to share.. the one of being overpowered. I find it goes along with the male rape fantasy in the subs I've met. The superior size woman overpowers him, has her way with him and once he has been "broken" in such a way (humiliated,) he then acknowledges her as superior and serves her. It can be a fun dynamic. While it is true that submission is mostly mental and a tiny woman can command also, your preferring a visual symbol of the woman's ability to control you is a valid choice. As you said, for you it is a matter of intensity.



MOJO8 -> RE: Is bigger better? (12/5/2004 12:13:45 PM)

Well stated! I am glad you too share my thoughts. Look foward to other thoughts?



GoddessDustyGold -> RE: Is bigger better? (12/6/2004 11:18:36 PM)

I am one who is tiny and many of the boys who contact Me have stated that it is exciting to them to know they are submitting to a Woman who is small. I am a lot stronger than I look, but I do not rely on the physical power. I use "the look" and the "quiet words" that bring them to their knees. So, as stated already, it is a mental thing, and there are those who get a big rush from My small stature.



plzteaseme -> RE: Is bigger better? (12/8/2004 12:21:18 AM)

I finder the smaller more petite, and younger ladies can control me more. But that's just me.



MOJO8 -> RE: Is bigger better? (12/8/2004 5:37:34 PM)

With all due respect to the other Mistress...............While I truly love a confident and dominant woman of any stature, the "bigger the better" creates an exponential effect of the dominance. Again, with all due respect that is me.........thanks for an invigorating response. Hope everyone is getting ready for a wonderful holiday season!



subgreg -> RE: Is bigger better? (12/8/2004 5:37:50 PM)

I agree that it is a matter of physical presence. While a smaller Domme can still have a commanding presence, a larger Domme is more convincing in fantasies that involve rape or other forms of physical domination. I feel this gives a greater feeling of losing control. that even if you wanted too, you could not escape. Perhaps similar to taking a beating restrained as opposed to unrestrained.



MOJO8 -> RE: Is bigger better? (12/8/2004 5:59:10 PM)

I could not agree more, but..............WITH ALL RESPECT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!



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