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New Sub looking for community - 4/29/2015 5:31:31 PM   
LipstickLeuger


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Hello,

My wife and I are newer to the D/s lifestyle and have found it hard, being from a conservative community to meet others like ourselves. We do have a small Leathermans group near, but no lesbians due to it being exclusively guys. I am very glad to see a forum for other BDSM folk. We have always participated in play upon occasion, but I have recently requested to formalize it, and my Dom has risen to the occasion with orders for me to find a group environment for support, and discussion, along with more experienced people to learn from.

A bit about us: I am a Rehab Therapist, and she is an English Arts Tutor been together a decade and with three spawn, two young adults and one mid teen. I have always harbored a large leather fetish and wore almost exclusively that in High School, much to my Protestant fathers outrage. I was originally introduced to the lifestyle by the first guy I dated, always being attracted to Doms/Alphas, either male or female, and found it much to my liking. I dallied in cutting, candles, ropes, spankings and fire play. When he became abusive, I left, determined to not be part of that life any longer due to my misunderstanding of what it actually entailed, and afraid because of an abusive Dom. I did not engage in it for many years until I met my wife and again she made me feel safe and worked to build trust. She has had several lovers that participated and so realized it was a bad Dom that turned me off from it.

Looking forward to meeting people who are like minded
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RE: New Sub looking for community - 4/30/2015 2:22:37 AM   
NookieNotes


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Welcome.

You've found community. *smiles*

Jump in, join conversations, and generally soak up all you can.

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RE: New Sub looking for community - 4/30/2015 4:51:06 PM   
LipstickLeuger


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Thank you for the welcome Nookie! I figure the waters fine here so I will be joining you all! LOL

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RE: New Sub looking for community - 5/1/2015 3:33:04 AM   
NookieNotes


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Lovely to hear it. *smiles*

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RE: New Sub looking for community - 5/1/2015 9:15:47 AM   
CreativeDominant


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quote:

ORIGINAL: NookieNotes

Welcome.

You've found community. *smiles*

Jump in, join conversations, and generally soak up all you can.

~chuckles~ she said 'soak'

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RE: New Sub looking for community - 5/1/2015 7:41:46 PM   
LipstickLeuger


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Soaks or soaked is good, real good............

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