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FieryOpal -> RE: Am I an odd Dom? (6/12/2015 9:23:30 PM)
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ORIGINAL: PyreOfThePhoenix
Do most Dom's have a standard of how they treat all their sub's?
For me it's finding what they are searching for. Their wants, desires, what gets them going and even their hard/soft....
I'm sure we all have our own personal standards, but I think you mean Domination style--hard, soft, high/mid/low protocol, parental/Daddy-Mommy/maternal, etc.
This is almost like asking whether a Kind Sadist exists, and most every sadist I know considers himself/herself to be one of those.
We all want to know what makes our partner tick and how to push their buttons. Then it becomes a matter of maturity how we choose to responsibly exercise that knowledge, or end up using it irresponsibly or recklessly.
This, in itself, has little to do with Domination. An s-type should have the same kind of acute perception. In fact, a submissive who doesn't won't last very long staying owned. Many S/switches say they are able to relate to both sides of the spectrum because they have experienced it for themselves.
If you mean that you seek to please your partner, I don't consider that to be a D/s issue, but more of one having to do with degrees of selfishness or of selflessness, caring or uncaring. Not D/s, just human character traits in varying expressions.
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