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I've been reading this for a while, and send you a PM.
After all of this, there are just a few things I'd like to point out.
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ORIGINAL: WestoriQueen
I don't think the relationship between us is particularly normal or functional but neither of us is interested in relationships in general or bothered about having sex in the conventional sense.
You are in a relationship. Every interaction with another person creates a relationship an strengthens it. A relationship need not be normal. Most of mine are not.
However lightly you may take this relationship, unhealthy is NO GOOD.
Here's why: As a dominant female, you are learning how to interact with boys.By consciously choosing to go against your own needs and desires for a boy, you are eroding your rights in your own mind, subtly and painfully.
You are choosing to settle, as if you do not have the wide world of men at your feet (you really do, it's all mindset). You are saying that someone treating you like a fetish delivery system is perfectly OK. And you are dulling your skills at cutting people that will do you more harm than good out of your life, so that the very best people can get through.
And that's OK.
After all, it's your life. And your choice.
You have better options. Thousands of them.
What if, in the next year, you thought you could have met and interacted with another dozen boys just like him, except that they were not already priming the pump with porn-fueled ideas of how you should act?
That said, I know what it's like to have a crush. So, there is also the option of learning to train him to treat you the way you want/deserve to be treated. It's an entirely new way of thinking, and takes effort. You'll probably make mistakes, but if this is just a relationship you'll have until something else comes along, it may be the perfect opportunity to start practicing behavior modification.
*smiles*
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