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A "Hint" on what to write for Doms looking fo... - 7/15/2006 7:10:07 PM

Glasgowman

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Man you guys really know what you don't want. It reminds me of an old thing about life which has always interested me. Its common when asking people what they want in there perfect partner for them to be able to mention three or four things off the cuff. Altho whats more common is when you ask them what they don't want they can ring off 100 things. Now this is like building a map of your partner or a picture of them.

If you can fill out all the parts you don't want much more clear than the part you do, then your map is gonna be much more detailed on what you don't want than what you want. So on an unconscious level you will find it easier to get what you don't want than what you want, cos that part of your map is far more clear. Its so common to hear peopel say "I always end up with the same kinda guy, why is that" or "I always attract those kinda guys, I wonder why". This can be explained by the map that you have made so well...of what you don't want!

Now keep this in mind when suggesting ideas/hints of what Doms should do?

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RE: A "Hint" on what to write for Doms lookin... - 7/15/2006 8:43:54 PM

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You know we can do away with one map completely by printing it upside down on the bottom of the other map, that way we'll never be caught with our map upside down again!

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RE: A "Hint" on what to write for Doms lookin... - 7/15/2006 8:57:42 PM

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It's pretty hard to say what you do want when your only point of reference lies in what you don't want. How many times have we found what we thought we wanted wasn't what we really wanted after all. Process of elimination dictates if we remove all the pieces that don't work, we will hopefully be left with what does.

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RE: A "Hint" on what to write for Doms lookin... - 7/15/2006 9:04:23 PM

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ORIGINAL: NastyDaddy

You know we can do away with one map completely by printing it upside down on the bottom of the other map, that way we'll never be caught with our map upside down again!

The bottom of the other map or the submissive of the other map?

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