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Hi all. Older sub sissy here introducing himself... - 5/19/2015 12:05:07 PM

garssy

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Been lurking around a while, but have recently confirmed to myself how much Imwant to be collared. Older ( over 70), widowed for 6 years and just feel a need to let my prior persona go, yet still not yet come out with some if my kinks to relatives and neighbors. That's had two trainers work with me on line to be s better sissy and recently tried to qualify for submissive dussy slave training, but Murphy leftover personality traits and a rebellious streak quickly angered him. I think I need to be collared, probably either female or male could do it although right now I feel more comfortable with a male master. But this should not necessarily be about my "comfort", should it?

I want mostly hands-on, but perhaps some on,one if distances are too great. I host, can travel, am retired so ?I am thinking lengthy sessions over multiple days. I live -59 miles N of SF on Hwy 1.

I hope I have not violated any of the rules here. The whole point is that I want to follow everybody's rules and be obedient. I will try to participate here, if I feel welcome and you all think I might belong here somewhere.

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RE: Hi all. Older sub sissy here introducing himself... - 5/27/2015 3:52:16 PM

JVoV

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Wrong side of the country for me, but welcome.

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RE: Hi all. Older sub sissy here introducing himself... - 6/19/2016 7:53:46 AM

garssy

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One year and no other response than "Welcome". Don't all speak at once. I don't think I am that undesirable.

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RE: Hi all. Older sub sissy here introducing himself... - 6/19/2016 10:36:27 AM

peppermint

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What did you really expect? This is your introduction. This was your chance to tell us about you. It was your chance to show your personality, to maybe show your sense of humor. It was your chance to tell us about what the things you enjoy doing (besides being a sissy). You spent the whole time listing what you want to have done to you. That is called a "do me" submissive. Do this to me, to that to me, I want this, I want that, etc.

No, you are not undesirable but you didn't make yourself desirable here either. There are hundreds of similar introductions here from male submissives who want to be sissified. What makes your introduction stand out from the others? Nothing.

Let me set you straight. As I just said there are lots of do me sissy introductions here. There are way more do me sissies than there are people willing to take on a do me sissy. Also, to be frank, your age is not helping. I'm not trying to make you feel bad about your age. I'm 65 and my partner is 75 so we know it's hard to find someone when you are older.

If you really want to find someone then you need to attend munches and events. In person is always better than online, especially when you have something going against you like age and wanting a kink that has few wanting to indulge you. By meeting people face to face and wowing them with your fantastic personality and your great sense of humor, you can help make up for the age issue. We have a friend who is nearly 80. He's into being tied up. He has a great personality, attends munches, attends events, and makes a lot of friends. He never lacks finding someone to tie him up. If he just wrote a blurb on the internet to find someone to tie him, he'd come up empty. However, he enjoys being tied so much that he is willing to go the extra mile to meet people to get his kink scratched.

So, if you really want to be a sissy, then you'll have to do more than write a short do me introduction on a kink site. Let us know if you are willing to go the extra step to find what you want. I'll be curious.

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We are stardust, we are golden, and we got to get ourselves back to the garden.

Yes, I am crazy about feathered creatures. I have a dozen chickens, 3 ducks, 5 geese, and 2 parakeets.

Revise that number. Just got 14 new chicks and 5 turkeys.

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RE: Hi all. Older sub sissy here introducing himself... - 6/19/2016 12:18:02 PM

peppermint

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I just noticed. You have no profile. How do you expect people to contact you?

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We are stardust, we are golden, and we got to get ourselves back to the garden.

Yes, I am crazy about feathered creatures. I have a dozen chickens, 3 ducks, 5 geese, and 2 parakeets.

Revise that number. Just got 14 new chicks and 5 turkeys.

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RE: Hi all. Older sub sissy here introducing himself... - 6/19/2016 2:54:24 PM

linaka

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Hello garssy, it's a pleasure to make your acquaintance. :)

A couple of tips regarding this site:

1). Definitely consider creating a profile as it truly is your first impression on CollarSpace.

2). Try not to let yourself be forced to add a picture to your profile. I don't have one available to the public myself with the primary reason being that I simply don't wish for just anyone online to view me. Please know that for me, this would obviously change *If* there was a mutual interest developed with a Domina.

3). Age is just a number & I strongly encourage you to remember this. There are older Masters & Dominas as well.

4). This *may* be the most important, but it's up to you: please do not allow forum members to discourage you. You will find people on here that are more than willing to discuss your current situation and offer encouraging advice through actual real life experience. Please remember that you are worthy... period.

Welcome to the forums , garssy, and very good luck with your search.

linaka~

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