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Statistics for the over 60's - 5/25/2015 4:00:43 PM   
dullfin


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Status: offline 		This is some useless information for the over 60's;

A spot survey of who, worldwide (in the 60 to 85 age bracket), is online in an average 30 minute period;

Straight male sub/slaves - 60. Straight female dominants - 6. That's 10/1. Got to be good for business.

Straight female sub/slaves - 12. Straight male dominants - 140. That's not a misprint. I'd feel threatened.

Gay male slaves - 2. Gay male dominants - 18. Help me out here, I don't understand this. Maybe the slaves are all lying about their age, pretending to be under 60?

Lesbian/gay female sub/slaves - 2. Lesbian/gay female dominants - 4. That's a surprise
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RE: Statistics for the over 60's - 5/25/2015 4:04:33 PM   
RockaRolla


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Status: offline 		I know you called it useless, but without a point to this post there's no discussion to be made.
So what's your point?
Yes, we all know there's an imbalance of viable partners across the kneel. This is not news to anyone and applies to any demographic. But not everyone is entitled to their fair share, and you're expected to work for what you want.

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RE: Statistics for the over 60's - 5/25/2015 4:06:31 PM   
ExiledTyrant


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Status: offline 		The point is there are 2 lesbian slaves that I haven't had a chance to molest yet. How did you now get that?!?!? Are you on drugs, young lady?

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RE: Statistics for the over 60's - 5/25/2015 4:13:54 PM   
RockaRolla


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ORIGINAL: dullfin

Straight male sub/slaves - 60. Straight female dominants - 6. That's 10/1. Got to be good for business.

This isn't another "Dommes just want your money" crack is it?

quote:

ORIGINAL: ExiledTyrant

The point is there are 2 lesbian slaves that I haven't had a chance to molest yet. How did you now get that?!?!? Are you on drugs, young lady?


The 4 lesbian Dommes have been keeping them busy. After extorting them, of course.

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RE: Statistics for the over 60's - 5/25/2015 4:21:36 PM   
ExiledTyrant


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RE: Statistics for the over 60's - 5/25/2015 4:33:09 PM   
RockaRolla


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Status: offline 		Hey! How did I get enlisted in this?

Will strap-ons do? I'm somewhat lacking in equipment.

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RE: Statistics for the over 60's - 5/25/2015 4:35:09 PM   
ExiledTyrant


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Status: offline 		A strap on may work... if not, throw glitter. FemLesDomme Models T101 - T1000 are always distracted by glitter.

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RE: Statistics for the over 60's - 5/25/2015 4:59:26 PM   
CynthiaWVirginia


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quote:

Straight male sub/slaves - 60. Straight female dominants - 6. That's 10/1. Got to be good for business.


It's likely that of the straight female dominants you mentioned, five or six of them aren't married and they are NOT looking for a married but cheating man to serve them. From what I've seen, most of the 60 straight male sub/slaves you mentioned...probably forty or fifty out of every sixty are married and just want some fantasy wank fodder and/or a kinky piece on the side. No thanks. :)

Men that I would be looking for...I think the ratio is more of a 1-3 SINGLE male subs within ten years younger or older than my own age (41-61) for every 1 SINGLE female dominant. (At this time through several kink sites I'm being deluged by 19-26 year old male submissives. We would have nothing in common for anything long term. I see them as possible play partners that are very temporary, as in one or two sessions, not as anyone I'd want to spend the rest of my life with.)

As for many of the fem subs and even some female dominants, you won't see them listed in the search feature because they have chosen to hide their profile. You will only know that they're there if they contact you, and in their letter it will say something like "profile hidden".

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RE: Statistics for the over 60's - 5/25/2015 5:28:04 PM   
RockaRolla


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Status: offline 		Also I just realized something: switches often show up with the same color as subs. OP has no stats on the number of male/female switches.

OP, how are you getting your numbers? Are you judging by the colors only? If so you're lumping a lot of switches in with the subs.

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RE: Statistics for the over 60's - 5/25/2015 5:41:56 PM   
dreamlady


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ORIGINAL: dullfin

A spot survey of who, worldwide (in the 60 to 85 age bracket), is online in an average 30 minute period;


Worldwide, here on CS? You do know that age doesn't update automatically and that many people who are on this site do not update their age regularly. Some don't deliberately in order to avoid getting screened out of searches.

Many users still listed as being in their 50's will not appear in your search. Others list oddball ages, such as 99 or 89, and they are not getting counted either.

Some users have multiple profiles. How are you classifying bisexuals and/or switches? Transgenders? (There are cis male non-transgendered sissy maids who classify themselves as lesbian in sexual orientation.)

Were you aware that many of the female profiles on this site have been created by men?

Also, there is no way to know for what purpose any user is on line at any given moment, whether the user is available or partnered (being half of a couple) or using a couples profile. How are you counting couples profiles, when both ages don't fall within the 60-85 age range?

Très unreliable.

Btw Cynthia, of those single male subs, I doubt that a fourth of them are straight either.

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RE: Statistics for the over 60's - 5/25/2015 8:10:07 PM   
DesFIP


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Status: offline 		One of the things I like best about CS is that here I'm still under 60. In real life, alas, that's not true.

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RE: Statistics for the over 60's - 5/25/2015 8:47:26 PM   
Spiritedsub2


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ORIGINAL: dreamlady
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(There are cis male non-transgendered sissy maids who classify themselves as lesbian in sexual orientation.)
<snip>

DreamLady[/color]


That snippet made me laugh out loud. Hard to believe it is written in English


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RE: Statistics for the over 60's - 5/25/2015 10:38:14 PM   
dreamlady


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Spiritedsub2
quote:

ORIGINAL: dreamlady
<snip>
(There are cis male non-transgendered sissy maids who classify themselves as lesbian in sexual orientation.)
<snip>
DreamLady

That snippet made me laugh out loud. Hard to believe it is written in English

That was quite a mouthful which doesn't make much sense, so let me interpret. There have been OPs (usually young and foreign) seeking a straight Domme.
They were born male.
They don't consider themselves transgender (although other people might consider them so).
They don't want to become a female anatomically (yet?).
They like to crossdress in a French maid-type outfit and be treated like a sissy maid.
Since they are heterosexual, they are attracted to women.
In their profiles, they classify themselves as lesbian submissives or slaves.
Psychologically, I would say that feeling like a female who is attracted to females, would be a transgender orientation. But this isn't for me to decide -- that decision is theirs alone to make.

So. . . that's why I inserted the 'cis male non-transgendered' spec., which was probably unnecessarily redundant.
Hey, it's been a long day grilling up those steaks. LOL

DreamLady

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RE: Statistics for the over 60's - 5/25/2015 11:22:57 PM   
peppermint


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ORIGINAL: DesFIP

One of the things I like best about CS is that here I'm still under 60. In real life, alas, that's not true.


(laughs) I am afraid to look at my profile as I don't remember when I last changed my age.

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RE: Statistics for the over 60's - 5/26/2015 1:07:31 AM   
sweetieDA


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quote:

ORIGINAL: dullfin
Straight female sub/slaves - 12. Straight male dominants - 140. That's not a misprint. I'd feel threatened.


I'll bet you any money the vast majority of those Doms are looking for younger submissives, Dd/lg dynamics, etc.

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RE: Statistics for the over 60's - 5/26/2015 3:39:36 PM   
dullfin


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Status: offline 		Interesting feedback, folks, thanks. I left out the switches, because I got lazy. And anyway, it would complicate an already complicated story, what with double counting etc. As for the false profiles, lets just assume they cancel themselves out. That's how to do statistics; ignore anything you don't understand and cut out anything you don't like..

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RE: Statistics for the over 60's - 5/26/2015 3:43:40 PM   
littleladybug


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ORIGINAL: sweetieDA

quote:

ORIGINAL: dullfin
Straight female sub/slaves - 12. Straight male dominants - 140. That's not a misprint. I'd feel threatened.


I'll bet you any money the vast majority of those Doms are looking for younger submissives, Dd/lg dynamics, etc.



And, your point is?

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RE: Statistics for the over 60's - 5/26/2015 4:10:28 PM   
dreamlady


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ORIGINAL: littleladybug
quote:

ORIGINAL: sweetieDA
I'll bet you any money the vast majority of those Doms are looking for younger submissives, Dd/lg dynamics, etc.

And, your point is?

sweetie pointed out, and Cynthia alluded to, the disparate age factor. I'd thought of mentioning it myself before, which is why I'm commenting.

Being in the same senior age group doesn't mean that everybody in that group is seeking within it for a partner.

Having 11-12 male Dom seniors to every female sub senior doesn't give her a bigger pool of potential Doms to choose from because many of these Doms are after women in their 30's-50's.

Younger females, subs especially, tend to want an older, more experienced man as a partner. Many won't accept a Dom as Master if he isn't older than they are.

Now, even with vanilla dating, lots of young bucks want to get with older women. (Or ANY woman who catches their eye -- they don't care what age she is.)
Even more so with Dommes being able to pick and choose from a host of much younger subs, if so inclined.

The point being, that OP starts off with the wrong premise with his informal data-gathering of matches to be made, actual availability and/or age preferences notwithstanding.

DreamLady

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RE: Statistics for the over 60's - 5/27/2015 1:36:47 AM   
sweetieDA


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quote:

ORIGINAL: dreamlady


quote:

ORIGINAL: littleladybug
quote:

ORIGINAL: sweetieDA
I'll bet you any money the vast majority of those Doms are looking for younger submissives, Dd/lg dynamics, etc.

And, your point is?

sweetie pointed out, and Cynthia alluded to, the disparate age factor. I'd thought of mentioning it myself before, which is why I'm commenting.

Being in the same senior age group doesn't mean that everybody in that group is seeking within it for a partner.

Having 11-12 male Dom seniors to every female sub senior doesn't give her a bigger pool of potential Doms to choose from because many of these Doms are after women in their 30's-50's.

Younger females, subs especially, tend to want an older, more experienced man as a partner. Many won't accept a Dom as Master if he isn't older than they are.

Now, even with vanilla dating, lots of young bucks want to get with older women. (Or ANY woman who catches their eye -- they don't care what age she is.)
Even more so with Dommes being able to pick and choose from a host of much younger subs, if so inclined.

The point being, that OP starts off with the wrong premise with his informal data-gathering of matches to be made, actual availability and/or age preferences notwithstanding.

DreamLady


Perfectly explained.

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RE: Statistics for the over 60's - 5/27/2015 10:04:01 AM   
Arturas


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Status: offline 		Yup. She is seventeen years younger. All the girls I teamed up with from here were at least fifteen years younger with one or two at least 25 years younger.

So, good looking accomplished older men can do their natural "most interesting Dom in the world" thing and score big over the younger guys, drawing the younger girls like moths to a warm light on a dark night for a ride on my magic carpet little girl.

It's a burden I must carry.

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