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jm187369 -> mistress (6/6/2015 9:13:30 PM)

I am looking for a female to be my mistress. I am having a hard time finding one. Any ideas?




peppermint -> RE: mistress (6/6/2015 9:35:02 PM)

The first criteria for finding a Mistress is being able to follow directions. Your question is not best answered in General BDSM. If you go to the Ask A Mistress forum you will notice at the top of the posts are several posts (stickies) written to answer your question and others that might come to mind. Read those posts. Also read the other posts asking for help in the forum. You will get many valuable suggestions.




Miyani -> RE: mistress (6/7/2015 9:45:45 AM)

Actually fill out your profile. Only message women you really think you're compatible with, and make it a personalized message, referencing their profile, that isn't just about kink. Try to actually get to know them.

As Peppermint said, follow directions. If you can't follow the simple rules of the forum, how can any woman believe you can follow her rules?

Depending on where you are in CA, get yourself out into the real world. find munches, classes, play parties. Don't go with the idea of finding the perfect mistress. Go with the idea of meeting a bunch of cool people, and learning as much as you can.

Be the kind of person a woman wants. Have your life as together as you can at 21, have interests and hobbies outside of sex and be enthusiastic about them, get experience just talking to people and getting to know them.

Give it more than 12 days on a new site before you get discouraged.




peppermint -> RE: mistress (6/7/2015 1:44:54 PM)

Please excuse me. The stickies that were once a part of the Ask A Mistress forum are no longer there. So sad as those stickies contained so much great information.




LookieNoNookie -> RE: mistress (6/8/2015 7:11:37 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: jm187369

I am looking for a female to be my mistress. I am having a hard time finding one. Any ideas?


Yes. Find a female. Ask her on a date.

When the cheese bread arrives, ask her if she'll beat you.

If she says "NO!!!", excuse yourself and grab a taxi.




DarkSteven -> RE: mistress (6/8/2015 9:07:44 PM)

You say you're having a hard time. What have you tried thus far?




MalcolmNathaniel -> RE: mistress (6/9/2015 10:18:07 PM)

The first step is to recognize that women are different from men. If you were female and said, "I have boobies and I want someone to own me" you would have had thousands of responses.

For some reason women are a little more choosey.

Hmm, this might work but it is risky. Some women actually like a guy who admits he's lost and needs a woman to help him. I make no promises for what kind of woman you'll find.




crumpets -> RE: mistress (6/11/2015 11:04:17 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: MalcolmNathaniel
The first step is to recognize that women are different from men. .


+1

The big difference is that a submissive male is a dime a dozen.

The classic advice always applies.

Get out there and go to a munch or two.




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