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Wanting Perspective. - 6/8/2015 2:36:00 PM

KinkyCheeks

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I have often wondered as I was being inflicted with whatever pain impliment was decided on that day, what the Mistress saw and enjoyed durring pain play.

In my experience, it's often not something visually pretty, what with grimacing at the first shock of pain only to be reduced to whimpering moans later, I have often been very confused as to exactly the perspective of the one topping me. It us obvious that something I am missing in my own haze of pain and pleasure that would make this as fulfilling to the Mistress as it is to the submissive.

I am asking, what things about pain play make it so enticing for the top, and I ask so that I may have a better idea as to what I offer a sadistic Mistress.

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RE: Wanting Perspective. - 6/8/2015 5:46:11 PM

LadyPenelope37

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I, personally, as a dominant erotic hypnotist, enjoy dominating a subject very deeply. This means developing new abilities, new cravings, and even linking pleasure and arousal to new experiences. The more I can control my subject, the more intense the connection between Us and the more I get off on my power. (So, for me, the attraction regarding pain is NOT with a sub who already enjoys pain.)

- Lady Penelope.

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RE: Wanting Perspective. - 6/8/2015 5:55:15 PM

KinkyCheeks

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Interesting. Thank you for sharing. For someone who has simular taste as you, then, pain would not be the way to say I would be useful, but rather my willingness to have my limits pushed, and desire to please.

This is very helpful in teaching me how to exactly tell what it is I offer. Again, thank you.

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