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daniel1973 -> Favourite noises? (6/21/2015 2:32:22 PM)

Your master knows how to get you to say "Eeow, please SIR!"
But when are you the least uncomfortable? I would go with the classic "Ouch".



themuseling -> RE: Favourite noises? (6/21/2015 2:46:02 PM)

Maitre likes it when I moan, groan, gasp and whimper, if only because in all of my previous relationships prior to him, I was very quiet, if not silent. Might be to do with the fact that he was the first to get me to orgasm... and now takes great delight in repeatedly demonstrating that.

So far as negative sounds go, squeaks and yelps seem to go down well.



daniel1973 -> RE: Favourite noises? (6/21/2015 2:58:27 PM)

Thanks, sounds familiar. My question was, however, how do you sound when you are getting what you want?
("Please don't stop" or "Master, my master" don't count :-)



caelestis -> RE: Favourite noises? (6/21/2015 5:01:54 PM)

This question is... very confusing. A little clarity would be appreciated.



DesFIP -> RE: Favourite noises? (6/21/2015 8:19:06 PM)

If I'm getting something I enjoy why would I say ouch? I moan, purr and say more please.
Your question is confusing. You seem to assume that no one ever enjoys what they do.



daniel1973 -> RE: Favourite noises? (6/21/2015 10:20:51 PM)

Oh, please excuse the confusion.

As a good subbie I will always keep my mouth shut if I can, playacting is not acceptable. But there are points where you just can't help yourself,
either from distress or joy.

There was one time when my master asked me: Just one, please! Between buddies? Just so? So I bent over the chair -
"Ouch!" I said (or more precisely "aaowch".) Hard one, but I didn't budge. - "Seems that I trained you well. Come here give me a hug boy!"

I was so proud! And I can still hear myself uttering that specific sound. I haven't done that ever since.



daniel1973 -> RE: Favourite noises? (6/21/2015 10:45:01 PM)

"Cynical and proud of it!" That's an oxymoron but you know that. Poor man's intelligence is better than none I guess!



ResidentSadist -> RE: Favourite noises? (6/22/2015 12:17:30 AM)

Are you asking about favorite noises or how to signal your partner when you have discomfort?

My fav noise . . . crying.



daniel1973 -> RE: Favourite noises? (6/22/2015 2:00:06 AM)

Boys don't cry :-) No, for real, I do cry, for instance when they play "Oh Danny Boy", like clockwork, don't ask me why.
But seriously I'm a pretty tough guy which is a disadvantage precisely only when you're also submissive because it makes your master's work so much harder.
As to my question (thank you for making me formulate it more precisely): Without being allowed to speak, how do you signal that you're in your comfort zone?



themuseling -> RE: Favourite noises? (6/22/2015 5:54:16 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: DesFIP

If I'm getting something I enjoy why would I say ouch? I moan, purr and say more please.
Your question is confusing. You seem to assume that no one ever enjoys what they do.


^ - This.



daniel1973 -> RE: Favourite noises? (6/22/2015 12:43:54 PM)

Thanks four your input.



DesFIP -> RE: Favourite noises? (6/22/2015 6:46:18 PM)

Your dominant may not want you to make any noise. But that's not applicable to everyone else.

The Man wants to hear me.

Now, if you can't safeword or tell him that you have a cramp and need a tie changed because you're gagged, there are plenty of ways to indicate distress. Hold something that makes noise in your hand like a dog toy with a bell inside and squeeze it if you have a problem.
Grunt three times. Kick out or move around if you usually don't would also indicate something unusual at which point your partner ought to stop and check in with you.

Of course, if your partner knows your normal body language, then they ought to be able to tell when there's a change.

Usually I'm relaxed and I like touching him and him touching me. If my body is rigid, if I try to pull away from him, then he immediately knows he's hit an emotional trigger.



daniel1973 -> RE: Favourite noises? (6/23/2015 8:21:18 AM)


quote:

Your dominant may not want you to make any noise. But that's not applicable to everyone else. The Man wants to hear me.


The man wants what he wants and he wouldn't be the man if he didn't know how to get it, right? He just doesn't want me to chat (a thing which I am prone to when I am excited.)
I know that it is a matter of preference - some purportedly prefer absolute silence. Not the case here, he just doesn't want me to think first.
Think charm offensive - I can successfully mount one if I want. Afterwards I would have to be punished for undermining authority. Not good.

I could imagine being gagged as a punishment for talking too much but in my case it is not practicable; I can often not breathe properly through my nose so it is not safe.

I think I can see what the confusion stems from.
You see, I am quite happy and relaxed as I write this but I just can't enjoy my privileges unless I feel that I've earned them. I can't help it I'm wired that way.

Master has announced his intention to tickle me silly later. As much as I am sure that I am not going to enjoy every minute of it I fully expect to feel grateful for the opportunity to earn my keep.

Which brings us back to the original subject. Torture is wrong (no excuses, no waivers). But I have certain tells that I'm not quite there yet.



Telios -> RE: Favourite noises? (6/23/2015 8:52:00 PM)

Moans and grunts are good.



littleone35 -> RE: Favourite noises? (6/29/2015 1:23:13 PM)

Well sometime Master wants to make me scream (he usually does) other then that i am very vocal gasps, moans, pleading are all good also.

As for a tie or something hurting we have a safeword.

Mat's litlteone



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