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New here - 6/30/2015 2:48:50 PM

SadisticDomZ

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I've been here for about 2 or 3 weeks I think and would like to know if being a young male dom is hard or do I just need to be patient

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RE: New here - 7/1/2015 2:33:14 AM

disgaldrar

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It's just a matter of patience. Certainly at least from my perspective, the explicitness is a turn-off from reading your profile, never mind if I was actually looking to get into any manner of dynamic with you. Think along the lines of vanilla dating. You are going to get far more responses if you come off as interesting, polite and respectful of the other person and show a genuine interest in their needs rather than leaping straight to the goods (which *are* necessary things to discuss, but, not in a first message!).

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RE: New here - 7/1/2015 11:22:10 PM

DarkSteven

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1. Yes, young Doms do have a harder time because they're not viewed as calm and confident.
2. But you're not helping. Your profile's first paragraph is in all caps and says you have little patience. Your second paragraph announces that you'll bottom to a Domme.

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