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nocontrol49 -> scammers (6/30/2015 7:34:48 PM)
Just was talking to some so called Domme who wanted me to "prove" myself by tributing her with paypal. Where do these scumbags come from?

MissKatya -> RE: scammers (6/30/2015 7:55:29 PM)
Well, what can you offer as a submissive, aside from having your submissive needs met? Not every Domme who requires a tribute is a scammer but if you have nothing to offer other than "being a good slave", then I'm not surprised that the suggestion of financial tribute was mentioned. But also, a lack of profile also attracts scammers. My advice would be to complete your profile with detailed information on what you can offer a Domme in aspects of servitude and what you expect in return and don't just throw yourself at anyone who has the name Mistress or Domina as a title. That may help prove your "worthiness" and you can avoid the scammers. Good luck!

Snitch -> RE: scammers (6/30/2015 11:02:17 PM)
Where do they come from? Where do all the guys come from who hit me up with cock pictures and they never read my profile who can't compose a single coherent sentence? They're all out there. Everywhere. Maybe you don't associate with them on a day to day basis, especially if you're a professional. But the middle of the Bell Curve is where most people are, so, that's where they come from.

peppermint -> RE: scammers (6/30/2015 11:06:37 PM)
Welcome to the internet. Did you know that people in the US lose $240 million dollars a year to scams? Someone asking you to send tribute is probably not a scam. You wouldn't be defrauded unless you were promised something specific for your money like a picture or some item and did not receive it. Your best friends here are named Delete and Block. Use your friends when you find someone around here you who is not in your search criteria. Do not make a whining post on the forum. It makes you look whiny. Whiny is not an attractive asset. Fill out your profile. If you are looking for a long term relationship say that. If you are seeking an occasional play partner say that. A Domme will want to know about your vanilla interests as much as your kink interests. Then go to your nearest munch. Munches are where Dommes hang out to socialize with friends. Attend events. Make friends. Show that you are the kind of guy a Domme would be proud to own.

nocontrol49 -> RE: scammers (6/30/2015 11:38:04 PM)
Thanks, I think you guys answered my question. This site is ground zero for scumbags.

Zonie63 -> RE: scammers (7/1/2015 7:28:23 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: nocontrol49 Where do these scumbags come from? Capitalism

Lucylastic -> RE: scammers (7/1/2015 7:40:14 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: nocontrol49 Just was talking to some so called Domme who wanted me to "prove" myself by tributing her with paypal. Where do these scumbags come from? If you want a couple of ideas to really get a feel of how scumbags are treated on here, may I suggest that you start posts along the lines of prodommes... out to rob me by providing my fetishes for money, why cant they do it for free? or Im a nice guy but these scumbags dont understand me. Why cant they see im a human being, even when I treat them like shit. And thats before a meeting? One of the reasons some women have that "proposal" of tribute, is BECAUSE Of people like you who get butthurt and ugly for not getting away with a freebie. just a thought....

nocontrol49 -> RE: scammers (7/1/2015 7:53:32 AM)
Yes Pro Dommes are a whole different subject. Nothing to do with my post. Pro Dommes provide a service like hookers. You pay for acts. The sub is pretty much in control. Pro Domination has nothing to do with the intent of this site.

disgaldrar -> RE: scammers (7/1/2015 8:15:17 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: nocontrol49 Yes Pro Dommes are a whole different subject. Nothing to do with my post. Pro Dommes provide a service like hookers. You pay for acts. The sub is pretty much in control. Pro Domination has nothing to do with the intent of this site. There are Pro-Dommes that are also lifestyle Dommes, I'd well imagine. So there is some crossover. A Pro' still has to know about consent, limitations and so forth as well as actually knowing what they are doing with regards to the psychology of the submissive, and the equipment they will be using. To me, a tribute is the equivalent of why some models (and photographers) ask for a deposit when booking a shoot. Not only does it secure that time slot, but lessens the chance of either party backing out and wasting time due to the money involved.

peppermint -> RE: scammers (7/1/2015 10:38:15 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: nocontrol Yes Pro Dommes are a whole different subject. Nothing to do with my post. Pro Dommes provide a service like hookers. You pay for acts. The sub is pretty much in control. Pro Domination has nothing to do with the intent of this site. Oh wonderful!! Another clueless one who equates Pro Dommes with hookers. Guess you might be surprised to find out that Pro Dommes do no provide any sex. You don't get to touch them sexually and they don't tweek your wienie. You must be very long term good friend with the owner of this site to know what his intentions were when the site was formed. If you two are such good buddies why don't you personally contact him and explain problems here. You tell him he should be personally checking out every member here so that you can safely surf the internet without having to use common sense.

SeekingTrinity -> RE: scammers (7/1/2015 10:45:05 AM)
~FRing it~ So, OP... Which cheese pairing do you recommend being served with your whine? I was thinking perhaps a nice Brie. Or do we just cheap-ass it and go with some Velveeta?

Lucylastic -> RE: scammers (7/1/2015 10:45:49 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: nocontrol49 Yes Pro Dommes are a whole different subject. Nothing to do with my post. Pro Dommes provide a service like hookers. You pay for acts. The sub is pretty much in control. Pro Domination has nothing to do with the intent of this site. I see that you have lousy comprehension....have you considered YOU might be the issue? just askin

roboslavedog -> RE: scammers (7/2/2015 2:52:22 AM)
To answer the original question "Where do these scumbags come from?": they come from numerous poor countries of the world with access to the internet and lots of young, clever (and not so clever) young people. For people in the US or other wealthy states, a few bucks usually means as much as skipping a coffee on the go, but for them it may mean a small fortune. Sites like CM are perfect hunting grounds for them. I know I haven't said anything new but even though, it had to be said. Personally, I would never "tribute" anyone based on a few photos and message exchanges. But hey, if you have too much money in your bank and want to share with the poor of the world - that's your call :) roboslavedog

ChrchofDrk -> RE: scammers (7/2/2015 5:54:34 AM)
Where do they come from? ... The bowels of the Earth. Where trolls and troglodytes live of course. ... Take a girl out to eat and to the movies. you're paying a tribute. Just think, you might even get laid. Then again, perhaps not. At least you'll have eaten.

crumpets -> RE: scammers (7/2/2015 6:42:40 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ChrchofDrk Take a girl out to eat and to the movies. you're paying a tribute. Just think, you might even get laid. Then again, perhaps not. At least you'll have eaten. I had never thought about it that way, but you're correct. It's a tribute in some (many? all?) ways, but it's not called a tribute. Very interesting concept. I'll have to think about that some more, as it strikes me as eloquently descriptive, in a word.

nocontrol49 -> RE: scammers (7/3/2015 10:45:54 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: roboslavedog To answer the original question "Where do these scumbags come from?": they come from numerous poor countries of the world with access to the internet and lots of young, clever (and not so clever) young people. For people in the US or other wealthy states, a few bucks usually means as much as skipping a coffee on the go, but for them it may mean a small fortune. Sites like CM are perfect hunting grounds for them. I know I haven't said anything new but even though, it had to be said. Personally, I would never "tribute" anyone based on a few photos and message exchanges. But hey, if you have too much money in your bank and want to share with the poor of the world - that's your call :) roboslavedog Thanks robo, your the only one who actually got the intent of my post.

NookieNotes -> RE: scammers (7/3/2015 11:01:25 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ChrchofDrk Where do they come from? ... The bowels of the Earth. Where trolls and troglodytes live of course. ... Take a girl out to eat and to the movies. you're paying a tribute. Just think, you might even get laid. Then again, perhaps not. At least you'll have eaten. Yes... and no. I t accused of being a findom when I say that I love when submissive males bring me gifts and flowers and such... and yet, I don't require it. I simply enjoy it, and they enjoy putting a smile on my face, so it's not a tribute. It's something they do for themselves as much as for me (I wouldn't enjoy a gift given resentfully). I think that what you suggest is only a tribute if you are taking me out to add to the "get laid points" fund, rather htan because you enjoy my company. Because, I take friends out to lunch regularly, because I enjoy their company. That's not tribute. I buy my Pet gifts because I adore him. That's not tribute. I get flowers for my girlfriend because I like to see her smile. That's not tribute. So, the difference is in the intent, rather than in the action, methinks.

ChrchofDrk -> RE: scammers (7/3/2015 3:50:11 PM)
quote: So, the difference is in the intent, rather than in the action, methinks. I would agree with that assessment wholeheartedly

Lucylastic -> RE: scammers (7/3/2015 4:25:44 PM)
Does a better class of mistress mean more women who have to fullfill fantasies they dont want any part of, to men they dont want any part of? just to be fair, to you poor butt hut men who cant take rejection without being douchebags to women in general? What do YOU Have to offer(beyond money) that is so amazing to interest a woman of ANY Class. NOT directed at COD, sorry, it was a FR to the OP and his BFF

nocontrol49 -> RE: scammers (7/4/2015 1:23:56 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: peppermint Welcome to the internet. Did you know that people in the US lose $240 million dollars a year to scams? Someone asking you to send tribute is probably not a scam. You wouldn't be defrauded unless you were promised something specific for your money like a picture or some item and did not receive it. Your best friends here are named Delete and Block. Use your friends when you find someone around here you who is not in your search criteria. Do not make a whining post on the forum. It makes you look whiny. Whiny is not an attractive asset. Fill out your profile. If you are looking for a long term relationship say that. If you are seeking an occasional play partner say that. A Domme will want to know about your vanilla interests as much as your kink interests. Then go to your nearest munch. Munches are where Dommes hang out to socialize with friends. Attend events. Make friends. Show that you are the kind of guy a Domme would be proud to own. I've included an actual recent photo in my profile. Something missing from many profiles on this site. People hiding behind images or pictures of how they wish they looked. If this site required an actual accurate photo of all the members with proof of identity it would change the landscape of this site in a single day.

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