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Query - 7/1/2015 4:26:14 AM

SadisticDomZ

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I'd like to know whether I'm asking for too much or whether my age might be a problem as a Dom Male and what I can do to adapt

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RE: Query - 7/1/2015 6:20:42 AM

disgaldrar

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Learning how to drive would be my first suggestion, and that's not even relating to D/S. It will make everything a lot easier.

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RE: Query - 7/1/2015 12:38:11 PM

artemiss

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Figure out what you want, FROM LIFE, and go after it.

From the small amount I've read,(your profile and two posts), you sound like the typical boys from your generation. Sitting around waiting for some perceived entitlement. Get up, get motivated and improve your life. Do something, anything. When you are self sufficient, self supporting, and self confident, you will be much more attractive to women (dominant and submissive as it appears you don't really care who gives you attention).

After reading this, I'm going to add a thought about your other post. Instead of asking another dominant to play with his sub/slave. Maybe offer a work trade. Offer him service in exchange for WATCHING and LEARNING. It would show commitment to improving your skills that isn't driven strictly by your libido.

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RE: Query - 7/1/2015 1:20:26 PM

UllrsIshtar

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I know a guy who makes a living off teaching classes at kink-cons. Like any presenter at these things, he's got a flock of groupies begging to play with him afterwards.

He recently turned 26.

Your age isn't your issue.

< Message edited by UllrsIshtar -- 7/1/2015 1:21:32 PM >

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RE: Query - 7/1/2015 11:00:26 PM

sexyred1

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ORIGINAL: SadisticDomZ

I'd like to know whether I'm asking for too much or whether my age might be a problem as a Dom Male and what I can do to adapt

Nope. I had a guy your age in my forties. I taught him everything.

What is an issue is your utterly confused profile and attitude.

You need to know what you might like to try and approach women as people, not a delivery system.

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RE: Query - 7/31/2015 5:41:36 PM

Snitch

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quote:

ORIGINAL: SadisticDomZ

I'd like to know whether I'm asking for too much or whether my age might be a problem as a Dom Male and what I can do to adapt

How did everyone already start answering this "query" when I can't even find the question?

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