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First Time - 7/16/2006 3:18:57 PM

SignorinaC

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Hello am interested in hearing what your first experiences were like as a Mistress...

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RE: First Time - 7/17/2006 6:26:54 PM

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Signorina C, the first sub I topped was as green as I was...we'd had some online conversations, talked on the phone...flying by the seat of our collective pants we met and decided to do a scene together. For the few weeks leading up to it he was for all intents and purposes 'my sub'. I don't recall a lot about the mechanics or the details of that scene, but I can remember his tears as he laid bent over my knee kissing my boots while having his bare arsed soundly spanked. I don't know who was more astounded at his reaction, him or me lol...saw him a few more times before circumstances changed and we went our seperate ways.

Would love to hear the stories of others as well :) great topic, and welcome to the boards.

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RE: First Time - 7/18/2006 8:20:37 AM

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So wonderful that I find myself still doing it 20 years later.

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RE: First Time - 7/18/2006 9:14:10 AM

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There really wasn't a first time as a mistress.

This is just an extension of me. So long before I had the words to make this a BDSM thing I did things with boyfriends, sometimes openly, sometimes covertly (I'd feel bad about that but at the time neither of us knew better).

Maybe this reflects the difference between those who find out about BDSM or Ds and think "I want to try this" and those who do things then later discover that others do similar things and use special terminology for it.

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RE: First Time - 7/20/2006 8:54:32 PM

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Thanks for sharing!

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RE: First Time - 7/21/2006 1:56:39 AM

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ORIGINAL: SignorinaC
Hello am interested in hearing what your first experiences were like as a Mistress...
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Signorina C

My first experiences in the lifestyle were as a submissive, though that was like trying to force a square peg into a round hole. It just didn't work.

After I got online, a whole new world opened up to Me. I learned about Female Dominance and that sounded a whole lot more exciting to Me. I was very eager to get involved. To My knowledge, none of the bdsm personals sites existed at that time, but I came across an ad from a male on a vanilla dating site who sounded like a submissive. I responded, we got to know each other, and I found that he was indeed submissive.

I will never forget the first time he kneeled before Me. It was such an incredible high, seeing him there, naked and collared, wanting only to please Me in whatever way he could. We started seeing each other regulary. I started out doing the things I was familiar with that had been done to Me when I bottomed. Then I started expanding My horizons but doing a lot of reading and talking to others in the lifestyle.

After the very first time, I was hooked for life. It felt so natural, like I had come home to where I always belonged.

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RE: First Time - 7/21/2006 8:48:35 AM

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The day I met my boy I began seducing him and its pretty much been going in that same direction for the last 4 years, with a few pit stops here and there...and maybe a break down or two.

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