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Sub Men - 7/21/2015 9:37:52 AM   
watchme777


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Status: offline 		What do Women really think of Sub men ??
Ones that are Crossdresser and a Paypig
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RE: Sub Men - 7/21/2015 10:55:34 AM   
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Status: offline 		If I don't know them, I don't think about them one way or another.

Why should I judge a person based on their kinks or D/s orientation? That seems weird.

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RE: Sub Men - 7/21/2015 12:27:28 PM   
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Status: offline 		Answering as a switch, I see nothing wrong with submissive men. I tend to prefer men who present as something of a challenge rather than those that readily offer to serve, but, otherwise what's the problem? Just because cross-dressers and paypigs aren't my thing, doesn't mean I am going to look down on them in any way.

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RE: Sub Men - 7/21/2015 3:28:31 PM   
ThePrincessKali


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Status: offline 		Well as a Fin Domme, I prefer finsubs. Obviously. But Dommes in general...that's like asking all women what they think of brown hair. It varies person to person. If you're a pay pig, you will attract Fin Dommes. It's simple as that.

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RE: Sub Men - 7/22/2015 5:44:35 AM   
MariaB


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Status: offline 		I have no interest in pay-pigs but then I'm not a fin Domme. I respect what they do if they want to do it but its so far away from my world...

What I love about this kinky world is the diversity. So long as its within the legal boundaries of the BDSM and fetish fraternity, its all good. I like both fem subs and male subs, I like crossdresser's and t-girl subs and would definitely consider having a submissive male CD, Trans or Transvestite in my life, if his character fit well with me. For me, a crossdresser is someone who has already ventured into a place where many men, even if they wanted to, wouldn't dare to tread. I greatly respect and even admire those amongst you who are brave enough to do that. I like people who don't hold back on their journey :)

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RE: Sub Men - 7/22/2015 10:34:06 AM   
ChatteParfaitt


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Status: offline 		Once you are in the mindset where you can ask what a SPECIFIC female dominant might think of YOU, then you can save yourself hours of BS and just ask her.

All fem doms are not whipped up (sorry, couldn't resist) in the fem dom porn factory and smashed into the perfect fem dom cookie cutter, ya know?



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RE: Sub Men - 7/23/2015 8:34:48 AM   
MAINEiacMISTRESS


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ORIGINAL: watchme777

What do Women really think of Sub men ??
Ones that are Crossdresser and a Paypig


You've asked us two separate questions, actually. One is about submissive men in general (I personally prefer their company over the BS some so-called "dominant" males like to spout). You then indicate you are interested in our opinions of cross-dressers and paypigs (btw, one doesn't need to be submissive to have either of those fetishes).

My opinion of either is mostly neutral. I don't like any extreme and either one can be taken too far to be tasteful, and in the case of financial domination fetish some "paypigs" can be so into it they cause their own (and sometimes their family's) financial ruin. Gambling has similar effects yet is more socially acceptable for some reason.

Done correctly, with a caring Dominant putting the brakes on a sub's overspending, even MANAGING their spending, it can be beneficial.

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RE: Sub Men - 7/29/2015 12:11:22 PM   
Anchises


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RE: Sub Men - 7/30/2015 4:52:22 AM   
daniel1973


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Status: offline 		It's kindof like a playpen but pigger.

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RE: Sub Men - 7/30/2015 5:16:09 AM   
JVoV


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ORIGINAL: Anchises

What exactly is a paypig?


A financial submissive. Someone that derives (sexual) pleasure & gratification at least in part by giving gifts or money to their chosen Dominant(s), as tribute.

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RE: Sub Men - 8/1/2015 4:49:13 PM   
ytivarg


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Status: offline 		Ug.

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RE: Sub Men - 8/1/2015 5:01:40 PM   
Moderator17


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