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RockaRolla -> Just Didn't Work (7/26/2015 4:38:40 PM)
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I was with my man last night, and in the heat of the moment he wanted me to slap him hard, several times, in the face.
It's a kink I've been into in the past, and done to other partners without a problem. This time it just didn't click. Even though he enjoyed it and had no regrets, I didn't cause him harm or permanent damage, it's just not something that worked for me.
I never really understood the phenomenon of a D/s dynamic or BDSM play in general going by the wayside when the couple falls in love, but that may have been what happened here. There's also the fact that he's been a victim of abuse in the past, and has honestly been through enough shit I'm scared of adding to it. Though I can indulge his maso side in other ways without guilt. *shrug*
Regardless, it didn't work, I accept this and he accepts it. There are plenty of other ways for us to enjoy each other. [:)] Though I am curious about the why for me.
Any kinks you've enjoyed with some partners but not the others? Why?
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