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watchme777 -> Wanking over Ex (7/27/2015 5:42:26 AM)
I was in a L/T/R with a very attractive petite woman for over 3 years.... She dumped me after several arguments and I had also got depressed. I took it really really bad and even now years later it hurts an awful lot... From day one it turned me on thinking of her meeting new men and I often Wanked imagining it happening. She has now married and posted several pictures on Facebook and I cannot stop looking at them and Wanking Hard.... It turns me on thinking about her knowing I was doing it, but I don't think she would Know at all.... I also have a fantasy to be her PayPig...

spellslave -> RE: Wanking over Ex (7/27/2015 6:11:21 AM)
Given how (most) women don't post wank-fodder material on Facebook, the likelihood of her knowing or caring is indeed as you stated, low and next to impossible. As much as there is nothing wrong at all in fantasies, I would probably advise against telling her. Keep it to fantasy-land. If the break-up was messy, I can anticipate that having an ex return to the picture with the declaration of 'take my money' wouldn't be taken at all well.

JVoV -> RE: Wanking over Ex (7/27/2015 6:16:25 AM)
I agree with spellslave. Don't get creepy with the ex. But I will add that you will probably do well being a cuck to your next partner.

NorthernGent -> RE: Wanking over Ex (7/27/2015 6:19:44 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: watchme777 I cannot stop looking at them and Wanking Hard.... Are you looking for a cure, or are you quite happy to wank yourself into a coma? I could provide a cure for a small fee.

Lucylastic -> RE: Wanking over Ex (7/27/2015 6:22:29 AM)
Yeah I get that you can fantasise, and ....whatever, what ever floats your boat but if you externalise it, specially on facebook, ...its likely to creep her out. Is this stopping you from having other relationships, kinky or vanilla? I know what its like to carry a torch for someone, the fantasies can make you hurt, but the reality is more likely to be more unpleasant.

MiaCastle -> RE: Wanking over Ex (8/1/2015 11:42:56 PM)
Let me guess. You're also an exhibitionist and just exposed yourself to everyone here and are still wanking. Right or wrong, what was the purpose of this thread? Whatever it was, you are wanking over pictures three years later, still hurt and posting things like this, so that it will be another three years before another woman wouldn't see this and come anywhere close to you. Emotional masochism in a guy that likes to share.

LookieNoNookie -> RE: Wanking over Ex (8/4/2015 4:55:27 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: watchme777 I was in a L/T/R with a very attractive petite woman for over 3 years.... She dumped me after several arguments and I had also got depressed. I took it really really bad and even now years later it hurts an awful lot... From day one it turned me on thinking of her meeting new men and I often Wanked imagining it happening. She has now married and posted several pictures on Facebook and I cannot stop looking at them and Wanking Hard.... It turns me on thinking about her knowing I was doing it, but I don't think she would Know at all.... I also have a fantasy to be her PayPig... Naw....you're a cuckold. (Look it up).

DerangedUnit -> RE: Wanking over Ex (8/4/2015 5:17:28 PM)
All my exes "wank" to me, strangers wank to me, random guys in cars crash trying to whistle at me, I even masturbate to myself. it's a fact of life... it's less weird to masturbate to someone you've actually known than random pictures .

LookieNoNookie -> RE: Wanking over Ex (8/4/2015 5:23:16 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DerangedUnit All my exes "wank" to me, strangers wank to me, random guys in cars crash trying to whistle at me, I even masturbate to myself. it's a fact of life... it's less weird to masturbate to someone you've actually known than random pictures . Having seen your pics....I'd concur. (Turn your pics right side up please...my neck is tweaking).

DerangedUnit -> RE: Wanking over Ex (8/4/2015 6:21:43 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LookieNoNookie quote: ORIGINAL: DerangedUnit All my exes "wank" to me, strangers wank to me, random guys in cars crash trying to whistle at me, I even masturbate to myself. it's a fact of life... it's less weird to masturbate to someone you've actually known than random pictures . Having seen your pics....I'd concur. (Turn your pics right side up please...my neck is tweaking). I don't post flirty pics on the internet for a reason just be happy it isn't upside down, that could hurt :P I'll switch it back to what it was on fet for a while hehe

ModAssistant5 -> RE: Wanking over Ex (8/4/2015 7:21:46 PM)
Please return to the original topic.

thezigg -> RE: Wanking over Ex (10/31/2015 11:32:27 AM)
Are you ready for her to crush your fantasies when you tell her? When your wanking you are probably thinking she might go for it and it ads to the spark. If you contact her and she crushes you or more than likely just ignores your contact are you prepared to handle that?

LookieNoNookie -> RE: Wanking over Ex (11/1/2015 6:55:48 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: watchme777 I was in a L/T/R with a very attractive petite woman for over 3 years.... She dumped me after several arguments and I had also got depressed. I took it really really bad and even now years later it hurts an awful lot... From day one it turned me on thinking of her meeting new men and I often Wanked imagining it happening. She has now married and posted several pictures on Facebook and I cannot stop looking at them and Wanking Hard.... It turns me on thinking about her knowing I was doing it, but I don't think she would Know at all.... I also have a fantasy to be her PayPig... Bud....you're a guy.....you'll wank because someone that has tits but looks like the Hunchback of Notre Dame shows up delivering your pizza. You'll wank because they changed the direction of the new tunnel bore in downtown Seattle by 6 degrees to bypass some Indian relics. You'll wank because someone said cheese can be made out of sorghum and leftover biscuits. You'll even wank because they changed the yellow reflective warning signs not to turn left at the upcoming road washout to fluorescent green. Get over it. Wank. Grab the Jergens....have a great night.

OsideGirl -> RE: Wanking over Ex (11/1/2015 7:04:09 PM)
Good Lord, this idiot again? He shows up once a year with a new screen name, posting the same drivel.

NightMistress09 -> RE: Wanking over Ex (11/2/2015 1:17:05 AM)
Op were you always this creepy or did you just start? I fear for this girl's safety.

TheWriter13 -> RE: Wanking over Ex (11/2/2015 1:31:16 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: watchme777 I was in a L/T/R with a very attractive petite woman for over 3 years.... She dumped me after several arguments and I had also got depressed. I took it really really bad and even now years later it hurts an awful lot... From day one it turned me on thinking of her meeting new men and I often Wanked imagining it happening. She has now married and posted several pictures on Facebook and I cannot stop looking at them and Wanking Hard.... It turns me on thinking about her knowing I was doing it, but I don't think she would Know at all.... I also have a fantasy to be her PayPig... I'm just going to say it. When I was a young lad at the shy age of 18 I liked a girl who thought I was an ass. I was and looking back I could have treated her better she would not spit on me if I was on fire. Anyway I had a secret I liked her Long story short KEEP IT IN FANTASY LAND.

LuminousFire -> RE: Wanking over Ex (11/2/2015 12:07:00 PM)
Good wanks are rare - like the proper caressing of the cock by another. Long as you don’t stalk her wank away and I seek payment for advice will it be in gold?

MistrixMsE -> RE: Wanking over Ex (11/2/2015 10:26:30 PM)
I've had more than one vanilla friend from long ago tell me on FB that they crushed on me and wanked over me back in the day. Hell one admitted a long time wanking fantasy scenario of being married to me (that WAS way weird).... In all cases it changed the nature of the relationship, and not for the better. Keep your wanking habits to yourself and Jerk away. She doesn't want to know. Trust me.

LookieNoNookie -> RE: Wanking over Ex (11/3/2015 2:45:36 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MistrixMsE I've had more than one vanilla friend from long ago tell me on FB that they crushed on me and wanked over me back in the day. Hell one admitted a long time wanking fantasy scenario of being married to me (that WAS way weird).... In all cases it changed the nature of the relationship, and not for the better. Keep your wanking habits to yourself and Jerk away. She doesn't want to know. Trust me. I just wanked over you. I feel better now. (By the way....in my country, if a man wanks over you....you're forever entwined via marriage.....go see the Social Security Dept. tomorrow....I need the living room floor waxed).

Kreychec -> RE: Wanking over Ex (11/3/2015 4:19:45 PM)
So hit her up? Edit: In reply to Op.

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