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Owner/trainer - 7/29/2015 7:48:51 AM

daniel1973

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Hi.

since my Master announced that he doesn't want to do me today I have to go along with my phantasies. Here's an old one that surfaced:

The ideal is that you are only there for your dominant's pleasure. But he/her (in my version it was actually a female) has the means to get a dozen other people to groom you towards your best performance.

Then again, the idea for my master to get somebody else to train me is not that far-fetched.

I'm not looking out for other people (Master is fine training me so.) Just curious.

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RE: Owner/trainer - 7/29/2015 8:50:08 AM

spellslave

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I kind of regard this along the lines of mentoring or teaching. It doesn't necessarily have to be sexual either. I'll be, if things go to plan, teaching a friend of mine ropework as a play partner this weekend. My Master and I are also in the works of arranging a meet with a suspension rigger, because it is something that neither of us have done but want to do. Again, not sexual, and therefore not breaking the boundaries of our relationship.

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RE: Owner/trainer - 7/29/2015 9:27:00 AM

daniel1973

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If you were anywhere near I'd say let's meet and make it a workshop!
My master isn't much into ropework, "Restraints have the purpose of restraining, if it hurts, say something boy!" but willing to let me experiment ...

By training I mean the kind of stuff that you have to do on a regular basis to get better at it. Trainer makes sure you don't cop out.

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RE: Owner/trainer - 7/29/2015 8:36:45 PM

Andalusite

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The way you phrased it reminds me of the Owner/Trainer classes at horse and dog shows. "Amateur Owner to Ride," that sort of thing!

Seriously, if you were going to do that, the Owner and Trainer would really have to be on the same page, or the Trainer would be teaching/reinforcing ways of doing things that don't necessarily match the Owner's expectations. Personally, I wouldn't want to farm that out to someone else, or be with someone who wanted to do so. Working with an instructor or friend for new technique/safety things is cool, though.

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RE: Owner/trainer - 7/30/2015 7:28:32 AM

daniel1973

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ORIGINAL: Andalusite

The way you phrased it reminds me of the Owner/Trainer classes at horse and dog shows. "Amateur Owner to Ride," that sort of thing!

Yes, I'm basically a poodle

Seriously, you seem to know something about horses, me I don't like them that much but I think that I've read every Dick Francis novel in existence.

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ORIGINAL: Andalusite
the Trainer would be teaching/reinforcing ways of doing things that don't necessarily match the Owner's expectations

That's the dream! In reality, owner knows better than to give my training into other people's hands, and I'm so proud of that.

Greetings,
Daniel
(First in the third