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i have been here 12years - 8/17/2015 5:50:18 PM

WickedestDesires

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and not one single has mailed me

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RE: i have been here 12years - 8/17/2015 6:15:17 PM

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hmmm... having built Ikea kitchen cabinets myself, I did not realize building Ikea furniture was a "typical manly" thing to do..

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RE: i have been here 12years - 8/17/2015 6:49:49 PM

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If no one has mailed you then apparently your profile isn't doing it for you. How many have you written to? How many munches have you attended? How many events have you attended?

If what you are doing is not working, then obviously you need to change something or face the fact that what you are doing is probably never going to work.

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RE: i have been here 12years - 8/17/2015 7:03:58 PM

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Your profile is written to portray yourself as goofy and off the wall. Not that there isn't a place for that, but it's not the greatest first impression you could make on a website for meeting partners, particularly a site with such an uneven ratio of men to women. You've had many profiles on here so I don't know if they've all been written like the current one. It might be that you would come off better in person than you do in this written format.

Being male here makes it much less likely you'll get messages too, from what the guys say. If it helps any, I'd rather get no messages than 98% of the ones I do

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RE: i have been here 12years - 8/17/2015 9:34:52 PM

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Apparently you drive a Dolorean time machine because you haven't even been here 10 days much less 12 years. But welcome to the forums impatient one.

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RE: i have been here 12years - 8/17/2015 10:19:33 PM

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and not one single has mailed me

As the site itself hasn't been here for 12 years, that's quite an accomplishment.

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RE: i have been here 12years - 8/18/2015 4:42:17 PM

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hmmm... having built Ikea kitchen cabinets myself, I did not realize building Ikea furniture was a "typical manly" thing to do..

Yes!!! I was thinking the same thing. Even the furniture requiring two people to assemble I've done myself.

Whoo hoo *flexes muscles*

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RE: i have been here 12years - 8/18/2015 4:51:25 PM

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Have you tried not sending out PMs accusing people of being fake?

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RE: i have been here 12years - 8/18/2015 4:59:32 PM

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and not one single has mailed me

As the site itself hasn't been here for 12 years, that's quite an accomplishment.

As self proclaimed "Count Nosferatu from Transylvania" currently living Glasgow, I think there are no boundaries that a time traveling vampire can't cross.

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RE: i have been here 12years - 8/18/2015 5:02:38 PM

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and not one single has mailed me

Surely you've had a few spams here and there! Even I get a spam messages from time to time.
Yeah, been here about the same (since the start of the site) and the problem is you are male. Not that couples get any views or messages either, so really the problem is that you aren't a lone female.
Not a lot you can do. I've tried whining before, as you are now, but found that didn't get me anywhere except angry at the responses.

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ORIGINAL: peppermint
How many munches have you attended?

You get PMs on this website from attending munches? Interesting!
But surely there's an even better way to get communication going online, than going to local events?!

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If it helps any, I'd rather get no messages than 98% of the ones I do

If it helps any, there's a setting for that. Click "mail controls" from any mail screen.

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