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Question for Mistress who's husbands are their subs - 9/3/2015 3:54:06 PM

ooosub000

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Did you ever struggle with guilt for receiving enjoying from hurting the man you love?

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RE: Question for Mistress who's husbands are their subs - 9/3/2015 4:53:20 PM

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Did you ever struggle with guilt for receiving enjoying from hurting the man you love?

Are you referring to physical pain or emotional pain?

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RE: Question for Mistress who's husbands are their subs - 9/3/2015 6:21:57 PM

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either or both, do you have a different view of each?

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RE: Question for Mistress who's husbands are their subs - 9/5/2015 6:04:38 PM

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First, not all dominant women are sadists.
Second, many men enjoy receiving pain.
Third, a total power exchange relationship is not solely about sadism. It's about who has the final say when you disagree.

Which could easily be a discussion about when to buy new tires, and if it's worth the money to get Michelin over Cooper. No pain there.

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RE: Question for Mistress who's husbands are their subs - 9/8/2015 3:16:44 PM

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Nope, no guilt here. I respect his hard limits and so he only gets what he has bargained for.

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RE: Question for Mistress who's husbands are their subs - 9/8/2015 3:24:53 PM

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None what so ever, at that point there would have been in depth discussions regarding limits and expectations.whether it is a long-term D/s Relationship, Marriage, or any other relationship honest, open ,and frequent communication is the key.

Why do you feel guilt would be an issue?

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How glittering they shone -
And every One unbared a Nerve
Or wantoned with a Bone -

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