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how can i have a online D/S relation with a dom woman?? - 9/12/2015 9:55:18 PM   
kenew


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Status: offline 		i am new to this website but have practiced bdsm for a long time in real life,i have opened my account yesterday and for the past 8 hours have been looking for misstresses to serve,but no one is replying,i am dying to serve a dom woman so please help me
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RE: how can i have a online D/S relation with a dom wom... - 9/12/2015 10:00:16 PM   
kenew


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RE: how can i have a online D/S relation with a dom wom... - 9/12/2015 10:45:12 PM   
ilovestarbucks


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Status: offline 		Well, don't fall into the same mistakes I made. I've met three absolutely beautiful and sexy Dominant women who required a financial tribute before meeting. All three times I deposited about $100 into her account and not one woman ever showed up for the date. I know you are asking about online women, but at least get voice verification before depositing money.

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RE: how can i have a online D/S relation with a dom wom... - 9/12/2015 10:49:03 PM   
dreamlady


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quote:

ORIGINAL: kenew

. . . for the past 8 hours have been looking for misstresses to serve,but no one is replying,i am dying to serve a dom woman so please help me

You have been here less than a day and you expect to find an on-line Mistress right away?

Do they have fast food drive-thrus in Bangladesh? Because that is not how this, or any other ISO-In Search Of site, works.
There where you live, do 24-year-old males like yourself get instant access to available women? Or do you have to put in some time and effort to get a lady interested in you as a man?

You say you are a "no limits" switch. Sure, that's easy to say when you're just looking for on-line (cam show performance?) interactions.
Besides, there is no such thing as no limits - everyone has limits, everyone without exception - and I personally would not want to own a sub who doesn't have a firm grasp on what his limits are.
You say you have practiced BDSM before, but to be on the safe side newbies should abide by the fairly well-recognized tenet of SSC, which means Safe, Sane, Consensual. And with any new Dominant-Top, agree upon a safeword; this is just a good practice to get into with any new play partner(s).

Here's a clue for you also; Dominants have limits on what they will or will not do, of what they enjoy or do not enjoy, or what they're interested in trying or not, on how they wish to be served.
Your idea of service may be totally different than what a FemDom has in mind, and there is no rulebook we follow. She decides if and when she wants to take ownership of you. You do not get to dictate how fast a pace she sets, or in what form this service will take, but you do get a choice in what you agree to participate in doing.

Chances are that whomever you find as an on-line Domme will be just as inexperienced as you are, so don't expect her to do all the work and do all the thinking to the point where you are making excessive demands on her time.
No Mistress needs a sub who is of no practical use.

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RE: how can i have a online D/S relation with a dom wom... - 9/13/2015 2:16:52 AM   
kenew


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Status: offline 		Thank you for your advice dreamlady

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RE: how can i have a online D/S relation with a dom wom... - 9/13/2015 2:18:06 AM   
kenew


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Status: offline 		Ilovestarbucks bro thanks for your advice and I was never thinking about depositing money

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RE: how can i have a online D/S relation with a dom wom... - 9/13/2015 6:44:37 AM   
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ORIGINAL: ilovestarbucks

Well, don't fall into the same mistakes I made. I've met three absolutely beautiful and sexy Dominant women who required a financial tribute before meeting. All three times I deposited about $100 into her account and not one woman ever showed up for the date. I know you are asking about online women, but at least get voice verification before depositing money.


I would recommend that you masturbate before getting on the computer so your dick doesn't make all the decisions.

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RE: how can i have a online D/S relation with a dom wom... - 9/13/2015 9:22:18 AM   
peppermint


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Status: offline 		I am curious as to how you will serve a Mistress online. I am assuming that you expect her to take her time to tell you to do nasty things like stick stuff up your butt or jerk off. You don't expect to give her money to pay for her time so apparently she is supposed to spend her time satisfying your kink out of the goodness of her heart. I hope you realize that women are not your personal kink delivery system.

Again, what do you have to offer besides your need for kink?

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RE: how can i have a online D/S relation with a dom wom... - 9/13/2015 4:25:39 PM   
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ORIGINAL: ilovestarbucks

Well, don't fall into the same mistakes I made. I've met three absolutely beautiful and sexy Dominant women who required a financial tribute before meeting. All three times I deposited about $100 into her account and not one woman ever showed up for the date. I know you are asking about online women, but at least get voice verification before depositing money.

So you didnt actually meet them, so, what had you thinking they were beautiful and sexy?? Voice verification? Cam talk? Pictures?
Learn from your lesson, dont keep repeating it.


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RE: how can i have a online D/S relation with a dom wom... - 9/13/2015 8:21:06 PM   
GoddessSinn


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Status: offline 		Hello dear.

Online D/S relationships require a lot of effort on both parts. If this is strictly online, you may want to have both parties invest in webcams. Verification, at least in Financial Domination, is key to a mutually beneficial and trust filled relationship. Be respectful, respond appropriately, and do not spam her because she does not respond right away. Always refer to her by her given title, or something along the lines of "Miss, Mistress, Lady," etc.

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RE: how can i have a online D/S relation with a dom wom... - 9/13/2015 9:45:22 PM   
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ORIGINAL: kenew

i am new to this website but have practiced bdsm for a long time in real life,i have opened my account yesterday and for the past 8 hours have been looking for misstresses to serve,but no one is replying,i am dying to serve a dom woman so please help me


1. What do you mean that you have practiced BDSM for a long time in RL? You live in Bangladesh, which I expect has a minimal community, and you give me the impression that you do not have any contacts. Something doesn't add up.

2. Eight hours? You expect to find a relationship in eight hours? Even if the Domme/sub men ratio wasn't skewed, that would be ridiculously hard.

3. You need to put your best foot forward as regards your writing. Any Domme will view your profile and writing if she's serious about you. And she will see a picture you took from the Internet, and misspellings and poor grammar. I have never seen another profile with no periods.

4. You close your first paragraph by saying you have no limits for the right Mistress. Then the rest of your profile says all about what YOU want. Including that scat is a hard limit, even with your no-limit Mistress.

5. You say you love to lie in front of your Mistress' front yard and having her sweep her feet over your face. Who the heck would piss off her neighbors by doing that?

6. Your profile says in the first paragraph that you want online only. The rest of your profile refers to physical actions you want with her. And your post says that you have significant RL experience. This creates the impression that you are either lying, or else don;t know what you're doing, and that you don't think a prospective Domme would be smart enough to notice.

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RE: how can i have a online D/S relation with a dom wom... - 9/14/2015 4:35:34 PM   
RockaRolla


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Status: offline 		With the urgency you've placed on this relationship, I'd suggest going back to porn.

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RE: how can i have a online D/S relation with a dom wom... - 9/14/2015 4:56:42 PM   
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ORIGINAL: kenew
i am dying to serve a dom woman so please help me


Is it tie dye? I love hippies.


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RE: how can i have a online D/S relation with a dom wom... - 9/14/2015 5:14:13 PM   
dcnovice


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This might help.

For men: how to find a woman here.

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RE: how can i have a online D/S relation with a dom wom... - 9/28/2015 8:41:03 AM   
CactusSub


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Status: offline 		Ooops, wrong thread. Sorry

< Message edited by CactusSub -- 9/28/2015 8:42:35 AM >

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