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Hey ^_^ - 9/13/2015 7:07:37 AM

Kika89

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i'm new here. My name is Kristina but you can call me Tina or Kika.Hello to all nice people :) I am very curious girl ..one of the reason why im here :) I really like to talk to people and you have my Respect if i have Yours. :) ^_^ I am sub in practice 3years. i can say i have experience but there's always room for improvement and new stuff to learn. :) If you think -all submissive women's are the same...dont talk to me please. If you consider yourself the best and the most experienced in BDSM and there is nothing new to learn dont talk to me please. If you dont know what is Respect dont talk to me. If you expect from me to call you Sir, Master etc. and you think you own me because I am sub Dont talk to me please. If you think you should get everything on gold plate just because you call yourself a Dom or Master and you dont have to earn anything again dont talk to me please. :) And yeaa dont call me whore, slut, cumrag, fucktoy etc..i didnt give you that right.I dont want to be rude but i dont want to waste my time with people who think subs are sluts who will have sex or do anything for /with someone just because he call himself a Dom. If you are Dom then you will understand. Its all about sane,safe and consensual :) peace :) ( sory for my bad.eng.)

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RE: Hey ^_^ - 9/13/2015 7:23:18 AM

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Well.... what to say???

Firstly, a whole slew of "dont's" is quite a turn-off for many and not exactly the best way to introduce yourself.
This sort of thing belongs on your profile and many will see this as a personal Ad which doesn't belong in intro's.
And a wall of text isn't so easy to read either. Maybe try to break it up a bit.

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Dive in and have fun!

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RE: Hey ^_^ - 9/13/2015 7:42:33 AM

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Haha :)
Thanks for the advice. I know Dont word is not attractive. But I had to write what i mean. Its only important that those who are not like that will not offend. ^_^

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RE: Hey ^_^ - 9/13/2015 7:49:29 AM

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The point I was making is that sort of thing is for the 'other' side of CollarSpace where the profiles and journals live.

We generally don't restrict who responds to posts made in the forums - any and all posts are open to anyone and everyone to respond to, regardless of sex or orientation.
You don't get to dictate who or how they respond.
Just be aware of that and enjoy the show

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RE: Hey ^_^ - 9/13/2015 7:55:27 AM

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Oh yea of course.I know. thank you again. :)

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RE: Hey ^_^ - 9/13/2015 8:20:13 AM

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Writing all the negativity won't stop the idiots from doing exactly what you told them not to do. So why bother with all that? It doesn't make a pleasant introduction. I also have to agree that it's difficult to read.

Introduction Yourself is your one chance to tell us about yourself. What kinds of things do you do for fun? What is your perfect Saturday afternoon activity? That's the sort of thing that goes here.

Welcome to the forums. Hope you join in the chats and discussions.

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RE: Hey ^_^ - 9/13/2015 8:39:22 AM

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It may prove more prudent to tells us what you offer and what you seek instead wasting the readers time with 256 words telling us about the type of assholes you don't like. In fact, by not telling us what you offer a relationship, only those type of assholes you mentioned will be interested in contacting someone that has nothing more to offer than being a life support system for pussy.

Just some friendly advice, your profile has seriously narrowed your appeal and not in a good way.

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RE: Hey ^_^ - 9/13/2015 11:30:52 AM

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I do not see anything wrong in what i said.Did I offended someone? I said what i dont like and that is important just like things i like ^_^ In my profile writes what i like . Well what collarspace offers . Im not done with my profile . I dont have a need to say everything about myself right away.. i have time . :) im here just one day . So i will change my info 100times lol

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RE: Hey ^_^ - 9/13/2015 11:42:54 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Kika89

I do not see anything wrong in what i said.Did I offended someone? I said what i dont like and that is important just like things i like ^_^ In my profile writes what i like . Well what collarspace offers . Im not done with my profile . I dont have a need to say everything about myself right away.. i have time . :) im here just one day . So i will change my info 100times lol

I think what RS is trying to say is that you get ONE and only one shot in intro's.
So to waffle and rant away a lot of what isn't needed or wanted here rather than keeping it in your profile where it belongs was at best a waste of time and effort and would have been better to say what you seek.

I'm not saying it's not important as it obviously is - but only to you.
Your semi-rant doesn't belong here and it was pointed out to you.

If you want to get uppity about a simple and polite suggestion, you'd better grow a thicker skin to survive in here.
This is the nice bit. Other areas are a helluva lot worse than in here.

ETA: You obviously didn't read the sticky post at the top of this topic.

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RE: Hey ^_^ - 9/13/2015 1:18:10 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Kika89

I do not see anything wrong in what i said.Did I offended someone? I said what i dont like and that is important just like things i like ^_^ In my profile writes what i like . Well what collarspace offers . Im not done with my profile . I dont have a need to say everything about myself right away.. i have time . :) im here just one day . So i will change my info 100times lol

About 200,000 new members join collarspace monthly and it has been a successful and productive dating site for many of us that use it wisely. Glad to hear your aren't done with your profile and open minded about revising it.

What's wrong with your currently profile is that it isn't a profile and you take the reader's time to tell them nothing about yourself. Your profile is your personal advert and you didn't sell us on your charm, your skills or share your interests and goals so we could identify with you. We are left knowing nothing about you. In advertising, you need to say as much as you can as quickly as possible.

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RE: Hey ^_^ - 9/13/2015 2:57:51 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Kika89

I do not see anything wrong in what i said.Did I offended someone?

No you did not say anything wrong. No you did not offend anyone.

You did write a lot of unnecessary negativity. The ones that your introduction are geared to never come to this side so they will never read it. They stay on the profile side, perving profiles. Those who do come to this side may avoid contact with you as you are showing nothing but negativity.

Your introduction is to give you one chance to tell us about you. What do you enjoy doing outside of kink? Do you have any hobbies? If you are seeking a relationship and not a one night stand the the vanilla part of you is of great importance. You can't do and be kink 24 hours a day. There has to be time to work and go to the nephew's birthday party and meet with friends for a drink or pizza. It is always helpful if you enjoy the same kinds of movies, music, games, etc.

Welcome to Callarchat. Hope you have a great time here making friends and learning more about yourself and others.

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RE: Hey ^_^ - 9/13/2015 3:11:29 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Kika89

I do not see anything wrong in what i said.Did I offended someone? I said what i dont like and that is important just like things i like ^_^ In my profile writes what i like . Well what collarspace offers . Im not done with my profile . I dont have a need to say everything about myself right away.. i have time . :) im here just one day . So i will change my info 100times lol

Welcome! it is not so much that you stated what you DON'T like...It is the fact that, here on the message boards, choosing to post is basically "license" for anyone to respond as long as they are not blatantly offensive......

What you did was basically walk into a public place like a bar and announce to everyone all of your dislikes....Just like in a social situation, that causes people to get their backs up. It is perfectly acceptable to say to someone, in the course of a conversation (whether real or online) that you don't agree or that you do not care for something they said...but to tell a roomful of strangers the same thing is considered rude...You are making the assumption that someone IS going to do such a thing and most people do not wish to be accused when they have done nothing but barely notice your arrival...

Good Lord! I am starting to sound like my poor deceased mama....

ETA--I just noticed that you are from Eastern Europe and maybe it is just a cultural difference or a language issue and perhaps you did not realize how you came across.

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