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Pain - 9/13/2015 7:37:45 PM

littleone35

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I was in the charoom the other day and the subject of pain came up and one or 2 of the girls thee said i love pain. Granted they may have been maso's . If it makes them happy its all good.

Now i on th other do not like painn, to me paun just hurts. I takr it however if Master choses to give it to me but i sytill don't likr the pain. Good thing for meit i snot his kink.

Now i am trying to understand . Is it the pain you love or the fact you are going through it for him (o her) that you love?

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RE: Pain - 9/14/2015 11:35:54 AM

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The (mild) pain, for me, is for her.

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RE: Pain - 9/14/2015 12:18:11 PM

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For me it's both. I enjoy the pain for me, it excites me, arouses me, is pleasurable to me. I also like that I do enjoy pain because me enjoying it makes it more pleasurable/satisfying for him to give it, he loves my reaction to it.

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RE: Pain - 9/14/2015 2:45:54 PM

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Masochist here.

He loves giving pain, pain hurts.

But the reaction I get from my pain is rather wonderful - it arouses me in ways that a gentle caress just couldn't mimic.

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RE: Pain - 9/14/2015 7:36:03 PM

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I have three levels.

There's certain things that just don't hurt, but I like. They are more like a deep tissue massage than they are pain.

Then there's things that should register as pain (for 'normal' people) but just plain don't for me. Don't know what to tell ya, but being punched full strength with a fist, on certain locations, just plainly does not hurt for me. It feels strictly pleasurable instead.

Lastly there's pain that is just downright painful, and not pleasurable in any way, shape, or form, that I endure to please him. To enjoy that it's in fact crucial that he enjoys it. If he doesn't enjoy it there's nothing in it for me either. That kind of pain I don't like while it's happening, but I like it having happened afterwards.

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RE: Pain - 9/14/2015 7:48:58 PM

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Nope..don't like pain...but..I am addicted to the praise and the approval. Nothing can compare to the feeling and the rush that I get when I look up and see that admiration for what I am willing to quietly accept or to see the pleasure and awe on his face because I have given him something he is so HAPPY to receive...

I joke that "there is not much that I LIKE, but there is very LITTLE that I will not do for someone who I wish to gain admiration from or who I respect/love so much...

I actually think the maso types are more sane...They know they are getting something (it is a symbiotic relationship). I have to be careful because...always that chance that the person on that pedestal has feet of clay...and it can be crushing

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RE: Pain - 9/15/2015 5:49:01 PM

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I don't like pain, either. It hurts. You come after me with something that's going to hurt, and I'm definitely going to deck you. And if you're the type, who gets off by getting your nuts squished; by all means, be happy. The previous authors have touched on something. We do what we do because the Master is grateful for the service. We are talking about a Master/slave relationship, yet there are ways to express a Master's gratefulness without a band and flares.

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RE: Pain - 9/15/2015 6:16:40 PM

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When I "ask for it" it's always over ideals not interest.... doesnt hurt me, dont like it.... I can stay blank faced until they are crying that their arm is sore doesn't solve anything, and I dont respect it. I think anyone who lacks control enough that the only solution they see is violence isnt worthy of respect. Or even acknowledgement. Of course that includes me too and ive sure decked people enough times myself. If someone is trying to hurt me it generally isnt for fun, it's because they cant make me behave like they thought.... a pointless endeavor. If someone was happy hurting me....ehhh, id switch to someone who was happy making me happy.

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RE: Pain - 9/15/2015 9:48:20 PM

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I do not enjoy pain per say. Rather it is more of a control issue for me. Starting out I will resist the pain. My muscles will tense up, my mind will mentally block it. As time goes on my body slowly wears down physically. My mind also weakens after time as it gets harder and harder to concentrate to block out the pain. Then I some point I can no longer resist and my mind or body lets go. If they both let go at the same time it is a very wonderful thing. I am then in sub space where it is very difficult for me to tell the difference between pleasure or pain.

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RE: Pain - 9/18/2015 9:00:56 PM

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I love impact play I like a bit of a warm up before the harder stuff. I love the way it makes my mind float I take adhd meds so I don't stay long but it is fun I know others that stay spacy for hours. that said I do very much enjoy serving as I am service oriented and enjoy the feedback of doing so

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