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I want to know why - 9/15/2015 4:38:42 AM

Mahmoudtheslave2

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Why always mistresses demand money i wish to found mistresses who do this for fun

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RE: I want to know why - 9/15/2015 6:47:37 AM

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The reason is that you want them to take their valuable time to satisfy your kinks and you give them nothing in return. As has been said many times before, a Mistress is not your own personal kink delivery system. What do you have to offer to give to a Mistress?

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RE: I want to know why - 9/15/2015 6:55:01 AM

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Here's why: Your profile has only what you want a Mistress to do to you. Also, all your photos are of you naked.

Real life is not just like what you've been watching in femdom porn.

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RE: I want to know why - 9/15/2015 6:57:20 AM

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As charlie sheen is credited with saying, you don't pay a prostitute for sex, you pay her to leave when the sex is over. The same is true for pro doms. There are lot's of lifestyles dominas. But a lot of male subs want instant gratification with no strings attached or they want discreet affairs.
Pro doms cater to that. Lifestyle dominants might play with out financial investment, but they still expect emotional involvement. Once you remove the men who are married and cheating and men who are seeking casual play and only leave the men are seeking long term relationships, the numbers are a bit more even.

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RE: I want to know why - 9/15/2015 7:05:06 AM

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Why always mistresses demand money i wish to found mistresses who do this for fun

I want a pony,some leggos and an espresso machine for free also.

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RE: I want to know why - 9/15/2015 7:16:56 AM

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I feel like everywhere on the cyberspace, vanilla or bdsm, there will always be men who complains about being unable to get free sex, while plenty of other men who aren't complaining are getting free sex. So what differentiates the complainers to the ones who do not face the same issues.

Hmmm......

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RE: I want to know why - 9/15/2015 7:37:31 AM

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The answer is economics: The law of supply and demand.

The supply of mistresses is low compared to the number the number of wealthy male subs that are willing to pay money or give expensive gifts to the female top. Money talks, and your money probably says only one word “goodbye”.

It is similar to the dirty riddle "Why does a dog lick his balls?" The answer is "Because he can!"

Here is what I want to know. If the yellow light means slow down or caution, Why do Americans speed up?

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RE: I want to know why - 9/15/2015 10:53:52 AM

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Here is what I want to know. If the yellow light means slow down or caution, Why do Americans speed up?

Why do you think it is only americans?

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RE: I want to know why - 9/15/2015 10:55:08 AM

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I feel like everywhere on the cyberspace, vanilla or bdsm, there will always be men who complains about being unable to get free sex, while plenty of other men who aren't complaining are getting free sex. So what differentiates the complainers to the ones who do not face the same issues.

Hmmm......

No one is getting free sex.

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RE: I want to know why - 9/15/2015 11:10:50 AM

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If the yellow light means slow down or caution, Why do Americans speed up?

In Italy, red lights are merely guidelines and stop signs are viewed as simply warnings to bikers
that the cars won't stop so be careful. Even if three lanes are marked, there are sure to be five
or six and driving on sidewalks is not uncommon.

Speeding up to get through a light is better on gas mileage than having to stop and restart.

It's all about momentum baby.. or, I dunno, maybe inertia if you actually stop!

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RE: I want to know why - 9/15/2015 10:26:02 PM

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Why always mistresses demand money i wish to found mistresses who do this for fun

If you had something else of value to offer perhaps they wouldn't be asking for your money?

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RE: I want to know why - 9/16/2015 11:25:22 AM

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Why always mistresses demand money i wish to found mistresses who do this for fun

Because you have nothing to offer but YOUR dick and YOUR kink interests and that is not fun for a Domme. I have absolutely no problem playing with someone for free if they meet MY NEEDS. Since you want your needs only to be met, then yeah, no one wants to deal with you.

And seriously, these whining "why can't a Domme play with me for free" complaints are getting old.

Here is the deal. Money is the great equalizer. If you cannot offer anything that is worth while, then it comes down to money. I took a look at your profile and you have absolutely nothing to offer me that I 1) cannot get from a local sub and 2) I do not have now.

So with that being said, if I was approached by you, I would say the same thing-pay for my time. And before you use the typical "I can be a loyal/devoted sub who will suffer for you" line that all of you whiney little cheap bastards use....just want to remind you that indulging in YOUR kink by claiming to be a loyal devoted sub does absolutely nothing for me.

Now, if you are local and able to offer something tangible aside from your constant hard-on, then I would listen to you.

But since you are not local and have nothing to offer but having your own needs met...then yeah, money will do.

Bottom line-deal with it, kitten.
If you want your needs met without any plans to reciprocate her needs, be prepared to compensate.

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RE: I want to know why - 9/16/2015 2:41:10 PM

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I had an interesting discussion very similar to this with a friend yesterday. She had slept with a guy after their first date. She didn't regret it. She's an adult and can make what own decisions. I was happy she enjoyed herself. She mad originally met the guy on an online dating site. He was polite, took her out on a nice date, and they had a great time. He never made any mention of sex prior to their meeting or even during the date. Yet they still slept together. So I 100% agree that the men who aren't complaining are the ones having sex. If someone messages me ona vanilla dating site and immediately turns the topic toward sex, there is a 0% chance I will ever sleep with them. I have so many girl friends complaining about this all the time. I would love to hear from someone that this actually worked on. Because it's so insanely unappealing. However the smart guys, the ones who don't just throw their penis in every woman's face are the ones who don't have trouble getting laid.

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RE: I want to know why - 9/16/2015 5:01:29 PM

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Why always mistresses demand money i wish to found mistresses who do this for fun

I want a pony,some leggos and an espresso machine for free also.

Wait a minute!!! Somebody is giving away free LEGOs here and I was not told? Do you know how valuable those things are? Heck, I might even be willing to become a LEGO Domme (ok...more likely a LEGO sub...)

Now,.to the OP...PLEASE put that thing away!! Yes...Every guy has one...yes, yours is much bigger (nicer, fatter, whatever) then Every other guys...yes, God gave men penises to play with because he knew how expensive LEGOs were going to be...

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RE: I want to know why - 9/18/2015 7:49:58 PM

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Why always mistresses demand money i wish to found mistresses who do this for fun

I wish to found Mistress too. I wish to found Mistress who do this for love.

I find Mistress who like makie love.....I find her I take her home.

I bring quarters.

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