Greta75
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ORIGINAL: thompsonx Did you know that there are fewer unwed single mothers than there are divorced/widowed single mothers? You know when I am thinking about fathers not being involved in their children's life in a positive way, it's not unwed mothers I am thinking about. Whether she is wed/single/divorced, has nothing to do with the father's involvement in his child's life as a positive role model, but has to do with what type of father the kids are unfortunate to have as role models. quote:
Please tell us the name of this philantropic organization that is doing so much good. I never asked for the name of the organization and even if I did, to practically say I am friends with someone who is involve in this organization is outing myself isn't it? Too bad I can never prove anything that have the tiny possibility of leading to my real identity and won't be baited into it. You can discredit this as much as you want, but people are out there trying to good things. Not everyone is evil. quote:
Would it not be cheaper to upgrade the schools so that everyone got a good education and not just the few getting bussed? The problem with the school, is not the quality of the education, but the quality of the students attending the school. They need these kids to mingle with kids from better more healthy families and have friends who aren't into gangs and drugs, you know, have boring study nerds as friends rather than friends who encourage more destructive behaviours. As there is alot of peer pressure. They want to move the kids to an environment where the peer pressure is positive peer pressure, about bettering their lives, upgrading themselves, rather than self-destructive traits. Upgrading the school in their area, just by reputation of that area, will not help in making the influences better. quote:
We all appreciate your input...no matter how ignorant,unsubstantiated or ill formed it may be. I on the other hand live here. That coupled with being old gives me a special perspective on my country and "race relations" there in. I have lived with segregation and racism, you have not. You have no frame of reference for it. Wouldn't it behove your post for you to have done a bit of research on the history of "race relationship" rather than rely on anectdotal "evidence" from your "friend"? Perhaps the problem is your age! While you lived in times where blacks used to experienced more discrimination, but for some strange reason, you aren't seeing how through the years, this is decreasing and many more people are embracing them as equal useful human beings who are capable of being positive contribution to society. Obama himself got to be a lawyer because he came from a healthier middle class upbringing, and look where he is now. The goal would be, how to help these kids get similar upbringing, healthier upbringing. That's all they need. And regardless of colour, any kid in a bad environment, will have a lower chance of making it decent in life. And right now, it just happens the black community is in that situation and need alot more help to get out of it. Put any other race in the same environment, the outcome will be the same.
< Message edited by Greta75 -- 9/21/2015 5:21:08 AM >
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