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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

Have fun with that.

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ORIGINAL: EmbrunMurphyCPL

Nothing wrong with that if that's what they're into. I am a bisexual white male who likes cross-dressing and my wife S. is supportive.

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ORIGINAL: DommeVictoria213
Encouraging male homosexuality is key to creating a sissy.

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ORIGINAL: DommeVictoria213
The dominant woman will take every opportunity to plant gay longings in her target.

5. Now, them there's fighting words -- these triggered an unassailably negative reaction. OP thinks she can define what Dominant women could, would and should be doing, as a self-ordained FemDom spokeswoman.
Nowhere else to go but downhill from here on out.

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ORIGINAL: DommeVictoria213
She should watch the sexual activity and actively approve as the sissies fondle and suck each other.

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ORIGINAL: JVoV

^^^^ all those words.... U will never be a twu dominate.

Hopeless.

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ORIGINAL: Chrisp7135

I visit here for the intellectual conversations, but stay for the humor.

chris

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ORIGINAL: Wayward5oul

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ORIGINAL: JVoV

^^^^ all those words.... U will never be a twu dominate.

Hopeless.

Dude, typo. You forgot to capitalize "Dominate". That's just disrespectful to twu Dominates.

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ORIGINAL: JVoV
If I had a cooch

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ORIGINAL: DommeVictoria213

Encouraging male homosexuality is key to creating a sissy. The dominant woman will take every opportunity to plant gay longings in her target. She should watch the sexual activity and actively approve as the sissies fondle and suck each other. This video illustrates the concept beautifully:

http://xhamster.com/movies/3161657/amateur_crossdressers_fuck_while_wife_watching.html

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ORIGINAL: DesFIP

The op shows her ignorance. You cannot change a person's sexual orientation. You can change behavior but not personality.
And cross dressers are not necessarily interested in being sissified.

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ORIGINAL: Wayward5oul

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ORIGINAL: JVoV
^^^^ all those words.... U will never be a twu dominate.

Hopeless.

Dude, typo. You forgot to capitalize "Dominate". That's just disrespectful to twu Dominates.

So J, you didn't know that one of my specialties is verbal[/mental] Domination? I'll talk your (plural) ear off while you get a tongue lashing.
When I sit you down to give you [yet] a[nother] lecture, you'll be begging for a beating instead.

No, I'm not usually the arrogant sort (those damned okcupid personality bargraphs lie!), but I can match opinionated arrogance with opinionated arrogance. (Hmm, it almost comes naturally to me.)

Btw, I don't expect you to know this, but I have to confess that I am not a twu D/dominate. Don't even have a Master Card to laminate.

I tried calling myself a switch for 6 months, but that just caused a bunch of confusion over on the other (profile) side. Evidently, saying you're a Domme-leaning switch throws kinky men into a loop. Especially when you clearly state that you're not a Top, you're not looking for a Top, and you don't bottom.

That Interests list is mighty ambiguous, and nobody knows what to make of it. Some BDSM-y things I couldn't list because it could be taken the wrong way, or as not being bidirectional; other things I had to list in a different category than I wanted to as a kind of compromise. It's straightened out now that I reclassified myself recently as a Dominant woman, but still don't like to use the term Domme or FemDom. (I'm okay with Mistress, but not generically to just any Tom, Dick & Harry s-type.)

As unbelievable as this might sound, I got tired of having to over-explain myself. (Like right now)

SDFemDom4cuck, you raise an interesting point. Some guys are bicurious, but once they've dipped their toe into the water, they discover that they're not into other guys. Others find their twu calling in life or else can reconcile themselves to being heteroflexible with the *right* partner.
I can say with absolute certainty that if I hadn't dabbled a couple times in the ladies pond a really long time ago, I wouldn't know beyond the shadow of a doubt that I am not attracted to women and have no desire to explore my sexuality with them.
Chalk it up to adolescent horniness. Also, we gals were more open to same-sex experimentation without as much inhibition or laying a guilt trip upon ourselves for it as most guys do.

Then there's the fear factor. Females don't ordinarily live in fear of getting raped and/or molested by one another (by men, yes, but not by other women). I have a friend who served in Iraq, and he admitted that this was a constant fear and source of anxiety. He woke up once with some soldier dude sucking his dick, and he was so pissed off that he almost beat the living daylights out of that drunk dude.

DreamLady

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@Dreamlady

I just don't consider performing a sexual act at the behest of another the equivalent to defining their sexuality. An act is an act. Neither would have gone out on their own and actively sucked c*ck for their own pleasure. Yet, after the acceptance of their place, they did not hesitate. Still did not have anything to do with their natural sexuality. I did not see them as homosexual, nor did they. It was simply an act they performed for my enjoyment.

Because at its root, for Me, submission and service are about doing the things you abhor the most, along with the things that drive you crazy, in order to please another person. Just My .02

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ORIGINAL: SDFemDom4cuck

Exactly Dream Lady! Just as I'm sure there are as numerous different opinions on it by each of us. That is the beauty of it all. The differences. However I agree that sometimes the more inexperienced of Dommes get a little over excited and run amok proclaiming all sorts of stuff in their excitement that can do more harm than good. I don't know that age really makes a difference. I've seen the same in your face omnipotence in "Dommes" twice the OPs age who were just discovering their power.

Perhaps the OP was simply out casting her net for clients here on the Mistress Board. Given her lack of response it seems she is less interested in discussing/defending her viewpoint or learning and more interested in setting out bait. The unfortunate part is that the OP's kind of attitude is what perpetuates the wrong ideas among submissive males regarding what is and what isn't Dominant behavior. Grrrr!

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ORIGINAL: dreamlady

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ORIGINAL: SDFemDom4cuck

Exactly Dream Lady! Just as I'm sure there are as numerous different opinions on it by each of us. That is the beauty of it all. The differences. However I agree that sometimes the more inexperienced of Dommes get a little over excited and run amok proclaiming all sorts of stuff in their excitement that can do more harm than good. I don't know that age really makes a difference. I've seen the same in your face omnipotence in "Dommes" twice the OPs age who were just discovering their power.

Perhaps the OP was simply out casting her net for clients here on the Mistress Board. Given her lack of response it seems she is less interested in discussing/defending her viewpoint or learning and more interested in setting out bait. The unfortunate part is that the OP's kind of attitude is what perpetuates the wrong ideas among submissive males regarding what is and what isn't Dominant behavior. Grrrr!

Oh yeah, it's not so much chronological age as being new (too late to edit), as in young to D/s. Even then, those Dominants who have extensive experience can just end up becoming more experienced as an asshat!
There are plenty of middle-aged fools running around, acting out on their mid-life crises. The worst ones I run into are the married middle-aged "sub" men who are either HNG wank fantasists who whine like little crybaby bitches about how their wives aren't into chastity and cuckolding. And/or their foot fetish, sissy fantasies, spanko fantasies, and wanting to get pegged.

But of course, any very young person can't possibly have a great deal of experience under her belt. We were all new and inexperienced once, and had to learn things the hard way.
OP is 28 and could conceivably have been into kink for the past decade. I doubt that, though. Regardless, anybody in their late 20s should have enough overall diversity of experience to navigate life's terrain effectively, one would hope.

DreamLady

Shout out to lthrpup -- Where there is a will, there is a way. . . within realistic bounds, naturally.

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ORIGINAL: Spiritedsub2

Is this a public service announcement?

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ORIGINAL: LookieNoNookie

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ORIGINAL: Spiritedsub2

Is this a public service announcement?

Reminds me of local Tsunami warnings...."get to higher ground!!!!"