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mercutio100 -> THIS MORNING (A True story) (9/17/2015 11:12:35 AM)





I walked into the building at the set appointment time, shaking like a leaf in a gale force wind. "Please take a seat" the person on reception duty said "she will call you into her room when she is ready"

it wasn't long before i was told to enter the said room, bestowed with instruments of pain with a chair set in the middle. Not a conventional chair but one designed to bend and turn its user in every direction required by the Lady.

She wore the usual type of clothing one would expect from a visit like , and directed me to sit in the evil contraption.

making pleasant conversation to distract my attention she prodded and poked pointed instruments into sensitive areas.

A kinder person would have restrained my arms before starting.

She wants to see me again and took £50 off me for the 20 minute visit



Wayward5oul -> RE: THIS MORNING (A True story) (9/17/2015 11:16:36 AM)

dental appt?



thompsonx -> RE: THIS MORNING (A True story) (9/17/2015 12:55:41 PM)

Fifty pounds and 20 minutes...sounds like a teeth cleaning.



Lucylastic -> RE: THIS MORNING (A True story) (9/17/2015 1:01:15 PM)

Cheap thrill for many a fetishist.



mercutio100 -> RE: THIS MORNING (A True story) (9/17/2015 1:01:18 PM)

filling



Wayward5oul -> RE: THIS MORNING (A True story) (9/17/2015 1:15:05 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: mercutio100

filling


See? Everyone engages in bdsm, they just don't recognize it as such.



longwayhome -> RE: THIS MORNING (A True story) (9/19/2015 2:25:55 AM)

I have some issues with my back and have never been a big fan of treatment as such because the best "treatment" is almost always what you can do yourself.

Some time ago I saw a massage therapist for a while, who gave me really deep tissue massage, which is the only therapy which has ever worked over a period of time to really loosen me up and allow me to stretch further.

The treatment of course was uncomfortable and often directly painful. The therapist was very good and never damaged me in any way. There was never any of the sharp shearing pain, associated with injury, but plenty of the almost sickening pain of having knots worked out of my deep muscles.

As a good professional she was always concerned about whether she was hurting me. I encouraged her to carry on which she always did. She seemed a bit surprised by my ability to tolerate as much as I did. I don't honestly know whether it was my ability to tolerate the pain, my messed up little head actually enjoying it, or the knowledge that it was beneficial that enabled me to take as much as I did. She must of known, despite my trying to hide it that it was painful, because there are always signs.

What I do know is that the treatment gave me an enormous physical and psychological release, and I frequently walked away feeling that I had had an almost spiritual experience.

My work eventually took me to another part of the country so I couldn't have any more seasons. There was never anything even vaguely inappropriate, but I find it a bit unsettling that I may have gained some kind of vicarious pleasure from a therapeutic act, at the hands of someone who was unaware of how I am wired.

It's easy to get your head round the whole pressure/pain, enjoying/not enjoying, wanting/not wanting thing as part of sex or play because you both understand what you are consenting too.

Is it wrong however to get a sense of release from pain, outside of that context, when it's not supposed to be enjoyable?



longwayhome -> RE: THIS MORNING (A True story) (9/19/2015 2:28:54 AM)

Or am I just too sensitive, with an overactive guilt complex?



Wayward5oul -> RE: THIS MORNING (A True story) (9/19/2015 5:23:27 AM)

I don't think there is anything to feel bad about, or think it is wrong.



thompsonx -> RE: THIS MORNING (A True story) (9/19/2015 5:28:44 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: longwayhome

Or am I just too sensitive, with an overactive guilt complex?


I was pretty much in the same situation with my p/t. She eventually tore a muscle in her shoulder working on me and had to retire.....guilt...yeah a little.



MAINEiacMISTRESS -> RE: THIS MORNING (A True story) (9/19/2015 5:49:49 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: Wayward5oul


quote:

ORIGINAL: mercutio100

filling


See? Everyone engages in bdsm, they just don't recognize it as such.

Exactly!



longwayhome -> RE: THIS MORNING (A True story) (9/19/2015 9:50:34 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: Wayward5oul

I don't think there is anything to feel bad about, or think it is wrong.


I can justify that to myself given my good behaviour, however is deriving pleasure from something justifiable if that is not the other person's intention? Perhaps it is based on how you respond.

Getting aroused and actually groping your dentist is different from thinking "this is quite hot" and making a dignified exit.



Wayward5oul -> RE: THIS MORNING (A True story) (9/19/2015 10:54:26 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: longwayhome
I can justify that to myself given my good behaviour, however is deriving pleasure from something justifiable if that is not the other person's intention? Perhaps it is based on how you respond.

Getting aroused and actually groping your dentist is different from thinking "this is quite hot" and making a dignified exit.


As a generalization, we often can't decide how we feel about something, what our mental or emotional response to something is. What we can do is control how those feelings manifest, if at all. Ethical people, moral people, are not ethical or moral because they don't feel things that are questionable. If they didn't feel those things, then they would not have to make a moral or ethical choice. What helps to determine character is how we choose to react in those situations. You realized what your internal response was, but you didn't indulge it in any way. You made that choice not to involve the dentist. There is nothing more you could have done lessen engagement by either of you.




Lucylastic -> RE: THIS MORNING (A True story) (9/19/2015 11:25:32 AM)

Oh....boy, am i sorry i made that statement about being a cheap thrill.
Sorry, i derive pleasure from many things that someone else maynot be aware of.
I too get pleasure...tingly, girl boner, what ever...from a couple of things.
Feet, hair, massage.
Therapeutic or not.
I wont get.aroused as much as aware of everything that is touching me.
I too, have had to have painful pleasure, some more pain than pleasure, but i am very careful not to let it show.
I do feel for guys who have the pleasure register to the world. It only becomes a problem when you advertise it to someone who will take offense. Personally i get the pleasure when the pain is less and you can feel more than the pain.its a guilty pleasre i keep to myself.



longwayhome -> RE: THIS MORNING (A True story) (9/19/2015 8:03:50 PM)

Lots of humour in it too.

It was me who dragged the conversation down with a gratuitous ethical consideration!

[:D]



mercutio100 -> RE: THIS MORNING (A True story) (9/21/2015 4:15:02 AM)

so pleased my message has generated such fun. keep it rolling



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