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Older little.... Help please - 9/17/2015 11:37:49 AM

Victarena

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I'm new to this lifestyle and I love my man with my whole heart and soul and will do anything to please him. He recently told me he misses the daddy/little relationships he's had in the past because he loves that nurturing role. He asked me if I would be his little. I would/will and can find my inner child with no problem--in my head. My problem is that I'm older (52) and can't get what I see in the mirror and the little girl in my head together. Something is holding me back and I don't know how to get past the wall. Any suggestions?
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RE: Older little.... Help please - 9/17/2015 5:11:33 PM

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Dont look in the mirror? ...I dont know... I suppose I had a somewhat similar situation after I grew boobs. I was really athletic and playful when I was younger. Puberty was forcefully induced in mr(because I never went through it naturally... mostly due to a lack of food). I hated having boobs and hips, was disgusted by how I looked(and the drop in energy level) but eventually I stopped thinking about it. How I see myself when I dream is that playful kid, the shell is just what has been done with it. I dont think about how I look at all(which tends to lead to bad situations because I forget how other people see me) but that's what you're looking for pretty much.... just to stop thinking about it. Of course that is a lot easier said than done(or explained).

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RE: Older little.... Help please - 9/17/2015 6:22:02 PM

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Thanks. I just have to try to not think so much.

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RE: Older little.... Help please - 9/17/2015 6:38:14 PM

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No no no no! Lol just think about other things :P

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RE: Older little.... Help please - 9/17/2015 7:01:01 PM

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Could you try it as role play first?

But he can be nurturing and paternal without you being a little.

With that said, not every little is very young. Some of us revert to the teen years.

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RE: Older little.... Help please - 9/17/2015 7:17:15 PM

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I'm going to try to work on it this weekend. He doesn't want very young--10-12 or so. I just would really like to do this well for him.

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RE: Older little.... Help please - 9/17/2015 7:28:06 PM

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Ooh the bratty years lol

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RE: Older little.... Help please - 9/17/2015 7:33:11 PM

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I've been responsible and "good" for too long. Maybe being bratty will be fun!!

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RE: Older little.... Help please - 9/18/2015 4:17:58 PM

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I age play as a teenager. Its easier for me. Relax and go at YOUR pace. Communicate these feelings (and any others) to him. Most importantly, HAVE FUN!

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RE: Older little.... Help please - 9/20/2015 6:41:50 PM

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We did have a lot of fun this weekend! Best time ever as his little. Thanks!

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