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Hello CS, looking for likeminded people has changed - 9/18/2015 7:01:14 PM

TigerBDSM

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The online BDSM world sure has changed. In the beginning, though small, you could actually meet likeminded people. Now you wade through tons of filler, and fraud to find a few. How is it on the female side looking for a dom?

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RE: Hello CS, looking for likeminded people has changed - 9/18/2015 7:16:40 PM

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ORIGINAL: TigerBDSM

The online BDSM world sure has changed. In the beginning, though small, you could actually meet likeminded people. Now you wade through tons of filler, and fraud to find a few. How is it on the female side looking for a dom?

Same, same. I feel your pain (and as a confirmed masochist, let me just say thank you.)

Try to keep smiling. ;)

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RE: Hello CS, looking for likeminded people has changed - 9/18/2015 7:23:23 PM

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Great to see another old timer still here!

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RE: Hello CS, looking for likeminded people has changed - 9/19/2015 7:57:46 AM

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From the female side, it depends on what you seek.

If you want a single, smart, self aware, reality driven, stable, fun guy of quality, it's difficult.

If you don't mind married, lying, clueless, delusional, whiny, rude men who wouldn't be able to function in the vanilla world, yet expect to be Insta-Doms whose mere email makes a woman drop to her knees....hell, then it's easy pickings.

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RE: Hello CS, looking for likeminded people has changed - 9/19/2015 8:26:35 AM

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Sometimes I wish we didn't have the rule against posting examples of other profiles. If I could just post a few profiles ofsome men I've heard from here, it would speak a thousand words in answer to the OP question! Alas.

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RE: Hello CS, looking for likeminded people has changed - 9/19/2015 12:50:04 PM

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No different from looking for a compatible vanilla mate. If you decided you wanted to settle down, start a family etc would you expect to find the right person immediately? Would you be willing to marry the first person you dated or would you expect this to take some time?

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RE: Hello CS, looking for likeminded people has changed - 9/19/2015 2:17:42 PM

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Thanks to everyone.

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