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Wayward5oul -> RE: Men, Describe how it feels like to (10/1/2015 4:34:36 PM)
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I have refrained from replying to your posts anymore, because I have realized that there is no getting past your narrow interpretation of everything you see and hear. You aren't normally judgmental or asinine, like some people on here that I no longer reply to. But it is frustrating to try and reason with you. But jeezus...
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ORIGINAL: Greta75
Are you serious? What are you doing in a kink site if you are just waiting for sex after marriage?
No way you can spin this. This is judgmental. This is implying that someone is abnormal and doesn't belong here.
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ORIGINAL: Greta75
Yea, I love sex, not ashame of it.
The implication being that he is ashamed of it?
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ORIGINAL: ashjor911
what I am doing here .. well see under my screen name it says first class wanker, I am waking all over this site.
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ORIGINAL: Greta75
So you have an addiction to wanking. Hmm..., I have met men like that. Wanking beats penetrative sex for them, even after they have tried penetrative sex several times. But nothing wrong! If it makes you happy, I am happy for you!
And this is another example of the error that you make in so many of your observations. You cannot tell context. Communication is more than just words. It is subtext, body language, context, tone of voice, etc. And whether it is from video or a written medium, you ignore all of that and go straight for literal interpretation. And therefore frequently misunderstand the context of a situation entirely. And your postings all over this forum reflect that.
In case you still haven't gotten it, he was being sarcastic here. He never actually meant that he came on here to wank. That is you not understanding context so you have misread what he is saying. As usual.
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ORIGINAL: ashjor911
really?
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ORIGINAL: Greta75
Yes, because when you wank yourself, you can control your pressure surrounding your dick, but when you fuck a vagina, you are at the mercy of the woman who will control the pressure, whether she will squeeze you from inside or relax. So sometimes, the rhythm may not fit well, and they rather wank than fuck.
Still haven't caught on that he was being sarcastic and is no longer taking you seriously.
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ORIGINAL: ashjor911
I doubt that anyone would rather sleep with someone "as a hole" then to just fuck a vagina.
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ORIGINAL: Greta75
I am just explaining why some men don't enjoy penetrative sex in a vagina. A woman has a few other possibilities for penetration, so that is another subjective part. There was one regular here who infact said once that vagina penetration is the least exciting thing for him in sex with a woman.
At this point he has all but taken out a billboard, and you still don't get the picture.
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ORIGINAL: Greta75
I heard amsterdam whores are not a good initiation for sex, as they are like, too jaded, so I wouldn't recommend that either.
Yes, we know that you 'hear' all sorts of things. Time and time again you say 'a friend of mine from America told me...', and then you treat whatever your 'heard' as the gospel truth and make ignorant, blanket generalizations about the country. Or generalizations about some other country based on what you 'heard' about it.
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ORIGINAL: Greta75
But from what I heard from other guys, usually the problem with paid sex from these professionals, is, they aren't, they are just going through the motions.
We are aware that you hear things.
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ORIGINAL: Greta75
Asking someone what they are doing on a kink site if they are waiting till marriage for sex is merely a question, a curiousity, not judgement.
You do know that there is a lot to bdsm that isn't about sex? I mean, not for me. But there are a lot of people who engage in bdsm without sexual interaction. So no, sex does not have to be a requirement to take advantage of this site.
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ORIGINAL: Greta75
And he says because he enjoys wanking. Which makes sense to me now.
Still not getting it.
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ORIGINAL: Greta75
I think you have reading comprehension problems.
See above. ALL of the above.
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ORIGINAL: Greta75
If that is your interpretation, that's your problem.
Apparently, its everyone's interpretation. Still don't see it?
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ORIGINAL: Greta75
First you said you never put your dick in a vagina before. I didn't believe your claim, so I asked if you mean it that you never had sex?
Now you are accusing him of lying in the first place. Nice.
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ORIGINAL: Greta75
Then you replied by saying you wouldn't get it on with a prostitute. I never suggest once that you get it with a prostitute. The scene that I told you about was how Saudis get casual sex. They aren't paid whores, but just genuine women who wants to get laid, and getting it done without getting in trouble. It's like a normal person in a regular society going out to a club, buy a girl a drink and hook up if they like each other.
So if you get paid for it, you are a whore. But if you don't charge for it, you are a genuine woman? Or normal? Interesting.
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ORIGINAL: Greta75
Anyway, pretty much, that's how everything went. No where was I insulting you at all.
You don't want to admit it, but yeah you did.
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ORIGINAL: Greta75
I've explained and clarified and apologised for hurting your feelings and if you are still upset, then I can't help you. You can simply stop corresponding with me.
No, actually you didn't. What you said to someone else was:
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ORIGINAL: Greta75
And if he had felt judged for being a virgin, I would apologise because that was not my intent
You were explaining to someone else that their interpretation of what you said was wrong. You never actually apologized to anyone. All you have done is try to explain how everyone is misunderstanding you.
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ORIGINAL: Greta75
Also, I actually respect prostitutes as human beings with a legitimate career, so I also didn't like how you spoke about them.
He was not the one who used the word 'whore', multiple times. He was not the one who differentiated 'paid whores' from genuine woman and normal women. That was you.
Your language is telling, even if you don't want to admit it.
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ORIGINAL: Greta75
Of course Ishtar has now clarified that it is possible to get a passionate sexual experience with a sex worker in Amsterdam, and with that new information, I would also retract anything I said about it not being a good idea for first time sex to be with a Amsterdam prostitute.
Nothing against Ishtar, but this is a good example of your how treat things you 'heard' as the gospel, and base entire opinions and posts on that. Before Ishtar said this, you were basing your beliefs on what 'all the guys' told you. And going on quite a bit about it. Now, 1 person that you don't even know has told you something different, and you are ready to invalidate 'everything' you 'heard' from 'all they guys' before.
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