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should I give up BDSM after PTSD - 9/24/2015 4:22:42 PM   
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enter after slight exorcism say in 2002 an ordeal in late 2003 extending through mid 2004 PTSD

If I become Incoherent and the only people who have answers not psychiatrist no psychologists are religious people who
wouldn't balk at a chance to say You saw the light now surrender to god
If you engage in sex drugs r&r and bdsm you are not Holy and Rigteous and If someone follows in your footsteps Shane on them
and the BLAME IS ALL YOURS

Shall I give up BDSM after PTSD or an exorcusm
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RE: should I give up BDSM after PTSD - 9/24/2015 4:29:06 PM   
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RE: should I give up BDSM after PTSD - 9/24/2015 4:34:23 PM   
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RE: should I give up BDSM after PTSD - 9/24/2015 4:38:27 PM   
MS4S


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Status: offline 		okay simple in 2002 I saw the light and ended up because of this believing it was the light itself or some voodoo spell
by some Satanist or sritualist or voodoo person who caused Me to go through a SLIGHT EXORCISM

THIS IS 100% TRUE AND ID SWEAR ON THE BIBLE

IF THIS IS PART OF MY PTSD shall I have given up BDSM SEX RELATIONSHIPS ETC....entirely or just till the ordeal was over

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RE: should I give up BDSM after PTSD - 9/24/2015 5:52:04 PM   
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Status: offline 		I think you need a different therapist.
One who is both kink-friendly and experienced with PTSD/psych issues.

Edited to add: Until your issues are sorted, I personally believe it would be best to not engage in BDSM.

P.S. To the OP, I never figured you for a middle-aged dominant male.
Your photo suggests that you are female.

I don't know for certain, but I suspect that some of the replies to your various threads may be written with that erroneous assumption in mind.

< Message edited by angelikaJ -- 9/24/2015 5:56:46 PM >

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RE: should I give up BDSM after PTSD - 9/24/2015 6:09:45 PM   
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RE: should I give up BDSM after PTSD - 9/24/2015 11:11:02 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: MS4S

The Years were 99 2000 2001 2002 2003 the websites were alt.com and one other(Doesn't exist now) I was happy Go lucky camper as
newbie till mid 2003
I was Forum Nut Mentor Could Talk the Talk(Not yet Walk the Walk) Spelling Nazis withstanding I made friends etc....

enter after slight exorcism say in 2002 an ordeal in late 2003 extending through mid 2004 PTSD

If I become Incoherent and the only people who have answers not psychiatrist no psychologists are religious people who
wouldn't balk at a chance to say You saw the light now surrender to god
If you engage in sex drugs r&r and bdsm you are not Holy and Rigteous and If someone follows in your footsteps Shane on them
and the BLAME IS ALL YOURS

Shall I give up BDSM after PTSD or an exorcusm

Can you exorcise stupidity?

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RE: should I give up BDSM after PTSD - 9/24/2015 11:31:37 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: stef
Can you exorcise stupidity?


Personally I'm more curious about what a "slight" exorcism entails. Is it just like being a little bit pregnant? Does your mother only flirt in purgatory instead of suck cocks in hell?

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RE: should I give up BDSM after PTSD - 9/25/2015 12:27:23 AM   
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ORIGINAL: MS4S

But I'm seeing one prescribed by the Religious Right



And it doesn't seem to be helping much.
So, see someone else.

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RE: should I give up BDSM after PTSD - 9/25/2015 12:43:17 AM   
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ORIGINAL: MS4S

The Years were 99 2000 2001 2002 2003 the websites were alt.com and one other(Doesn't exist now) I was happy Go lucky camper as
newbie till mid 2003
I was Forum Nut Mentor Could Talk the Talk(Not yet Walk the Walk) Spelling Nazis withstanding I made friends etc....

enter after slight exorcism say in 2002 an ordeal in late 2003 extending through mid 2004 PTSD

If I become Incoherent and the only people who have answers not psychiatrist no psychologists are religious people who
wouldn't balk at a chance to say You saw the light now surrender to god
If you engage in sex drugs r&r and bdsm you are not Holy and Rigteous and If someone follows in your footsteps Shane on them
and the BLAME IS ALL YOURS

Shall I give up BDSM after PTSD or an exorcusm


Given your posting history, yes, you should probably give up BDSM until your issues are sorted.
Your posts are all over the place, and your train of thought is disjointed.
Given how disjointed your thinking seems, being in charge of anyone else seems unwise.

The way you are posting is very similar to the way other people have posted when they have the manic features of bipolar disorder.

This is not a diagnosis.
I am merely pointing out how your posts appear.



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RE: should I give up BDSM after PTSD - 9/25/2015 3:14:55 AM   
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Asde from Casual Play scenes

the Thin Line between polygamy and monogamy(Social acceprance vs loved ones desires of marriage) and how many females is acceotable to LURE or CONVINCE to join a POLY HOUSEhOLD

1 dz 2 dz 4 dz or shall I still have the email thingie to say HI Care to Join an already HUGE POLY FAMILY. See My pics of online collarigs or Girls looking to join Me when My finances are resurrected

So if Everytime a female slave sub whose into poly or open relationshups or bisexual slave subs appear on this site and I decide okay eenie meenie I'll talk to that one Yeah and that One and of course That one

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RE: should I give up BDSM after PTSD - 9/25/2015 4:25:04 PM   
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Status: offline 		Therein lies the problem. In my book anything supplied by the religious right is suspect. What is the root source of your PTSD?

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RE: should I give up BDSM after PTSD - 9/25/2015 4:47:14 PM   
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Status: offline 		Yes, give up BDSM right now. And give up using the computer too, the cosmic rays emitted from the screen aggravate PTSD. In fact, before you shut your computer off, go visit list if Code Red infected web sites and click on ALL the links.



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RE: should I give up BDSM after PTSD - 9/25/2015 7:39:33 PM   
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Status: offline 		Give up BDSM, get mentally healed and financially healthy. And then get back into BDSM. Come on! It's common sense!


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RE: should I give up BDSM after PTSD - 9/25/2015 7:56:03 PM   
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Status: offline 		MS4S, normally, I can make some degree of sense out of almost anything. I have no fucking idea what you're trying to say. If you are under any sort of legitimate treatment, it is not working.

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RE: should I give up BDSM after PTSD - 9/25/2015 8:20:34 PM   
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Status: offline 		You're in Long Island, not BFE. Call up Stony Brook Hospital and get the names of a clinical psychologist.
Not some right wing LSW.

And get a better psychiatrist, while you're at it.

Stop drinking and drugging. Dual diagnosis is really hard to treat.

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RE: should I give up BDSM after PTSD - 9/26/2015 3:10:53 AM   
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ORIGINAL: MS4S

MY ISSUES other than HWP is financial issues and one other
Asde from Casual Play scenes

the Thin Line between polygamy and monogamy(Social acceprance vs loved ones desires of marriage) and how many females is acceotable to LURE or CONVINCE to join a POLY HOUSEhOLD

1 dz 2 dz 4 dz or shall I still have the email thingie to say HI Care to Join an already HUGE POLY FAMILY. See My pics of online collarigs or Girls looking to join Me when My finances are resurrected

So if Everytime a female slave sub whose into poly or open relationshups or bisexual slave subs appear on this site and I decide okay eenie meenie I'll talk to that one Yeah and that One and of course That one


After having read some 6 or 7 of your posts, I've come to the conclusion that your issue is neither PTSD or BDSM, rather, familiarity with the English language, coherence of any kind and, an entire lack of access to a dictionary.

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RE: should I give up BDSM after PTSD - 9/26/2015 9:01:53 AM   
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RE: should I give up BDSM after PTSD - 9/26/2015 9:03:29 AM   
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ORIGINAL: LookieNoNookie


After having read some 6 or 7 of your posts, I've come to the conclusion that your issue is neither PTSD or BDSM, rather, familiarity with the English language, coherence of any kind and, an entire lack of access to a dictionary.


You are WAAAAYYY too tactful!

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RE: should I give up BDSM after PTSD - 9/26/2015 7:00:08 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Bunnicula


quote:

ORIGINAL: LookieNoNookie


After having read some 6 or 7 of your posts, I've come to the conclusion that your issue is neither PTSD or BDSM, rather, familiarity with the English language, coherence of any kind and, an entire lack of access to a dictionary.


You are WAAAAYYY too tactful!


(I'm a giver....sue me).

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