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how to handle Horny or not Horny Happily or unhappily M... - 9/24/2015 7:19:42 PM

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Just for kicks unless you want to chime in

Again as since College(With real lifers) or since dropping out of college someone online passed herself to be single with pics and on her profile

We start a conversation etc...How many days hours etc....Beside the point topic of discussion is sex bdsm amongst many things

I return to email Her one day night etc...and get a message or mail from Her Husband Her significant another Dom

If I reply I'm sorry I didn't know she was your wife significant other or you were her Dom
shall I also end it with but she never told Me or have you re read her profile

What now.....

If she sends an email saying eirher I'm sorry for not telling you or You were too attractive not to start a conversation
or to do cyber sex chat

Whats your opinion on people who do this sort of thing

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RE: how to handle Horny or not Horny Happily or unhappi... - 9/25/2015 2:58:17 AM

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They don't deserve my attention. Waste of time and space.

If someone's husband/Dom has given them permission to cyber online, then fine, green light go. If not? Back the hell away and leave it alone, more drama than it is worth.

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RE: how to handle Horny or not Horny Happily or unhappi... - 9/25/2015 3:25:19 AM

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Give the Girl a Cigar

How about If our conversations were of Her relocating to NY

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RE: how to handle Horny or not Horny Happily or unhappi... - 9/25/2015 3:39:03 AM

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Give the Girl a Cigar

How about If our conversations were of Her relocating to NY

Unless she is divorced - as in, all papers signed, papers served and court date arranged - then no. Even if she agreed to relocating without divorcing her husband, there are two outcomes.
1) She is just stringing you along and talking bullshit.
2) She comes to NY, and brings a shitload of baggage and drama.
Not worth it.

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RE: how to handle Horny or not Horny Happily or unhappi... - 9/25/2015 4:17:50 AM

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I understand but lets say She wasn't Married just wearing a Collar what then

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RE: how to handle Horny or not Horny Happily or unhappi... - 9/25/2015 8:01:16 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: MS4S

Just for kicks unless you want to chime in

Again as since College(With real lifers) or since dropping out of college someone online passed herself to be single with pics and on her profile

We start a conversation etc...How many days hours etc....Beside the point topic of discussion is sex bdsm amongst many things

I return to email Her one day night etc...and get a message or mail from Her Husband Her significant another Dom

If I reply I'm sorry I didn't know she was your wife significant other or you were her Dom
shall I also end it with but she never told Me or have you re read her profile

What now.....

If she sends an email saying eirher I'm sorry for not telling you or You were too attractive not to start a conversation
or to do cyber sex chat

Whats your opinion on people who do this sort of thing

Actually, it sounds like the "woman" was actually a man and when he felt that the fantasy was going too far for him, he went back to being a man in order to get you to bugger off.

Did you chat with her via video to confirm she was real or was this conversation strictly email/chat?

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RE: how to handle Horny or not Horny Happily or unhappi... - 9/25/2015 8:09:09 AM

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I understand but lets say She wasn't Married just wearing a Collar what then

Let's say you're looking not for answers -- which you already got (there's aren't a lot of realistic choices) -- but some sort of wank fodder fantasy.

Come on, you can do better than that ... let's say she's wearing the collar and nothing else and handcuffs herself to your front porch with her legs spread and a sign that says "Take me, fuck me, own me, do with me as you will" -- what then?

Instead of worrying about the less than honest one that got away -- and you should be glad about that -- focus on whom you'd actually want and built a relationship.

When you're done with the wank thread, that is.

Hope that helps!

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RE: how to handle Horny or not Horny Happily or unhappi... - 9/25/2015 10:53:24 AM

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I understand but lets say She wasn't Married just wearing a Collar what then

Let's say you lived your whole life believing that the sky was pink. One day someone tells you it's not pink. They say the sky is green. So what then. What color is the sky for real? Okay....pretend you were never told what color the sky is. What color do you think it should be? What color could it be? What color can the sky not be and the color of grass is orange.

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