HoneyBears
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Joined: 11/5/2013 From: Pennsylvania Status: offline
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ORIGINAL: poise I'm sorry Manko, but do you really feel so self important that your taking leave of the boards would make Mod3 feel responsible? Puhhlease. Most never even noticed you were gone, let alone shed a tear over your absence. None of us here are any more special than the rest, and that includes you. Now please, if you truly have respect for ResidentSadist as you claim, perhaps you can refrain from making HIS post all about YOU. Well, it is not just dominants who act like prima donnas around here, but there do tend to be more dominants who come on these forums to incessantly self-promote. Why should any dominant presume untouchability by the responses of other dominants, as if being one entitles one to breathe only rarefied air, makes little sense to those grounded in reality who do not live in ivory towers of their own making. quote:
ORIGINAL: ShoeDivaManko And there were MANY of them. Many of them also being Dominant women. Then at the end of it something about my parentage was thrown out there indirectly. I immediately deleted my profile. We come on these boards sporadically, but might I suggest that if a poster refrains from getting uncivilly personal with other posters as well as not taking other's posts so personally, chances are you would not feel as if you were getting slighted on those occasions. Sometimes a dissenting point of view is merely that, and deserves to stand on its own merits without taking away from your subjective viewpoint. Unless I am reading into your comment incorrectly, you seem to think that other dommes should always support you and have your back, as if there was an unofficial femdom forum club we all belong to. Now, I can see women rising to the defense of another woman, or men supporting another man due to their respective shared experiences--but this does not always unfold like that either. I must have missed the bit about your parentage. You have made many references to your upbringing and how this has shaped you as the woman you are, how you relate to others, and the roots of your female supremacist views. It is entirely possible that it is this perspective which came under fire (if that was the case), and not a deliberate attempt to offend you and your family of origin. You do indicate this reference was made "indirectly." You and I have not butted heads, but if I were to take exception to something you posted, I would also want to ascertain where you were coming from and whatever kind of headspace you might be occupying. (To the extent practicable, of course.) There is nothing personal about that. -- Lisa
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