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MS4S -> deal breakers vs reality (9/25/2015 8:55:53 PM)
Cold feet vs using sexual attraction looks when comparing other Doms side by Side What can be done If in a 2 or so yr span females whom I speak about engaging in a Casual play scene either a)Stood Me up b)Have a change of heart c)use sorry excuses to justfy canceling If atleast one female used the Too attractive for My own good excuse Shall I relate it to the other Doms she's talking to are less attractive then Me excuse or Cop out

Bunnicula -> RE: deal breakers vs reality (9/25/2015 11:23:30 PM)
You are the common denominator here. Clearly there is something about you that makes you significantly less attractive than so many other people (we'll ignore the 'dom' bit for now). It's something about YOU that turns them off big time and possibly repulses them too. I can't work out what it is though. [8\|]

sexyred1 -> RE: deal breakers vs reality (9/26/2015 12:58:09 AM)
I can work it out perfectly. [:)][:)]

NookieNotes -> RE: deal breakers vs reality (9/26/2015 3:02:11 AM)
Hmmm. I'll have to noodle on this a while... LOL!

ShoeDivaManko -> RE: deal breakers vs reality (9/26/2015 6:22:14 AM)
It might be a good idea to skype before meeting. Your pics are highly attractive and look like you may be a catfish. They may be doubting your authenticity. I certainly did when a very chiseled Dom who is also a champion weightlifter claimed he wanted to be my maso. It sounds nice in theory but until it actually happens there is no way to know for certain, especially in cyberspace. Just consider how many times men have seen pics like yours and they turned out to be an unrealistic expectation. Hopefully this helps. Good luck.

Bunnicula -> RE: deal breakers vs reality (9/26/2015 8:31:26 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sexyred1 I can work it out perfectly. [:)][:)] They still haven't added a 'like' button here, I see! [:D]

DesFIP -> RE: deal breakers vs reality (9/26/2015 12:43:04 PM)
It's not physical. It's mental. You're so erratic and delusional they didn't feel safe with you. Please get some professional help.

OsideGirl -> RE: deal breakers vs reality (9/26/2015 12:52:04 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ShoeDivaManko It might be a good idea to skype before meeting. Your pics are highly attractive and look like you may be a catfish. The OP is a male Dom. He says the picture is of an ex-submissive that he collared online. In almost every single post he talks about how attractive he is....to the point where if I was meeting him, I'd be turned off.

SDFemDom4cuck -> RE: deal breakers vs reality (9/26/2015 1:04:11 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MS4S Cold feet vs using sexual attraction looks when comparing other Doms side by Side What can be done If in a 2 or so yr span females whom I speak about engaging in a Casual play scene either a)Stood Me up b)Have a change of heart c)use sorry excuses to justfy canceling If atleast one female used the Too attractive for My own good excuse Shall I relate it to the other Doms she's talking to are less attractive then Me excuse or Cop out Given your hyperactive posting over the last two days I would say that your behavior is the issue over looks. I would feel safe in saying they were using a kind excuse. If your behavior here is any indication of your normal behavior, I would safely say you freaked them out. I would seriously suggest speaking with a medical professional and dealing with your imbalance before even worrying about playing on a casual level. Playing while going through whatever you are dealing with is not safe by any means for anyone. Seriously, deal with your emotional imbalance prior to involving others, especially as a supposed Dominant.

LuminousFire -> RE: deal breakers vs reality (10/22/2015 9:24:54 AM)
Your gallery of stolen images makes me want me run to the shop for more vats of tar and a strange urge for pink feathers tonight..they are giving me a special discount today the balls on some of you - why don’t you go with some big balls picture as yours must be truly gargantuan. a)Stood Me up there are not who or what they appear, a fake - dictionary definition b)Have a change of heart fake dictionary definitiong c)use sorry excuses to justify cancelling fake dictionary definition The odd genuine person may back out but they are allowed to do so. Discover which ones they are and their intent quickly I am not here to define what a real and genuine person is and their intent for people I tar and feather. The common denominator is actually their lack of credible reality if all your words are true. And never forget some people; single; married or attached, just yearn for someone to talk too, be close too, to fill time. Some actually say that on their profiles because they have bigger balls (petals?) than most, and I am fine with that

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