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Pain stick love/hate relationship - 7/17/2006 1:10:59 PM

SweetSarijane

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Saturday night, in the course of my first scene, a pain stick was used on me. It's a short, metal stick about the thickness of a wire hanger and on a handle. I love it and hate it at the same time. It stings and then burns, and burns and burns with each hit. Anyone else have experience with this and if so how do you feel about it? I will continue to experience it and not put it as a limit, but it's one of the most intense and painful things I've experienced. Just curious on others views and experiences with it.

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RE: Pain stick love/hate relationship - 7/17/2006 1:25:04 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: SweetSarijane

Saturday night, in the course of my first scene, a pain stick was used on me. It's a short, metal stick about the thickness of a wire hanger and on a handle. I love it and hate it at the same time. It stings and then burns, and burns and burns with each hit. Anyone else have experience with this and if so how do you feel about it? I will continue to experience it and not put it as a limit, but it's one of the most intense and painful things I've experienced. Just curious on others views and experiences with it.

I've played both sides of the whip, as sadist and bottom. I don't process pain into pleasure-I will go into shock and pass out before that happens. I know also, what it feels like to be beaten with wire.

The pain becomes your world.

Fire. What do I think of it? Something we can use.

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RE: Pain stick love/hate relationship - 7/17/2006 2:54:17 PM

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If it's about 8-10 inches long with a handle on it, I believe youre talking about what we call an evil stick .. and yes, it hurts like a mother leaving the most precise little whelps than first burn then later start itching like a bee sting .... most amusing eh?? *grins*

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RE: Pain stick love/hate relationship - 7/17/2006 3:02:36 PM

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i haven't had any experience with that particular item. But my Master has some that are very similar and i feel the same way about it. But i have to admit that i prefer He uses it when i am somewhat gone.LOL
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RE: Pain stick love/hate relationship - 7/17/2006 3:20:15 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: enthralled

If it's about 8-10 inches long with a handle on it, I believe youre talking about what we call an evil stick .. and yes, it hurts like a mother leaving the most precise little whelps than first burn then later start itching like a bee sting .... most amusing eh?? *grins*

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That looks very similar to it yes, but this one was a bit smaller and no ball on it like the pic shows. Evil stick huh? lol the Dom who has it calls it a pain stick, I asked. Hmmm........Painfully evil stick maybe??? Evilly painful stick????<grin>. Amusing....yeah in an omg that f***in burns kind of way. I seriously don't know if I love it or hate it more. It is just soooo very intense and yep, I've got a whole lot of those very precise welts on my upper back and butt lol.

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RE: Pain stick love/hate relationship - 7/17/2006 3:26:15 PM

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*Slowly backs out of thread holding bottom*

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RE: Pain stick love/hate relationship - 7/17/2006 4:39:55 PM

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Actually that is a picture of the Evil Stick Tormentor - there is another with a wooden heart on the end. There is an entire line of Evil Sticks.
The regular one
The Tormentor - with ball or heart
The Evil Stick wand
The Double Evil Stick
The Evil Cane
I have a friend who sells these at Fetish Fairs all over and his web site if anyone is interested.

The evil stick is most delicioulsy evil - oh yeah

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RE: Pain stick love/hate relationship - 7/17/2006 4:59:23 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: SweetSarijane

Saturday night, in the course of my first scene, a pain stick was used on me. It's a short, metal stick about the thickness of a wire hanger and on a handle. I love it and hate it at the same time. It stings and then burns, and burns and burns with each hit. Anyone else have experience with this and if so how do you feel about it? I will continue to experience it and not put it as a limit, but it's one of the most intense and painful things I've experienced. Just curious on others views and experiences with it.

Sounds like MY kind of toy to try...thanks for the idea! I'm sure there'll be an appreciative someone out there who'll thank you also...~grins~

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RE: Pain stick love/hate relationship - 7/17/2006 5:06:30 PM

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My slave has the same kind of relationship with a rubber whip I use on her. I just may have to introduce her to this stick too.

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RE: Pain stick love/hate relationship - 7/17/2006 5:14:15 PM

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ORIGINAL: CreativeDominant

Sounds like MY kind of toy to try...thanks for the idea! I'm sure there'll be an appreciative someone out there who'll thank you also...~grins~

rofl.......oh you are very welcome.

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RE: Pain stick love/hate relationship - 7/17/2006 5:15:59 PM

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ORIGINAL: Estring

My slave has the same kind of relationship with a rubber whip I use on her. I just may have to introduce her to this stick too.

Uh oh...lol.

I've had a rubber flogger used on me before and it stung like crazy but it's nowhere near as intense as the stick...not even close.

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RE: Pain stick love/hate relationship - 7/17/2006 5:17:32 PM

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I may regret this...lol...but I am a masochist.....would love to see the website and check out the different styles.

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RE: Pain stick love/hate relationship - 7/17/2006 6:54:43 PM

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<makes a mental note not to let Master see this particular thread>

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RE: Pain stick love/hate relationship - 7/17/2006 6:59:38 PM

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Floggers made out of fresh leather shoelaces get interesting reactions too.

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RE: Pain stick love/hate relationship - 7/17/2006 7:53:01 PM

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quote:

Anyone else have experience with this and if so how do you feel about it? I will continue to experience it and not put it as a limit, but it's one of the most intense and painful things I've experienced. Just curious on others views and experiences with it

There's a reason they call it a mix of pain and pleasure.

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RE: Pain stick love/hate relationship - 7/17/2006 8:05:58 PM

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NO! That looks really really really mean!

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RE: Pain stick love/hate relationship - 7/18/2006 3:00:08 AM

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My pleasure Sara
enjoy
http://www.swtchr2.com/evil_stick_family_tm.htm

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RE: Pain stick love/hate relationship - 7/18/2006 3:14:54 AM

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From the website "now the rage in New England...." , now I difinitely want to try it out! (looks around for littlepita}.

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RE: Pain stick love/hate relationship - 7/18/2006 3:43:10 AM

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I have not experienced that particular item, something similar to it. All i can say at the moment is *whimperz* i miss pain. Gawwdd that looks yummy.

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RE: Pain stick love/hate relationship - 7/18/2006 12:04:13 PM

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Yikes. Having experienced being hit with a wire hanger (and I would never use one to hang my clothes on, LOL) I thought that was the worst pain ever and I scream if I see one.

Now this stick looks too evil!

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