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Pain Sluts - 7/17/2006 1:40:20 PM

malepainslut2003

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Do Mistresses really like pain sluts. I have had little interest as such, is that something that scares away dominates? Please help!

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RE: Pain Sluts - 7/17/2006 1:59:20 PM

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some do...some don't but yes, they do exist. I would just be up front with your preferences and limits and you'll find someone who gels with you eventually. You may need to be patient, though ;) good luck

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RE: Pain Sluts - 7/17/2006 3:00:17 PM

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i think the reason you have had little interest is not to do with your tolorance for pain but because you profile needs a major rehaul.

things that might be off putting :

you dont present yourself as a person.

you dont offer a mistress anything but meat to beat (there is no shortage of sub boys who want that trust me) no skills, no personality, no humor, no history, no warmth...

you dont have a picture, any picture would be better then nothing...

to me it feel as though you have no essence.

please go and read some of the insightful comments on this thread lot of great advice there

http://www.collarchat.com/tm.asp?m=481733&mpage=1&key=&#481890

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RE: Pain Sluts - 7/17/2006 6:52:54 PM

MasterFireMaam

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I agree with crouchingtigress...you're profile is more than lacking. And, in all honesty, I can get the meet and beat anywhere. What do you have to offer?

A friend reading over my shoulder has made a good point. To him, your profiles say, "You will beat me and you will make me happy!" So, again, what do you have to offer?

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< Message edited by MasterFireMaam -- 7/17/2006 6:56:15 PM >

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RE: Pain Sluts - 7/17/2006 7:04:55 PM

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wow, acually i think i just got beat. no really, I appreciate your comments and I will look up this information and brush up on my profile. Thank you A/all

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RE: Pain Sluts - 7/17/2006 8:03:42 PM

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lol...let me know when you have made some changes ill be happy to give it a look see..

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ORIGINAL: malepainslut2003

wow, acually i think i just got beat. no really, I appreciate your comments and I will look up this information and brush up on my profile. Thank you A/all

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RE: Pain Sluts - 7/17/2006 10:18:59 PM

HarryVanWinkle

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quote:

ORIGINAL: crouchingtigress

i think the reason you have had little interest is not to do with your tolorance for pain but because you profile needs a major rehaul.

things that might be off putting :

you dont present yourself as a person.

you dont offer a mistress anything but meat to beat (there is no shortage of sub boys who want that trust me) no skills, no personality, no humor, no history, no warmth...

you dont have a picture, any picture would be better then nothing...

to me it feel as though you have no essence.

please go and read some of the insightful comments on this thread lot of great advice there

http://www.collarchat.com/tm.asp?m=481733&mpage=1&key=&#481890

I'm also a pain slut. How does my profile measure up?

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RE: Pain Sluts - 7/17/2006 10:44:57 PM

crouchingtigress

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it says profile not found....

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ORIGINAL: HarryVanWinkle

quote:

ORIGINAL: crouchingtigress

i think the reason you have had little interest is not to do with your tolorance for pain but because you profile needs a major rehaul.

things that might be off putting :

you dont present yourself as a person.

you dont offer a mistress anything but meat to beat (there is no shortage of sub boys who want that trust me) no skills, no personality, no humor, no history, no warmth...

you dont have a picture, any picture would be better then nothing...

to me it feel as though you have no essence.

please go and read some of the insightful comments on this thread lot of great advice there

http://www.collarchat.com/tm.asp?m=481733&mpage=1&key=&#481890

I'm also a pain slut. How does my profile measure up?

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RE: Pain Sluts - 7/18/2006 10:04:15 PM

HarryVanWinkle

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Umm, did you read the bottom line of my signature?

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RE: Pain Sluts - 7/19/2006 5:03:20 AM

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I'm also a pain slut. How does my profile measure up?
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Your profile is great. Funny, entertaining, interesting. It gives the reader a great sense of who and what you are.

And another note to the OP. (read Harry's profile for comparison) If you haven't invested much in your profile so far you might want to scratch it and come back with a better nic. I don't know about others but I'm a bit put off by nics that are kink or sex related unless it's a cute play on words or funny. Example BonerMaroney would be funny, BigBonerMan would be bad.

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