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Splitting Up Owners - 7/17/2006 1:54:41 PM   
peterK50


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Status: offline 		This may a be rather rare but has anyone else ever served a Dom/ Domme couple who split up & then you had to choose which one to continue serving? It happened to me & I wonder if it has happened to anyone else.

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RE: Splitting Up Owners - 7/17/2006 2:06:19 PM   
maybemaybenot


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< Message edited by maybemaybenot -- 7/17/2006 2:07:46 PM >

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RE: Splitting Up Owners - 7/17/2006 2:08:18 PM   
subedana


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Status: offline 		No thank god, that would just so suck.

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RE: Splitting Up Owners - 7/17/2006 2:11:36 PM   
desertdancer


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Status: offline 		Peter, I can see why they would both want to keep you, I mean, look atcha.  But in all seriousness, I'm sorry you had to go through that.  I can't imaging how rough that was or is for you.  How do you decide...or maybe they can have shared custody like divorced parents do.  Wow, that would be a tough call deciding who to serve.  I don't envy you.

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RE: Splitting Up Owners - 7/17/2006 2:33:27 PM   
littleone35


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Status: offline 		I have never serves a couple but i don't konw what i would do it would be so hard.  I too am sorry you had to go through this.

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RE: Splitting Up Owners - 7/17/2006 2:37:06 PM   
peterK50


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Status: offline 		Thank you everyone , it was traumatic, & I was an adult!

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RE: Splitting Up Owners - 7/17/2006 3:50:47 PM   
JessieMe


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Status: offline 		I am still waiting to hear who he picked and why>> LOL

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RE: Splitting Up Owners - 7/18/2006 3:02:45 AM   
kiud


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Status: offline 		well, I don't think it is you who are entitled to choose: it's up to them. They have to deal with the problem and make a decison

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RE: Splitting Up Owners - 7/18/2006 2:18:25 PM   
proudsub


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Status: offline 		This could be an interesting court battle, who gets the sub?

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RE: Splitting Up Owners - 7/18/2006 3:00:44 PM   
LadyHugs


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Status: offline 		Dear peterK50,
 
So sorry to hear about this dilema slave peter.
 
It is hard enough to pick favorites but, perhaps you can remain in service to both and spend time with each, negotiated of course between them both.
 
Have I had the situation myself, I would beg release from both of them as not to be forced to choose.  Really is a no-win situation if you did choose.  Splits are so ugly.
 
Respectfully submitted,
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RE: Splitting Up Owners - 7/18/2006 3:03:05 PM   
juliaoceania


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ORIGINAL: kiud

well, I don't think it is you who are entitled to choose: it's up to them. They have to deal with the problem and make a decison


I would think that he may get his choice seeing that if they had a contract it would be void if they all entered into it together?

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RE: Splitting Up Owners - 7/18/2006 7:16:50 PM   
NYGHTVISIONS


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Status: offline 		Personally, let me express my sympathy for your sad situation.
In my household, if something like that were to occur, being i have 2 submissives, i would want the decision to be a happy one for everyone involved - as happy as could be. As I have a distaste for submissive doormats and always use input from all parties to make my final decisions, I would decide to release both submissives if that is what they chose or if the one not leaving chose to stay on, then that would be my decision. But I base everything on everyone involved being as happy as possible.
Good luck,
Nyghtvisions

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RE: Splitting Up Owners - 7/19/2006 9:25:10 PM   
syreena


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Status: offline 		peterK50, i can say that yes this did happen to me and i don't wish to discuss it on the boards.  However, i will say that it was one of the hardest processes of my life and i can honestly feel for you.  Please feel free to contact me.

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RE: Splitting Up Owners - 7/19/2006 10:05:19 PM   
HarryVanWinkle


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quote:

ORIGINAL: kiud

well, I don't think it is you who are entitled to choose: it's up to them. They have to deal with the problem and make a decison


Of course he's entitled to choose.  Unless one of them doesn't want him, the choice is entirely his.  I'd say in this situation, he can choose one, the other or neither.

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RE: Splitting Up Owners - 7/20/2006 2:16:01 AM   
nephandi


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Status: offline 		It depend on the nature of the relationship, some D/s relationships the sub have no choice and is property and then yes, it would be the choice of the Dominats, but if he have a ligther relationship, he will probably get to choose, not all relationships are alike.

Harry i adore your avatar picture. It is so cute.

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RE: Splitting Up Owners - 7/20/2006 3:09:40 AM   
babysburnin


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quote:

ORIGINAL: peterK50

This may a be rather rare but has anyone else ever served a Dom/ Domme couple who split up & then you had to choose which one to continue serving? It happened to me & I wonder if it has happened to anyone else.


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RE: Splitting Up Owners - 7/20/2006 7:15:24 AM   
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RE: Splitting Up Owners - 7/24/2006 3:24:20 PM   
indenturedslave


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Status: offline 		I'm very curious about something and perhaps I shouldn't ask but....who did you choose? Mistress or Master? Being straight (but open to serving a couple) my knee jerk response is to think Mistress ofcourse. However on thinking about it more, the decision might not be that easy.

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