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ORIGINAL: Herrnussbaum

I've tinkered with BDSM for over 20 years since I first saw a fetish magazine at a female barber's chair. I've been fascinated by this lifestyle through several long term relationships and two marriages. Now, single again, I've decided to look at this as my lifestyle, living with a sub or slave and developing my skills in various activities. My dominant nature was dormant for too long and it's freeing to allow it to flourish.

I'm patiently taking my time to find the right woman. I've also been interested in poly relationships and am open to exploring that area as well. I've had play sessions with women of all ages. While I don't want to set limits on who would interest me, I am finding that younger women in their 20's and early 30's don't have the firm family relationships that lock into a location or holiday seasons. Women in their 40's and 50's have wonderful life experiences, but often have children or grandchildren and aren't willing to move away from a geographic area.

Sub or slave? It's a continuum and I'm still trying to figure out where my interests and needs lie. I would appreciate hearing from women who define themselves along somewhere along the spectrum - if a sub, what distinguishes you from a slave, or vice versa.

The first few steps of this journey has begun for me.

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ORIGINAL: Herrnussbaum

I've tinkered with BDSM for over 20 years since I first saw a fetish magazine at a female barber's chair. I've been fascinated by this lifestyle through several long term relationships and two marriages. Now, single again, I've decided to look at this as my lifestyle, living with a sub or slave and developing my skills in various activities. My dominant nature was dormant for too long and it's freeing to allow it to flourish.

I'm patiently taking my time to find the right woman. I've also been interested in poly relationships and am open to exploring that area as well. I've had play sessions with women of all ages. While I don't want to set limits on who would interest me, I am finding that younger women in their 20's and early 30's don't have the firm family relationships that lock into a location or holiday seasons. Women in their 40's and 50's have wonderful life experiences, but often have children or grandchildren and aren't willing to move away from a geographic area.

Sub or slave? It's a continuum and I'm still trying to figure out where my interests and needs lie. I would appreciate hearing from women who define themselves along somewhere along the spectrum - if a sub, what distinguishes you from a slave, or vice versa.

The first few steps of this journey has begun for me.