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crumpets -> RE: Fake women and men scammers. (10/4/2015 9:10:56 PM)

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ORIGINAL: OsideGirl
I have found the majority of people that complain about fakes.....are the people desperate enough to fall for them.

What's amazing is that not only the OP, but three of the OP's own cohort socks are first-time posters , suspiciously all whining the same tune.
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ORIGINAL: OsideGirl
Most fakes are fairly obvious. If you ignore the warning signs, you have no one to blame but yourself.

I would say that 95% of the fakes are obvious. I try to make all my fakes not obvious, so, I've studied them. But even then, people figure it out. Smart people that is. The dumb ones (like the OP and his 3 consort socks), never figure it out.
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ORIGINAL: peppermint
4. You whine. That is a very unflattering characteristic.

Kudos to peppermint for reading the guy's profile, and giving him advice.
Now let's see if he is capable of taking it.
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ORIGINAL: stef
It's a neck and neck race between the parasites and the whiners. I expect it'll be a photo finish.

+1. I'm pressing the LIKE button as hard as I can!

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ORIGINAL: Bunnicula
I'll try to remember how to embed pics so I can share my 'Marvin the paranoid android' meme with the world. [8D]

You simply put [IMAGE] tags around the URL to the photo.
Like this...
[image]https://s-media-cache-ak0.pinimg.com/236x/dd/29/4a/dd294ae0c56cb4c81310c1d454343f57.jpg[/image]
The only gotcha is that you need to ensure they're smaller than about 640x480, and that the picture is CS friendly.
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ORIGINAL: Bunnicula
Scammers tend to be attracted to people who seem to be desperate to get their kink on. They look for profiles which are all 'do me' text and nekkid pics. They know they don't have to do much to part a porn-addled fool from his money.

This is an interesting observation.
I do get a message once in a while from a scammer, but, I simply block and hide and move on.
Once in a while, they tell me to go offsite, which is almost always a scam, and when I do that, the first message is a dead giveaway, so, I just delete and ignore.

I think, however, most of the scammers are actively sought by the scammee. Only the poster can say for sure, but, I suspect the scammers put out the honey pot first, and wait for the idiot to contact them. I think the scammers don't actively seek out the morons simply because that's more work than having the morons themselves seek out the scammer.

Maybe I should run an experimental profile to test out this nascent hypothesis.
1. I'd create moron number 1, and just sit there. (Maybe I'll just copy the OP's profile, word for word, just as a control?)
2. I'd create moron number 2, and actively contact all females 18 to 28 under 120 pounds within 5,000 miles.

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ORIGINAL: DarkMekare
Perhaps I am an exception but, very rarely do I ever encounter fakes. I wonder if this is more prevalent for men

Like I said above, I think the fakes are contacted BY the men first, for the most part.
It's only then that the scammer gets to reel in the scammee.
It would seem, to me, too much work for the scammer to contact all the idiot profiles because only 1 in 1,000 is a total moron like the OP, who would fall for the scam in the first place.
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ORIGINAL: Lucylastic
Is that everyone here except those complaining of scammers are ACTUALLY REAL.

It doesn't work in both directions, but, pretty much, if you look at a profile, and then (after reading the profile and the journal), if you then click on the forum posts, and if you find forum posts, then almost certainly the person is real (in my experience).

It doesn't work the other way though, in that plenty of real people don't post in the forum (aka collarchat).
For that, one has to just use a modicum of common sense.

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ORIGINAL: Unownedslave00
Is there a list anywhere of these profiles so we all don't waste anymore time on introductions to scammers and fakes.

Is collar me fakes still around?
It had two sections.
The first section (the fake profile section) was dubious in that some real people were listed as fake simply because they didn't respond to someone's liking.

However, the second half was very reliable, which listed all the fake pictures, and where they came from.
I didn't bother to check but if that site is still in business, it would be useful for the fake-picture purpose (since someone else already did all your homework).

As I recall, since I had outed hundreds (upon hundreds) of fake pictures on that site, the site admin was a former Collarme moderator who was disgusted by the way things were going (personal communication).

I got bored as it was ineffective to out the fake profiles one by one on that web site. In the end, I simply maintain a list of my own, which has hundreds of the collarspace profile URLs, and I just click on them, one by one, and block/hide and move on.

This makes any search I run come up with less than a page (i.e., fewer than about 25) potential relationship mates.
Methinks the whiny victims of the scammers needs to do the same.




angelikaJ -> RE: Fake women and men scammers. (10/5/2015 12:13:15 AM)

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I realised today after seeing yet another forum thread (elsewhere) that I have been seriously deprived.

The reason being: I did not have scores of cmails from fakes and scammers.

I have met quite a few people in r/l and they were all real.

Thinking back on it I wonder if the reason why I never found scores of fakes and wannabes is simply because I wasn't looking for them.

I sought information and found plenty of that.
I was interested in the possibility of friendships and discovered people I could have that with in varying depths.
I was interested in connection and I found that too!

When one relationship ended, I did not wring my hands, nor gnash my teeth over how fake he turned out to be.
I was gratetful for the experience.
I learned.
In the beginning, I learned to trust.
In the middle, I learned that "direction was more important than speed".
In the end, I learned I was stronger than I knew.
We are still friends.

Now I am in a different relationship that is better suited to my needs.
I want to serve Him well...as well as He leads.

The chances of it lasting forever are pretty close to nil.
I am being realistic, not pessimistic: the odds that any relationship will last forever, is also pretty close to nil.
Rumor has it that people eventually die.
Today is all we ever really have.


So...I am loving being His and loving my "happy middle".


IF it were to end tomorrow however, he will not suddenly go from being Master Wonderful to a scum sucking fake.

I know the search is frustrating to so many people.

There probably are tons of fakes, scammers, liars and wankers.
I just didn't notice them.
I was too busy getting to know good people and reading interesting posts to have much time for anything else, I think.

from http://www.collarchat.com/fb.asp?m=2774994




MissKatya -> RE: Fake women and men scammers. (10/5/2015 11:37:33 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: Unownedslave00

What a shame this site is drowning in parasites !
Is there a list anywhere of these profiles so we all don't waste anymore time on introductions to scammers and fakes.

Come on Collarchat help us to clean this site of fakes,scammers. Once and for all it really is getting a bad name in the kink community. !


I'm kind of confused on this.

If you are offering to pay someone, how are they a fake or scammer? I see if they reached out to you, asking for money but you are the one who is offering.

If anything, I consider you a fake for putting the offer of a monetary tribute out there publicly, knowing that you wouldn't be able to pay for a fraction of those who contacts you.







slavemali -> RE: Fake women and men scammers. (10/8/2015 9:02:17 AM)

took me a minute on that one LadyPact ... thank you that was clever

slavemali




alpha499 -> RE: Fake women and men scammers. (10/8/2015 7:27:56 PM)

I agree , a higher priority is to get rid of people who kiss the Mods asses by showing too much respect to the TOS for favoritism.




angelikaJ -> RE: Fake women and men scammers. (10/8/2015 7:36:10 PM)

You agree to follow the TOS as a condition to being a member on the site.

IF you disagree with them, no one is forcing you to participate.




alpha499 -> RE: Fake women and men scammers. (10/8/2015 7:51:16 PM)

[sm=violin.gif] angelika would you stop stalking my ass everywhere,[:D]




Wayward5oul -> RE: Fake women and men scammers. (10/8/2015 7:55:54 PM)


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ORIGINAL: alpha499

[sm=violin.gif] angelika would you stop stalking my ass everywhere,[:D]

You are making multiple posts on multiple boards on a public forum. No one is stalking you. You are running all over these boards with a big blinking sign that "Pay attention to me!"




alpha499 -> RE: Fake women and men scammers. (10/8/2015 8:05:31 PM)

Yeah [sm=fingers.gif] signs are there for a reason , to pay attention to them, especially blinking ones , are you blaming business owners also for spending lot of money on a blinking signs? Why I am here on this website in your assumption ? I am here for a reason,and I sure wanna stand out among others, sheesh. Just go to sleep let me play my violin [sm=violin.gif]




AQRMZ -> RE: Fake women and men scammers. (10/8/2015 8:09:00 PM)

@alpha 2 or 4 99 or whatever you are calling yourself now, hahahaha a 20yo german male lesbian, hahahaha hey folks look at it's profile, doesn't even know if it is a boy sock or a girl sock.


"You are making multiple posts on multiple boards on a public forum. No one is stalking you.

You are running all over these boards with a big blinking sign that "Pay attention to me!" "

You sure got that right W S.


It is even more like you are out here saying, "pay attention to my foolish stupid insulting ass."

No wonder you got banned and lots of your "posts" are "under consideration".




alpha499 -> RE: Fake women and men scammers. (10/9/2015 12:16:22 PM)

How many times shall I delete your stupid ass from " who's viewing me" tab,
What are you looking at? Nomatter how many times I delete your ass you bounce back there like a dead racoon, what a slimy scumbag




Wayward5oul -> RE: Fake women and men scammers. (10/9/2015 12:21:10 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: alpha499

How many times shall I delete your stupid ass from " who's viewing me" tab,
What are you looking at? Nomatter how many times I delete your ass you bounce back there like a dead racoon, what a slimy scumbag

Probably fewer times than I've had to delete you from mine.




crumpets -> RE: Fake women and men scammers. (10/9/2015 3:14:48 PM)

Who even LOOKS at the "who's viewing me" tab?
If they viewed, and didn't send a message, that's often not a good thing.
The only tab that matters to me is the "new messages" tab.




Wayward5oul -> RE: Fake women and men scammers. (10/9/2015 3:18:39 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: crumpets

Who even LOOKS at the "who's viewing me" tab?
If they viewed, and didn't send a message, that's often not a good thing.
The only tab that matters to me is the "new messages" tab.

I check it out just to see who has stumbled across my profile. But that's it.




LadyPact -> RE: Fake women and men scammers. (10/9/2015 3:29:48 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: crumpets
Who even LOOKS at the "who's viewing me" tab?
If they viewed, and didn't send a message, that's often not a good thing.
The only tab that matters to me is the "new messages" tab.

I don't technically look at it. I do, however, click the dang thing so the red highlight will go away.





Lucylastic -> RE: Fake women and men scammers. (10/9/2015 3:41:09 PM)

Me too, it irritates me when its red....




OsideGirl -> RE: Fake women and men scammers. (10/9/2015 3:53:06 PM)


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ORIGINAL: LadyPact


I don't technically look at it. I do, however, click the dang thing so the red highlight will go away.




Same here. The red bugs me.




cloverodella -> RE: Fake women and men scammers. (10/9/2015 4:17:38 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: crumpets

Who even LOOKS at the "who's viewing me" tab?
If they viewed, and didn't send a message, that's often not a good thing.
The only tab that matters to me is the "new messages" tab.


You do! You sent a message to me after I viewed your profile less than 3 weeks ago!

Hilarious.




Wayward5oul -> RE: Fake women and men scammers. (10/9/2015 4:45:47 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: cloverodella


quote:

ORIGINAL: crumpets

Who even LOOKS at the "who's viewing me" tab?
If they viewed, and didn't send a message, that's often not a good thing.
The only tab that matters to me is the "new messages" tab.


You do! You sent a message to me after I viewed your profile less than 3 weeks ago!

Hilarious.

[sm=rofl.gif]




alpha499 -> RE: Fake women and men scammers. (10/9/2015 5:10:32 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: cloverodella


quote:

ORIGINAL: crumpets

Who even LOOKS at the "who's viewing me" tab?
If they viewed, and didn't send a message, that's often not a good thing.
The only tab that matters to me is the "new messages" tab.


You do! You sent a message to me after I viewed your profile less than 3 weeks ago!

Hilarious.

in flagrante delicto




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