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RE: How to train a women with sub tendencies? - 10/8/2015 11:53:22 PM

sweetieDA

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ORIGINAL: capu5761
How did most of the female subs and slave get started?

I found horny stuff online that corresponded to the fantasies I'd always had and, after a few months of prevaricating through fear and indecision, I finally decided to allow a Dominant to phone me. He called me, we played over the phone - simple tasks like putting a drop of alcohol on my clit, or pegs on my nipples, or being dressed or being naked, masturbating, etc. By the end of the day I absolutely knew that I wanted this and I've been into it for 14 years ever since.

If you do decide to train a submissive, start with little tasks to get her used to the idea of following instructions, then escalate (or de-escalate) those tasks according to how she responds.

A word of warning - she's your ex for a reason, and that reason isn't solely BDSM. Whatever issues you had in the first place, you're likely to have all over again. Make sure you're prepared for that.

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