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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

Considering that the dude is seeking, I find it highly unlikely.


Here's something for you to think about. If it's really gotten to the point where a male who is obviously physically stronger by the s-type many times over, can't figure out how to get the person to submit without using his physical strength? It's time to let that person go.

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ORIGINAL: UllrsIshtar
As a submissive, if somebody would put a can of soda in front of me and a bottle of water and force me to choose by threat of a closed fist. I'd happily drink the soda to provoke him to beat me.
And if I deemed he didn't do it hard enough, I'd drink it again, until I was satisfied there would be enough evidence available.

Then... I'd pick up the phone, call the cops, and press charges against the asshole, and do everything I can to ensure he'd get the max allowable sentence for such an event.

And I don't even drink soda... but it'd be worth the sugar high to get the abuser put in jail.

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ORIGINAL: Wayward5oul

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ORIGINAL: UllrsIshtar
As a submissive, if somebody would put a can of soda in front of me and a bottle of water and force me to choose by threat of a closed fist. I'd happily drink the soda to provoke him to beat me.
And if I deemed he didn't do it hard enough, I'd drink it again, until I was satisfied there would be enough evidence available.

Then... I'd pick up the phone, call the cops, and press charges against the asshole, and do everything I can to ensure he'd get the max allowable sentence for such an event.

And I don't even drink soda... but it'd be worth the sugar high to get the abuser put in jail.

Oh Goddess Ishtar I bow to your wisdom. As a lowly sub who has relatively recently acknowledged her desire for kink, I desire to sit at your feet and learn from the wisdom that you deign to share with us. [:)]

Seriously though, I would have drank the coke just because he told me not to and threatened me, but it wouldn't have occurred to me to egg him to create solid evidence to nail him with. Filing that one away!

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ORIGINAL: jadedblessing

opening a coke.....because i can!

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ORIGINAL: OsideGirl

There's a difference between being dominant and being domineering. Bullying and abusiveness go under the heading of being domineering which is tied to feeling insecure.

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ORIGINAL: MuscleBoundDom



I'm somewhat afraid that I might knock out a tooth, etc., Lol.... but if the woman agrees to it...

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ORIGINAL: peppermint

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ORIGINAL: MuscleBoundDom



I'm somewhat afraid that I might knock out a tooth, etc., Lol.... but if the woman agrees to it...

If you might knock out a tooth what you are planning on doing is NOT punishment. It it just abuse and assault. You can go to jail for that even if you try to say she agreed to it. No one can legally agree to being assaulted.

If you yell and scream then I question that you are a dominant person at all. A dominant should have control of him or her self before considering taking control of another. If you have so little control that you need to yell and scream then obviously you lack self control.

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ORIGINAL: MuscleBoundDom

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ORIGINAL: OsideGirl

There's a difference between being dominant and being domineering. Bullying and abusiveness go under the heading of being domineering which is tied to feeling insecure.

You've got a very good point. I've never used corporal punishment on a submissive before. There are a lot of beautiful young female profiles that are asking to be beaten. It just got my imagination going and I thought I would ask other people's opinion. People who have experience in it.

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ORIGINAL: Wayward5oul

you were arrested-said video would probably not even be allowed as evidence.

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ORIGINAL: UllrsIshtar

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ORIGINAL: Wayward5oul

you were arrested-said video would probably not even be allowed as evidence.

Actually, such videos/contracts/etc do get admitted as evidence... just not on behalf of the defense.

The prosecution uses them to show intent, which aggravates the charges.

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ORIGINAL: alpha499

of course what else can you do other than sniffling for a new thread where you can squeeze your nose and annoy the author, *****TOS VIOLATION*****
for you who wanna discuss this matter in peace you can go ahead enjoy your time i will distract the Old farts .[:D]
[:D][:D]

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ORIGINAL: alpha499

Vidéos and recordings are not a valid evidence before the court, video taking and recordings must be authorized by a legal authority before they can be consisted as legal evidence, they can in some cases be considered as reference depending on the seriousness of the case, however in most cases you can be prosecuted for taking unauthorized videos and recordings,

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ORIGINAL: MuscleBoundDom

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ORIGINAL: OsideGirl

We don't have a punishment dynamic. I'm an adult. Telling me what I've done wrong and helping me work towards a solution is far more productive. And honestly, I want him to be happy, so dealing with his disappointment is far worse than anything he could do to me physically.

Your submissive shouldn't need to be bullied to serve you, she should want to serve you and you should be setting her up to succeed, not fail.

It's not about being bullied. Believe me, the corporal punishment is for the benefit of the submissive. I've tried talking with them to eat healthy and exercise but they don't listen. I try yelling, flogging, light pushing, etc., but to no avail. I believe by being more physical they will listen better. As a submissive, I'm sure if you had a can of soda and a bottle of water in front of you, and someone with a closed fist is telling you to choose wisely OR ELSE, you will drink the bottled water.

This is all for the benefit of the submissive.